Joseph Gardner:  

CLASS OF 1986
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Akron, OH
Cleveland, OH
Lake Erie CollegeClass of 1990
Painesville, OH
Ellet High SchoolClass of 1986
Akron, OH

Joseph's Story

Life After OLE, I went to Lake Erie College for 2 years. I then transferred to Cleveland State U. and received my B.A. in General Studies. After doing the temp work circuit for a while, I returned to school at the U. of Akron and received my A.A.S. in histological technology. While at the U. of A., I started working at my part-time job at Revco (now CVS) and I'm still there. I had also worked full-time at Mercy Medical Center in Canton. I have now returned to school at Stark State College to get another degree in general med lab technology. Histoteching just hasn't yet worked out and it's been a long enough time that I can barely get my toe, much less my foot, into the proverbial door. However, there is now supposed to be a shortage of certified histotechs, so I may have a decent chance of breaking into the field yet. In the meantime, I have made a major transition which should be quite obvious as you look at my "then (from OLE) and now" pictures. Going ahead with the transition is the best decision I've ever made. People who've known me from before have ALL said that I'm much happier, at ease, more outgoing, etc. - just MORE! Because of my transition and all that I've seen getting to that point, I am active in various GLBT groups. I am the Akron Chapter secretary of P-FLAG and am on a national committee for Lutherans Concerned/North America to impliment BT welcoming into the RIC program (Ask me for specifics.). My OPINION is that the religious right needs to learn how to mind its own business. I could go on with that topic, but I'd best not. I will say though that my family is very supportive (I'm VERY fortunate to have that.). I also go to the same church where I grew up, and everyone there is very supportive as well. I live in a condo unit (NOT an apartment!) with my 2 cats: Miss Kitty and Ginger. I adopted Miss Kitty when she walked into our church's camping weekend as a stray in 2003. I then adopted Ginger as a companion. They had a HUGE fight in April '05 from unknown circumstances (We think it was because they're at that age where territorialness is strongest. One or both probably saw an outside cat, and because they couldn't attack it, they attacked each other.), but thank goodness they are getting along much better today. Ginger is 7 and Miss Kitty is ~ 6 3/4 years old. Miss Kitty is black and white and Ginger is brown tiger-striped and they are both short-haired. I sing in the Akron Symphony Chorus as a baritone. That means I sing bass in SATB divisi, B1 in TTBB divisi or T2 in TTB divisi. We don't have many tenors, so if there is anything beyond the usual TB divisi, I typically sing the middle voice. I'm in my 13th season with the Chorus and I'm very proud to be able to say that I am a part of this fabulous group! I'd like to comment a little about the "Q&A" part of this website: As far as movies, I don't go out to theaters all that much. Typically, I go once/year. If I see a movie, it most likely will be on TV and will be the documentary type of film. The other thing I wanted to comment on was the "single and loving it" answer I gave. I think the more accurate answer would be "single and okay with it." I'd like to find that "special someone" someday, but on the other hand, I'm fine if I never do become partnered. That's about all the info I have for now. I hope you're all doing well! I'd certainly like to hear from other OLE, LEC, CSU or Ellet schoolmates! School I started at OLE after surviving the worst year of my life with 8th grade (Although, to be fair, Jr. high isn't ANYONE's best time anyway!). The difference between public jr. high and OLE was a culture shock although thankfully a good one. I had to ride the Metro Bus to school every morning. I'd have to show my Student pass for the driver to stamp and then I would get a transfer so I could get on the West Market bus from downtown. Sometimes I'd be running a bit late and the two-block run to the stop was a long one, especially with all of the stuff I had to carry! It took 20 minutes to get from the stop to downtown. Once downtown, I would meet other OLE schoolmates and we'd chat while waiting. Sometimes, but thankfully not often, we'd have some unknown person come up to us and start talking. Fortunately, nothing too weird ever happened. Once on the W. Market bus, it took ~ 10 minutes to get to OLE. We would get off on W. Exchange by the railroad-tie fence and go up the stairs and pathway, but that has since been removed. Because I was involved in sports, my dad often came to pick me up ~7pm when practice was over (Game days were of course TBA.). Off-season, I took the bus home. I started playing basketball my freshman year at the invitation of one of the other team members. I had never been so sore in my life while we were conditioning! Getting in shape for it was the first time that I could run a full mile non-stop. One full mile was 9 laps around the halls and commons. I wanted to break 9 minutes and I finally did later that season. It was my first time playing competitive hoops beyond gym class and I was behind most of my other teammates skillwise. I was on JV and I hoped to eventually make varsity. The varsity team that year was 19-3! We even beat arch-rival Hoban which was a real coup! Soph. year hoops was quite frustrating; we essentially had a 1st, 2nd and 3rd string varsity. The 1st string was varsity, the 2nd string were those who played in both JV and varsity games and the 3rd string, which I was in, played JV games only. The 4 of us who were the 3rd string didn't get much playing time even in practice! It's amazing that I perservered but I still had hopes at that time. Jr. year was cut short due to algebra troubles (My parents decided to not let me play until my progress was better. As that turned out, I retook algebra II in summer school and finally "got it.") Sr. year hoops didn't happen due to a stress fx presumably developed from cross-country which I ran, ironically, to condition myself for hoops. I played hoops during my freshman year at LEC, so that's later. Besides hoops, I played softball as well. I was the team manager freshman year. Soph. year ...Expand for more
