Edie Bonvillain:
CLASS OF 1965
Lakeview High SchoolClass of 1965
Decatur, IL
York UniversityClass of 1975
Toronto, ON
Toronto Teacher's CollegeClass of 1969
Toronto, ON
Southern Illinois UniversityClass of 1967
Carbondale, IL
Eldorado SchoolClass of 1959
Decatur, IL
Edie's Story
Life
I've finally accepted the fact that life does begin after 50 - now that I'm nearly 60! I hope I will REMEMBER it over the next decade. I guess the next hurdle will be able to continue to laugh off all those 'senior moments'.
I've 'downsize' my work life. I have been substitute teaching [kindergarten - 8th grade] for the last 5 or so years. I'm free to choose my days of work, classrooms & schools. It's nice to be appreciated for what you contribute! I tend to stay away from those situations where I feel under appreciated by either the students or staff.
There are times that I do choose to accept a long term assignment [more than 16 days in one classroom], but try to make sure it will be beneficial to all - especially my own sanity.
I was a computer programmer for 16 of my working years, but that hectic life seems so far behind me at the present time. My last computer job gave me a 'golden handshake' in my 8th year [just after all the Y2K stuff was completed for one of the major Canadian Banks]. I could have transfered within the bank, but felt I could easily end up with a 'worse' situation than I was leaving & NOT be offered a package.
My initial plan was to do IT training [since I'd always had an interest as well as the teaching license - I taught full time before my kids were born]. It was a recession - IT people aren't hired during economic slumps. So, I finally applied for a teaching position & that's how I got where I am today!
Actually, I'd prefer to be retired!
Since I've spent many years as a single parent, I can't economically afford an early retirement [unless, my lottery numbers should finally come up]. The flexibility of substitute teaching also allows me to be able to visit with my adult ch...Expand for more
ildren, their spouses & soon - my grand daughters.
My son [the oldest], his wife and daughter [born April 2006] live in Vancouver [north of Seattle] and make the most of all that the outdoor life offers them there: hiking, biking, skiing / snowboarding.
My daughter, her husband and their daughter [born Jan. 206] live in Kapaa, Kauai [Hawaii] and enjoy the more laid back lifestyle of an islander: surfing, hiking, musician/artists.
It's only been in the last couple of years that I started to look forward grandchildren. I felt I was much too young when my daughter in-law brought up the topic as they were moving to Vancouver 4 years ago.
I've a small collection of knitting & crochet patterns for infants that have been used for friend babies, nieces & nephews and the like. They are getting a lot of use now! I've decided to use cotton and make some of the same patterns that require wool for my Hawaiian grand daughter. There are also a lot of patterns for cute sewed outfits for little girls. Many of my girlfriends here already have grandchildren and they already have oodles of baby patterns. So, we've initiated a pattern exchange of sorts.
I guess one of the features of my grandchildren living so far away is that I won't have the ever present question that some of my friends hear on a regular basis, "Mom/Dad, are you busy....? We are really stuck for a babysitter. Could you help out?, The baby's sick and can't go to daycare, etc."
But, I also have the option of moving closer to them so I can watch them grow up. There are days when that thought has GREAT appeal. Especially on those snowy, blowy days. Both of my children live in such appealingly warm/temperate climates & are such lovely places to visit!
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