Debbie Heck:  

CLASS OF 1973
Connersville, IN

Debbie's Story

Life I've done a few different things since 1973. I married Tom Heck in 1975 while we were students at Purdue. He graduated but I became severely ill with Crohn's disease and spent 2 months in the hospital. Fortunately, that condition went into remission when I became pregnant with our first child in 1978. We have 3 children, Gordon (1979) married to Brooke, Kyle (1982) married to Angela and a Purdue engineering student, and Katie (1984) married to Jeremiah, finishing a philosophy degree at Asbury College. After completing a home ec degree at Ball State in 1980, I had a typing business at home which enabled me to be home with my kids and earn some money, although I felt a strong calling to become a doctor. In 1992, I went from home ec to Dr Heck. I'm a family physician. While I loved delivering babies, cost and politics became prohibitive. Pain management is a field few doctors have entered, especially those in primary care. I do primarily medical management rather than procedures (such a epidural blocks--the anestheologists can handle those things). There is a stigma associated with pain management just as there has been with treating depression and anxiety disorders, which I also treat. I found so much of what is involved in treating those conditions involves 3 things: Respecting the patient, Listening with all your senses to fully understand what the person is trying to convey, and Believing what you are told (unless there is a compelling reason not to--afterall, there are liars among us). But people in pain become sad and when seeking help they become discouraged and feel nobody understands or believes them. Unfortunately, doctors have treated patients this way and people have not gotten better. I decided to do my best to break that pattern. Sure, I have some people fool me, but should I avoid treating the 90 percent just because there might be 10 percent who are out to scam me? NO! You might be surprised at what event had such a great influ...Expand for more
ence on me regarding the treatment of others. Remember the senior class ahead of us? They decided only SENIORS could go to the prom. That travesty could have been perpetuated, but who would that have hurt? Not the people who started it. It's like abusive families. Dad was abused so he abuses his children who go on to abuse their children. Why hurt the innocent? I say LEARN from unfortunate experiences, even if it is something so silly as having your class prohibited from attending an event. Show the next class you are better than what preceeded you. And that's why I'm not like the bulk of the doctors I see in my area who refuse to treat people in pain just because a few patients scammed them for pain meds when they didn't need it. I'm not going to withhold proper care for those in need just because somebody along the way tricked me. I've also written a few articles for "Medical Economics", largely of the human interest variety but some regarding medical practice issues. I had a column in the Muncie StarPress for 18 months called "Medicine, Ministry, and Motherhood" detailing experiences I'd had in all those areas, with a few marriage details thrown in for good measure. If any of you have access to any publications that might be interested in picking it up, I'd be interested in discussing it. I'm currently working on an article about a rather interesting patient, "'Get the Hell Outta Our Life!': A Baffling Diagnosis Made via E-mail." I diagnosed multiple personality disorder in a woman who had seen psychiatrists for over 7 yrs when an alter sent me an e-mail with that phrase! As for my husband Tom Heck, he's the vice president for operations and treasurer of the Ball State University Foundation. He began in 1988, a few months before I began medical school. The staff has grown from 6 to about 20 with assets growing from a "pitance to a potfull." We look forward to traveling and delighting in the paradise of each other as the only tasks of the day.
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