Gretchen Garie:  

CLASS OF 1983
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San diego, CA
San diego, CA
St. thomas,
San diego, CA
Corona del mar, CA

Gretchen's Story

" ¿Don¿t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.¿ I guess that pretty much sums up how I have tried to live my life... Memories and Milestones: A the typical California Beach Bum! My family moved around quite a bit. I remember Lincoln Jr. High in Cornona Del Mar. Hanging out with Kim Kincannon, swimming, dancing, and having to have a Ziggy Box with Hello Kitty stuff in it. Hanging out at the beach, jet skiing, and roller skating every weekend! Said Good bye to Corona Del Mar and hello to San Diego in 9th grade. Pacific Beach jr. High. Chorus, Drama, Found a whole group of friends, met my dearest friend, Dawn Earl! Also started dating my first love of my life, Mike Page. Honors Biology & Chemistry! Hanging out on the steps at lunch time with lunch time gang. Beach cruisers, early morning bike rides to the beach to surf and boogie board. Hanging out at the chin up bars near Crystal Pier!! Softball. Jet skiing on the bay! As we all began to start our big time high school career at MBHS. I had to say good bye again, as my parents moved us to the Virgin Islands. Tears and saddness as I was not sure when I would ever see the people who meant so much to me! Dawn, Michael, Kevin, Tracy, Rich, Joe, Robert, Amber, Denise, Deanna, Dawn, this list goes on... No traveling softball team, no pep squad, no parties at the Hump!! NO, I moved to a rock!! St. Thomas USVI: 1980-1982. Antilles School. College Prepatory school. In reptrospect, would not have traded the experience for anything. Played a lot of sports, basketball, softball, head varsity cheerleader, sang in Chorus, Waterskiing and Island hopping with Kerstin, long talks with Mark, chillin with Collin, Chantelle, Richard. Sailing with my parents, diving, catching lobster with rag mop for dinner, working as vet tech. Life has a way of working out in the long run, after returning to San Diego for the summer between my sophomore and junior years and having the best time of my life, the idea of returning to St. Thomas sucked. It was not long afterwards, that San Diego became home again. Spent rest of junior year and senior year at MBHS. BFF Dawn Earl, Kristin Stephany. Said heartbreaking goodbye to Michael Page, when he was killed our senior year. Sunrise services at Kate Sessions, Hanging out at the Hump. Softball, Pep Squad, Chorus, Mr. Vinole, DECA, working with the special education kids... Cal. Lutheran College/ SDSU~ Veterinary Medicine. God has a way of finally showing you where you belong. Was working with children, when I finanlly realized I wanted to help make a difference in the lives of children, particulary special needs children. Life became a journey both spiritual and a journey of who Gretchen would become... Moved to W. Virginia for a year, learned what it was like to live in rural Appalachia, and what being poor really was! Left WVA and landed in Florida for a few months to get my head together and hang out with my mom. Moved to New Hampshire and was there for 3 years. It was there- that I was introduced to what would become the passion of my work... autistic children. San Diego kept calling me home, and Ocean Beach became home for the next several years. While teaching preschool, I fell in love with the cutest little 2 year old girl who was in my class, It also appeared that her single daddy had fallen in love with me. I was so blessed the day, LuLaura, decided I was the mommy she wanted. Her daddy and I married and had every intention of staying in San Diego. God had other plans. In 1993, we started a cross country move to a small rural town in Tennessee. For the next 12 years, we raised our daughter in one of the best places for a kid to grow up in. Surrounded by country, family, friends, and activities. I continued to work with children with autism and wrote the inclusion program for the district, and put it into practice, taking a young boy of 4 years old out of a self contained classroom, and fully including him in regular education. I passed on my love of softball to my daughter, who played from the time she was 5, through high school. I became a 4-H Leader and spent much of our time at horse shows and 4-H competitions with my daughter. She became quite the equestrian, and her horse trainer and I ended up managing a boarding barn and training facility. Life was pretty good. I taught at the same school as my daughter went too. She was a grade ahead of the student I taught, but they grew up like brother and sister. We changed a lot of notions about autism over those years, as people came to see a young man who was a highly talented artist, and gifted musician. He began marching in the band in 5th grade, playing the drums. His mother and I became state advocates for a national autism awareness organization, and began to help other families get the proper services and treatments for their children with Autism. In 1999, my life was going to be turned upside down and backwards in ways I could never have imagined... I began to get tired more quickly, the migraines that I had dealt with most of my adult life became worse and more often. I began to have trouble with muscle weakness, pain, and other unexplainable symptoms. The doctor ran some tests, only to be met with more questions. Then one morning, I woke up with a tremor in my right hand. Six months