David Lyall:  

CLASS OF 1957
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Eastpointe, MI
Garden city, MI
Redford High SchoolClass of 1959
Detroit, MI
Detroit, MI
East detroit, MI

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My Life Story Updated January, 2011 School years; I started school in New York City. (PS 138 if I remember correctly) Although I was born in East Detroit (at home at 16161 Evergreen Street, just E of Gratiot Avenue and 3 blocks south of 9 1/2 Mile Road, or Stevens Drive) we moved to New York City for my Fathers WWII War Production Board Assignment when I was 2 years old. So I attended Kindergarten and 1st grade in NYC. We returned to our home on Evergreen Street at war's end in 1946. As we lived east of Gratiot Avenue, I was assigned to Grant School which during this time period was an elementary school. I have a lot of happy memories from this school. Amoung them I soon noticed Phylis Drewry, a very pretty girl whose beautiful blue eyes illuminated not only the whole classroom, but my young heart. In the following eleven years, I would learn that during our youth, there are two kinds of loves; loves found and then lost, and loves found and unrequited. Bad luck and fate would prove Phyllis to be the latter. In 1947 my parents bought one of the many new homes being built on what only a few years earlier had been farmland and which was rapidly being subdivided and converted to residential property in East Detroit, at 15742 Semrau Street. (1 block west of Gratiot Avenue and 1 block south of 9 1/2 mile) Since Gratiot Avenue was the school district dividing line, and now living west of Gratiot I was reassigned to Erin School (located on the south side of 9 Mile Road, at Grove Street) to complete my Elementary School Education. I have vivid memories of this school and its principal, Mrs. Gaul, who as it turned out had a Black Belt in ass-whipping, even having a specially designed long wooden paddle with holes in it to cut down on wind resistance as to deliver the maximum speed energy and force against one's buttocks. She also had a finely developed technique of grabbing you by the belt and lifting you slightly off the floor, to both hold you in place and pulling your pants as taunt as possible over your butt cheeks as to provide the least padding against her paddle. As I was one of those kids who always seemed to stand out in class with a smart-assed remark for the teacher, I was frequently one of Mrs. Gaul's victims, and can to this day describe the experience in Mrs. Gaul's office in detail. Her office was located over the main school entrance foyer, at the top of a set of about 10 steps, and that walk up the stairs seemed to take forever, kind of like the "last mile". What Mrs. Gaul delivered to my butt-cheeks on a regular basis would be considered severe child abuse by any of today's standards. Mrs. Gaul was the first women to ever make me cry, (I would bite my lip and try to stifle back my whimpering as I walked back to my class, trying hard not to let anybody see the tears dripping down my checks) but as life unfolded, she would not be the last. I would never allow another boy to see my emotions, but females have always left me totally defenseless, although absolutely never in their presence. For Junior High I attended the newly constructed Oakwood Junior High in 1952 and 1953, before graduation to the 9th grade at East Detroit High School. The highlight of my Oakwood Junior High School years was becoming reacquainted with my Grant Elementary School heartthrob, Phyllis Drewry, who I had not seen throughout my Erin Elementary years. When I would see her walking to and from school with her friends, I would do outrageous stunts with my Bicycle to try and get her attention, and go out of my way to "just happen" to walk past her in the hallways. During this time the every six-month graduation class was discontinued and once a year graduations were adopted. Because of my test scores I was double-promoted to the next grade, skipping six months of school, and along with it six months of nature's natural maturity processes. From that time on I was six months behind my assigned class social group in academic, physical and social maturity development, which constantly placed me at some form of disadvantage as to my classmates. I had to constantly work to attempt to overcome this gap, sometimes academically and intellectually successfully and often socially less so, especially compared to girls, who are inheritably ahead of boys in maturity at any given age. To compensate, except for three girls who were in my class (Sharon, Phyllis and Barbara) and who put up with my antics to some degree, I usually dated girls one class year behind mine, which even in one case (Lorraine) proved to still not be enough to put me on the same maturity level. During my High School Years I was interested in history, art, science, and music, joining the EDHS Marching Band as a Clarinet Player. However, by the 11th grade I was now far too busy