David Hayder:  

Life I have seen almost every aspect of life, from the highest of high's to the lowest of lows. I am glad to say that I survived, although I never thought I wouldn't. My life now is settled and comfortable. I have overcome some major setbacks(understatement of the year), and now feel I would be classified on the successful end of the spectrum considering everything. I have basically ended the same as many knew me in the high school days, or at least as I perceive myself in those days: Usually quiet depending on the subject, and very opinionated and vocal when the issue is important to me; patriotic and supportive of our soldiers, yet don't agree with our leaders allowing them to be killed senslessly or deploying them for their own glory, and while I support most protection of other countries, but believe it is time those countries paid for their protection, and should be thrown to the wolves if they display anti-American views; I work too mauch; I do anything to help friends in need; Good Father but bad Dad(but working hard on improving this, now with custody of my youngest son). I have become a Senior Project Manager for a compandy called S. C. Anderson, Inc. in Bakersfield, CA.(Should anyone care to contact me and a Gold member, I can be reached through their office). This is a construction company, doing mostly commercial construction. My main focus in the last 10 years has been school construction, with 1 jail(juvenile) as an exception. Though I had been in school for most of the years since high school, I only completed a formal degree in 2002(with honors I must unmodestly brag). I am in decent shape for our age, but I am starting to show gray. I don't relax much, and stay active constantly. I finally...Expand for more