later, after having every test known to mankind run on me, it was finally clear that I had Young Onset Parkinson's Disease. I was 33 years old, and totally unprepared for dealing with a progressive, degenerative illness that has no cure!! My daughter was a tween, and having a hair out of place was cause for major embarrasment, much less a mom who shook alot, walked weird, ended up having to use a cane and scooter. I had also been softball coach, horse coach, 4-H leader, and was not able to do as much as I had been able too. I tried to learn as much as I could. I turned to the internet for information and hopefully contact with others dealing with similar things. There was very little in the way of information or support out there for young people with Parkinson's. Michael J. Fox had only gone public with his diagnosis of it a few years before I was diagnosed. I did learn one thing very quickly, everyone progresses differently, and the meds that are suppose to make you feel better, often make you sick too! Unfortunately, the disease progressed rapidly over the next 2 years and I was forced to "retire" from teaching. It was heartbreaking to think of having to let go of my passion. I was 36 years old, and found myself having to battle for 2 years for disability, after I watched my career end in a blink of an eye. I watched my marriage become one of the casulties of Parkinson's Disease. I had a very angry 13 year old daughter who wanted the old mom back. I began to feel I was not going to be around to see her graduate from high school, college, get married, or see grandchildren. I was mad at God! Was I such a bad person to deserve this? I began to question my faith, I began to lose hope.... One sleepless night, I decided that this was more than I could take, and that my loved ones did not need to be subjected to having to take care of me, or watch me become someone they did not know. So I asked God to take my life. Little did I know he would answer my prayer, but His way, not mine. He still had plans for me. It was shortly after that, that I received an email from a gentleman in Florida who also had Young Onset PD (YOPD). He was 39 years old, had been diagnosed 5 years earlier. He was no longer able to continue in his career, and was battling for disability approval as well. His marriage was also a casualty of Parkinson's, and he suddenly found himself a single father of his 4 children. He had seen a posting I had done on the one message board for those facing YOPD, that I found on the internet. He too saw the lack of support out there, and wanted me to help him start an online support group. It took me a month to respond, but I agreed. Within 3 months our group had grown to over 350 members worldwide. Michael had ...Expand for more
just gotten involved with a Parkinson's group in Florida, and was involved with an education advocacy group. I was asked by the Parkinson's group and the educational group to come to Florida to do some consultations with them. Michael was the first person I had met with YOPD. It was also around the same time that the idea of planning a gathering of our PD group members and their families began to take shape. As I started helping others find hope, support, and faith, I realized God was showing me that there was a reason for having this disease, and the way I handled things was going to affect the lives of others. "Of all the forces that make for a better world, none is so indispensable, none so powerful, as hope. Without hope people are only half alive. With hope they dream and think and work.¿ The more people we came in contact with, the more we wanted to reach out. The plans to have a gathering of our online support group members & their families, began to evolve and with 2 other people with PD, we decided to dream big and create an annual conference for anyone affected by Young Onset PD. During the planning of this conference, we realized that we wanted to expand our vision to more than just an online support group. We wanted to create a network of advocates throughout the country that would reach out to others in their area that needed to get plugged into the PD community. We wanted to make sure that others would never have to feel the lonliness, isolation, and confusion that we had dealt with. We also wanted to provide programs that would help educate others about Parkinson's disease. create awareness of what issues people with young onset PD must face. We developed presentations that are still continuing to target "First Responders". EMT, Police, Fire, Hospital staff, including Emergency Room doctors and nurses. Movers & Shakers~ A National YOPD Outreach & Advocacy Organization was born. Our conference and vision drew the attention of the National Parkinson Foundation (NPF) who offered to help us with the Conference, and while we had been prepared to do it all on our own, we accepted the help. 6 years ago, in June, 2003, the first Young Onset Parkinson's Conference was held in Atlanta, GA. It is now an annual event, that is put on in a different location each year. Michael and I continue to participate in the conference, and have watched our dreamchild grow and evolve, hosting over 400 attendees, at this years conference, without losing sight of important elements we wanted to maintain. It was also during 2003 that LuLaura and I moved down to Naples, Florida. While she was not happy at first, and had to process a lot in a short amount of time, She came around. We