with cars and the girls in my life to have time for any serious music pursuit, and dropped out of the band. I did however take a music appreciation class during the 11th grade, and to this day I enjoy all forms of music, from opera and classics to country. (Rap & Grunge notwithstanding) I was also very interested in sports at this time, but although very active, healthy and strong, compared to some of my more famous classmates I lacked the robust physique for football, so I played baseball, which I had played in sandlots since a young boy. (An inherited family trait, as three of my grandsons have been awarded college scholarships for their baseball skill and accomplishments) Unfortunately, I was severally hit in the face with a fielded ball, which consequently made me cautious enough of a moving ball to prohibit any serious playing again. But by now my interest in cars and girls filled all my spare time and I worked at Campbell's Gulf Service Station on the N/W corner of Stephens and Gratiot, (one block north of my home on Semrau) from long before I was of legal age to work, until my very late teens. The Campbell's (two generations and their spouses) treated me like one of their family. The Campbell's encouragement of my natural mechanical curiosity and honing of rapidly developing mechanical skills, engineering basics and interest in Motorsports cannot be overstated, which had a profound and lasting impact on my career development. Ironically, what the Campbell's provided me in skill, confidence and social development during this formative time of my youth would be considered illegal today, violating both most child labor laws and any business liability or workman's compensation insurance. As I was much younger than the regular Campbell's crew, (mostly salty dog WWII vets) and being in my impressionable years I learned a lot of new words and metaphors a smart-ass kid like me could use, all of which I would not dare repeat at home. (Or as I soon learned, not at my girlfriend's house either) Campbell's Gulf, and nearby Forest Dry Cleaners (where one of our group worked) were the hangouts of choice, where the bunch of guys I ran with, spent time when we were not pursuing some outragous stunt, practical joke, or drag racing on the street. I now shudder to think of the risks we took, and the close calls and near misses, now believing God must have had plans for us. As a fitting closure to my youth, both Erin School and Grant School, (which since my attending had been converted to a Junior High School) no longer exist, each being torn down as their classrooms were no longer needed with the demographics of East Detroit AKA Eastpointe changing over the years. As a point of reference, when I attended Erin School, it was so overcrowded they had temporary structures erected in the playground, referred to as "Portables" which were to be my 4, 5th and 6th grade classrooms. Within 10 years of my attending that school, not only were the portables not needed, but Erin School itself. After High School; I went to work full-time, and for a number of years I went to school part-time. I worked at local businesses, including a book bindery, local gas stations, tool and die shops, manufacturing plants, to auto dealers. Originally, after graduation my career plan was to become a tool and die maker, and I actually started a tool and die apprenticeship in 1958. But the late 50's recession ended my tool and die career, along with any hope or realization of post-graduation prosperity. Along the way I married the last girl I had been dating, the former Mariellen Martin, (class of '58) a stunningly beautiful strawberry blond, and we went on to have three children, a family started during my too-brief prosperity as I realized my dream of becoming a tool & die apprentice. From the time I was laid-off from my tool & die job it was unemployment checks, surplus food allotments, day labor work and temporary jobs for the next two years, a real character-building experience. Finally, by the early 60's I again found steady work as an Engine Test & Repair Technician at Crusader Marine Engine Manufacturing Company in Warren, Mi, and then at the Bob Ford Inc. Auto Dealership in Dearborn, Mi. During this time I had also started a racing career including driving Bob Ford's factory-sponsored race cars, and my racing career, both as a professional and as a sportsman, spanned the next 50 years. This was a natural extension of and a cure for the illegal drag racing I loved to do on the streets as a teenager. After working a couple of years at the Ford Dealer, I moved on to Ford Motor Company, initially as a Dynamometer Test Technician in their Research and Engineering Center in Dearborn, Michigan. This was similar work to my Crusader Marine Engine Company job assignment, and the beginnings of some level of prosperity, which included buying my first home and brand-new car. Not forgetting the two years of very lean times nor being content working as a salaried technician, I worked long and hard hours and in between went to night school and studied my way up until becoming a P...Expand for more
