Carla Ponder:  

CLASS OF 1976
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Birmingham, AL

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Hello Everyone! I am Carla Sue Ponder from the class of 1976.I went to E.B Erwin all of my school years~with the exception of my senior year.In May of 1975 my Parents sold our house and moved to Ohio. Where I stayed less than a month and moved back to Birmingham to live with my best friend.We went to Gardendale Vocational school. I spent my senior year, in the 11th grade! So I did not graduate with everyone I went to school with all my life, I dropped out.(My dreams had been shattered.) I wondered back and forth from Ohio to Alabama for several years.But finally wound up in Ohio and settled down.In 1990 I met my son's father at work.Now 21 yrs later and we are still together and have a decent life.We are both Medically retired from our jobs. In 2007 our lives changed dramatically. I had 2 major heart attacks and Tony had 2 strokes.We were both hospitalized leaving our 15 yr. old ALONE with my Mother (who was seriously ill.)Cody grew up QUICKLY.(My son) I had open heart surgery in August of 2006 having 5 by-pass done.From there I went in a Nursing Home to recuperate from the heart surgery and the amputations I was experiencing- and yet to experience 3 times total surgeries removing portions of my legs!!!!SO February 25,2008 I became a double amputee. Thanks to the Medical Community. This was caused by a MEDICAL MISTAKE!!! (Which goes UNPUNISHED!) Now in 2011 I am alive~ putting together the pieces of our life.Funny how things turn out.No where near how you think things will be.I am ...Expand for more
happy I have wonderful son.He is 20yrs old and such a good son.He has dedicated himself to our health and making sure Me and his dad are taken care of. I have had 4 adopted sons in my life in 2007 January 5.Joe hung himself at the tender age of 19.(This set off my health crisis.)He and Cody were like brothers.This is a very huge loss for Cody and I we still miss Joe today so much! There is Dustin,He and Cody have been friends since Elementary School.Dusty who I have known since he was small. and Now B-Day my newest child to enter my fold. I love my boys and they are my life.Good sons any parent would be thrilled to have and I have the market on them!!!4 great kids,all will leave their mark on this earth Usually I have the Grand- daughter.Tony has a older daughter, Tara who is 22. She has 2 children- Damien is 6 and Alexandria Rose is 3 and we have Aurora Jane who will be a year old in December!. We are typical hippie grandparents and parents.We raised our son with honesty and reality.Seemed to work for us.Tara was raised by her Mother.She was kept away from us until she becomes OUT OF CONTROL when she turns 13.Then her Mother ships her to us!She rebelled and left 2yrs later only to mess up her life and create her own prison of responsibility she does not want.Was not prepared for and has no skills. Her life is complicated at best! But We are here for her.That is what parents do. We have been blessed with 2 kids who are willing to try.Time is helping to iron out their troubles!
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