brought her horse, 2 dogs, and 4 cats with us. She played softball, made friends, rode her horse, and had new experiences. She finally admitted she was glad we moved here. Somewhere between children, running a national organization, and other life activities, Michael and I fell in love, and got married. We have a blended family of 5 kids. Four girls, ages 23, 19, 18, 17, & one boy, 15. At any given time we have any number of them living with us. We have 2 grand children, age 4 and 5 weeks old. As Movers & Shakers grew so did our contacts. We became involved with the Parkinson Action Network, the advocating organization for the PD community. We are PAN FL. state coordinators, and travel to the state capitol and Washington DC, to meet with our legislators on a regular basis. We also travel around the country doing public speaking engagements, help set up support groups, and attend and participate in Parkinson's conferences, research, and create educational programs for helping others understand how to help someone with PD. Both Michael and I have grown and remain strong in our faith. I came to realize that God DID answer my prayer... He gave me a new life! I also see that my passion to teach was not taken away, only changed direction. We are very active in our church. I have been singing in the choir for 5 years now, and have been in our chuch's massive Living Christmas Tree performances for 4 years. Every summer we teach Bible School! It reminds me for one week, why I not able to teach full time! HA HA In February 2008, we began a year long journey of seeing Michael through Deep Brain Stimulation Surgery. Currently, when a person with Parkinson's Disease, progresses to a point when the medications are not working well, the amount of medicine needed to reduce the effects of the PD causes side effects that are sometimes worse than the symptoms, and there is a significant reduction in quality of life, they may be evaluated by a team of doctors to see if they would benefit from having the surgery. DBS is NOT a cure, and does not neccessarily slow down the progression of the Parkinson's Disease. But it basically turn the clock back by about 5 years, often reducing the need for so much medication. Electrical leads attached to a battery pack/programmer, are programmed to deliver electrical stimulation to a specific part of the brain that deals with movement, and other effects of Parkinson's. While we have come to find different DBS teams may do things differently, Our DBS team at Univ of FL feel it is better for patient to do one thing at a time, before stressing the body out further. So they do 4 surgeries. The first surgery (have to be awake for) is when they must go into the brain and insert the electrical lead in a very specific location in the brain. A month later, after the brain has been allowed to heal, the neurosurgeon puts you to sleep for this one. He takes excess wire that was left over from first surgery and trails it under the skin, down the side of the neck to the chest area. A battery pack/ programmer is put under the skin in the chest area, and the wire connects the programmer to the electrical lead. The programmer is turned on, in recovery, so you start to get used to it, but is not fine tuned for a week. Then every month for the next 6 months,it is a visit to the neurologist where programming and medication levels are tweaked with the goal being optimal benefit. Our medical team is located in Gainesville, FL at Shands Hospital in the Univ of Florida. For us, that is a 5 hour drive one way. Each surgery we stay up there in a hotel near the hospital for an entire week, and monthly visits we usually have to stay one night for those. After 6 months, a re-evaluation is done,and as in Michael's case, the whole process is repeated on the other side. His second side was done August/Sept 2008. Then 6 months of monthly visits. For my husband, DBS has given him his life back! I had tears in my eyes, when they turned on the second programmer and I realized that for the first time in 12 years, nothing on my husband was moving. He was in total control! He continues to do great!! Throughout all of this we were writing our first book and in December 2008, our book was released through Harper Collins Publishing~"Living Well with Parkinson's Disease" by Gretchen Garie & Michael Church. We have been doing a lot of speaking engagements throughout the country. We are working with the McKnight Brain Institute at Univ of FL, as well as a friend of ours who also has PD to create a second book that will be used as a teaching book for patients & families looking into DBS, as well as for doctors, nurses, and medical staff to help them know how to treat us properly. It appears that we will be going through the DBS journey again, beginning in October, 2008. This time, it is my turn. The medicine is not working as well as it should, and I am having to take it much more often. There has been more progressions, and after much prayer and talking with our evaluation team, it is time!! Our research appears to indicate that Michael and I will be the first "bionic" couple in the world!! I can see a made for TV movie out of this one!!! When not doing something with Parkinson's Advocacy. I remained a political junkie, and Michael and I have run a few school board and local commissioner races. Always trying to improve the quality of education here and fighting corruption.
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