lant Supervisor at the Ford River Rouge Complex, and ultimately as an Engineer at the Ford Livonia Transmission Engineering and Manufacturing Complex in Livonia, Michigan. In between those assignments I took a seven year break from my Ford Career and owned & operated a pair of gas stations (almost a Campbell's flashback) along with an engine rebuilding business, being successful until the Arab oil embargo of '74. Although I stayed in business for several more years, my businesses never really recovered from the Arab Oil Deal. The service station business landscape had changed forever and every year I worked harder, longer hours and made less money. Remembering how much I disliked those lean years, I finally closed my businesses and returned to Ford in '77. If you are comfortable in your job, large corporations seem to have a way to place you in a rut and leave you there. By '84 I was again feeling restless and looking for new challenges, so I left Ford to work for one of their fastest-growing suppliers who was also a longtime friend, neighbor and racing buddy, Jack Roush AKA Roush Industries and Roush Racing. My first assignment was General Manager, then as General Sales Manager. After working for Roush for 17 years, during which the company experienced explosive growth, I was again feeling in a rut, becoming bored and looking for a new challenge. I was recruited by a competitor, Livernois Prototype Vehicle Development as General Sales Manager. I managed to keep them on as a Ford Supplier during the Ford Supplier Reduction Campaign, increasing their business by several orders of magnitude. By 2003 Livernois was now prosperous enough to bring all their family into the business, and at age 64 I accepted a retirement buy-out offer. I loafed for the rest of the year while helping my nephew Chris Holbrook start his racing engine machine shop business, which was similar to one of my businesses I operated from '72 to '77, and Holbrook's business still thrives today. In December 2003 I accepted an offer to join McLaren Engines in Livonia, Michigan, also an engineering service supplier, as their Business Development Manager. So at 64 years of age, I was again working full time, doing what I enjoyed, pursuing, developing and selling new engineering business, and racing my own Mustang Drag Race Car whenever I could. During the automotive slump of 2006 caused by the sudden steep rise in gas prices to the $3 a gallon range, I left McLaren during a company-wide cut-back. I then sold new Chrysler and Jeep Automobiles from 2007 to 2009. Auto sales, although very rewarding is also very grueling and challenging, often 60 or more hours a week, which left little time, or energy for other pursuits. So at age 70 I left the auto business and that was my last full-time employment. As a car nut and a person who loves dealing with people, I really enjoyed the challenges and rewards of selling new cars, and I now believe instead of working as a technician in the back shop of auto dealerships in my youth, I should have been selling new ones in the front of the building. This is one of many things I would do differently if I had my life to do over again, and which would have drastically changed my career path in potentially many ways. So at an age when most have been long retired, I am keeping busy and challenged developing an insurance business, selling mortgage protection and life insurance, final expense coverage, and retirement plans, a business I can pursue at my own pace. Unfortunately, along the way Meriellen Martin and I succumbed to the pressures of running several businesses and raising a family during very challenging times and family pressures. We were divorced after 17 years of marriage, during my time as a business owner. Eventually I married the person who turned out to be the love of my life, Rose Ann, and we have been married for 24 years. Together we have a blended family of 5 children, 11 grandchildren. As two of them are still young and Rose Ann loves her role being grandma, (spelled second mother) so although we enjoy traveling in our motor home we cannot leave town for very long. In addition, we also have three great-grandchildren. Our long term plan is to spend more time traveling with the Motor Home, taking extended vacations. We are both now in good health, although I had to have a heart valve replacement and a triple by-pass early in 2010. I am now completely recovered, thinner and 40 pounds lighter, and feeling seventeen again. (Until I look in the mirror, which instantly brings me to my senses) In December 2009 I lost an old EDHS classmate Dave White who passed away suddenly and unexpectedly. In 1955 when I only had a learner's permit and not a regular driver's license, Dave, who was one of my regular EHDS buddies loaned me his '50 Hudson so I could take my classmate and unrequited love, Phyllis Drewry on our first date. Dave making me promise I would