didn't happen due to "biology blues" (Again, that was my parents' decision.). I finally got it together jr. and sr. years and had good seasons. I was in the choir all 4 years as a 2nd alto. I was one of only 2 people in my class to be in it all 4 years. I had great respect for our director Mrs. M. The adjectives I use to describe her are brilliant and elegant and I tried to emulate her on those characteristics. Ms. K., our director during my sr. year, had large shoes to fill but looking back, I think she did the best that she could (I see both of them from time to time at my store job; they're doing well.). Did I have crushes during that time? Yes I did, but I'm not in the habit of discussing them. The school Q&A in this site has a question of "If you could change something, what would it be?" It didn't have my answer of getting more sleep. I was up 'til ~11 at night with homework and then would have to get up at 5:15am to get ready for school. I had to fight to stay awake in class although it often depended on the type/subject of class. I was also well known for my small handwriting but it's larger these days. I have the entire Jr. year's homework assignments, including snow days & ring ceremony day, on one page! College I started Lake Erie College in Aug. of 1986. I moved into the dorm the day after I gave my first blood donation. I was wondering if that would make me tired, but it didn't. The first semester, I would get up a little after 6, take my shower, do my morning stretchout and pushups and then go to breakfast. By the 2nd semester, I slept in until I had to get ready for class. It didn't take me long to find the weight room and reestablish my workout routine. My dormmates wanted me to play field hockey, but I wanted to settle into college life first. We freshmen had to undergo "freshman-sophomore night" which was basically freshman initiation. I had undergone freshman initiation at OLE, so I knew how to roll with it. I played basketball and was the only person from my dorm to do so. I was also the only frosh although I was chronologically older than the team's only soph. by ~ a month. There were 8 of us to start and then one of us went APA (Academic Program Abroad). I spent most of the time on the bench. This was discouraging because one of us had never played before and she always went in before I did. I was a slowpoke though and that didn't help. I enjoyed being on the team, but I realized that hoops wasn't my forte and decided not to play Soph. year. As it turned out, we didn't have enough players for a team anyway. I played softball both years and did fairly well there. I was also in the choir both years as a 2nd alto. Our director composed a piece for us during my fr. year and that was the first time I sang a world-premiere piece. I wanted to become a certified athletic trainer, but there was no one to study with at LEC so I transferred to CSU. I started in the training room at CSU right away. I became skilled at taping, primarily ankles. I worked as the designated trainer for the softball and volleyball teams. I also helped out with the other sports as well. During the summer between LEC & CSU, I came to terms with my gay female orientation and (perhaps naively) decided I would be out. A couple of the women's coaches told me to "Keep it away from my team! (with one continuing "If I hear you've been sleeping with one of my players, I'll shoot her first and come after you with both guns loaded!")" which didn't make for a comfortable working environment. Then in the middle of my senior year, the head trainer told me he wouldn't recommend my certification because he said that I didn't have enough of a "take charge" aptitude for emergency situations. So at that point I had nothing. I changed my major to General Studies because I had taken a liberal arts smattering of coursework anyway. I only needed a few more classes plus the 3-quarter "residency" in that program. I took creative writing and LOTS of music classes (I almost minored in music.) to finish my degree (B.A.). I also wrote for the campus newspaper. An incident which occured just before I graduated (which didn't affect me directly), too long to describe here, made me decide that I would NOT send any alum contributions to the athletic dept. However, I have returned for softball reunions/fundraisers and was welcomed and accepted there, so I have given to the softball program. I didn't have any idea of what I wanted to do or indeed could do career-wise and so I worked temp jobs until I returned to school for an A.A.S. in Histological Technology. 11 years later, I'm still not yet working as a histotech so, as I mentioned above, I've returned to school at Stark State for a degree in general med lab technology. We'll see what happens. If I were to win the lottery (fat chance of that 'cause I never play), I would return to school and get degrees in English and Music. I don't know if and/or indeed how I'd ever use them, but assuming I was comfortably wealthy from the lottery, I get them for the fun of learning and/or doing it. Workplace It's time for an update in the work bio. I've decided that my best bet and indeed the most practical thing for me to do is to return to the medical field. I'm working on yet another A.A.S. in general medical lab technology; I've seen more openings for general medical lab techs than I have for histotechs but histotechs seem to be catching up. Considering what all I've already done, I should need just the core coursework and the practicum and I should be good to go. Per my discussions with the program director, I'm in good shape. With the shortage of certified histotechs, maybe it'll work out that I'll work part-time in both labs for a full-time job. What finally made me decide to go back into the medical field? First, I discussed career options with a friend of mine and she thought that would be my best option considering my background. Then one night last summer I happened upon one of those Trauma/ER medical shows on TV and I realized that I did enjoy the work I was doing at my former hospital job. Hopefully school will work out; this is a definite To Be Continued....
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