claim I took it without permission if caught. Dave was a big guy, tough as an iron anvil but with a soft heart, and always there when you needed him. I have attended every class reunion except 1967 (I was racing on the East Coast that weekend) and I have enjoyed seeing and visiting with my classmates, seeing how we change yet stay the same as we journey through this life. Sadly, time has started to take its toll and the list of lost classmates grows. My children have been the greatest of the many blessings heavenly father has given to me, and many times I wished circumstances would have allowed me to have been blessed with even more of them. I love kids and seeing their little faces smiling back at me. (When I look in the face of a child, I get the feeling it is like looking at the face of God) However, I am now belatedly enjoying my wish for more children vicariously through my grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Reflections on my youth; from a now older and much wiser man's perspective; I have obviously enjoyed the rewards of success and suffered some failures. When I reflect on my life, I am pleased with most things I did and accomplished, and disappointed with some things which I wish I could do over again. During my youth I was athletic, cocky and tough, and I had both far more self confidence and far less fear than I needed. I was not afraid of much, to try new things, or go where others might fear, and would have been considered an arrogant, smart-assed, foul-mouthed kid. My great weakness was girls, who always both fascinated and attracted me, but yet I was always a little bit afraid of them. I think it was a sense of feeling vulnerable, where you did not have any control of your situation, and this caused paradigms that affected my behavior in ways which most girls never understood. Although I feel only tenderness and affection for all of the girls of my youth, I am sure it is not universally reciprocal. I think anyone who says they would change nothing in thier lives is either a liar or a fool. However, I am very grateful for all of my blessings, and I have so many to be thankful for. Especially for those many people I met along the way, and who at one time or another during my lifetime, shared some of their time with me. For each one of these experiences brought joy into my life, and an expansion of my universe. Sometimes we just shared friendship and throughout I learned lessons about life, love, happiness, disappointment, failure, heartache and sadness. But it was not the experiences I had or the places I had them that are the most meaningful to me now, but the people who shared these experiences with me and helped create these wonderful memories. Our relationships and interactions helped me to develop as a person, and left me with a lifetime of very precious memories. My only regret is wishing I was wiser and more thoughtful during my youth, as I could have spent this time making even better precious memories. Wherever any of the many friends and acquaintances of my youth are, I love all of you. If my old friends ever read this, I want you to know I will never forget any of you, and wish you all of God's love and blessing. Especially so for; Megan R, Diana B, Connie M, Phyllis D, Sharon M, Margo C, Lorraine B, Sandy B, Nanette B, and Barbara A. Sometime between grade school, junior high and high school we shared a little of our time and in some way touched each other as we walked together for a while during this period of our life. As our lives pass each other, we take a little bit of the other with us and leave a little bit of ourselves behind, each being free to accept and cherish or deny and forget. Although in the context of a lifespan our time together was brief, the impressions, lessons learned, impact on my life and memories these relationships left with me are vivid, significant and sweet, they will last as long as I live. These are the girls of my youth I learned to love; some loved me in return and some more than others. Sadly, I broke three of their hearts, and one broke mine. I wish I could go back, right my wrongs, say I am sorry, but such experiences are a significant part of our youth, molding us, teaching us about what things in life are the most important, what memories we will cherish, what part of our character are faults we must address, and which mistakes are not to be repeated as we transition to adulthood. But each of these girls, commensurate with their emotional investment in me, will carry a piece of my heart, which I always gave freely, for all of their days. Each of these girls pulled the strings of my heart, gave me reasons to be a better person, grow and mature to be a better man. Each one incrementally helped me become a kinder, more thoughtful, loving and caring person, and I will forever be grateful. A couple of them, like Mrs. Gaul and her paddle, made me shed some tears, as I sometimes did them. Dave Lyall, EDHS class of 1957
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