Jacqueline Marsall:  

CLASS OF 1968
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San bruno, CA
Santa barbara, CA
San mateo, CA

Jacqueline's Story

WHAT AN ADVENTURE! I had numerous jobs before/after graduating from CAP: Carhop at A&W Root Beer (first day spilled milkshake inside new Camero), hippie bead necklace maker/seller on street in Haight-Ashbury on weekends, Britts Department Store sales girl, pattern cutter-outter for dorky dress designer, undercover secret shopper, projectionist at art museum, and door-to-door census taker. Also worked the graveyard shift for the Post Office at the San Francisco Airmail Facility playing 'basketball' having to toss packages into many rows of bins, and then sorting endless trays of letters by memorizing zip codes ('schemes') a couple hours a night--no computers yet! Then I made a big mistake by going to San Francisco State my first year of college during the tumultuous 1968-69 era, when I had also been accepted to Stanford. D'oh! It was scary to have my hair nearly yanked out of my head for crossing the picket line to go to class, and then having to evacuate anyway when smoke bombs were thrown in. To turn in a paper, I had to walk in the picket line with a professor as he graded it. The final straw came when the National Guard rode in on horseback to disperse the Vietnam War protesters and clubbed everyone. I could not wait to get outta there. And in spite of getting A's, I learned very little that year, except that I was not cut out to be--a political activist. But, the summer of 1969 is a highlight of my life. I hitchhiked (didn't mention that part to my parents) and lived all over the islands of Oahu and Hawaii wherever I could. I even got to scuba dive with scientists I met from NASA and the guy who trained the monkey who went to the moon. I had gotten certified at SF State (an elective, trying to figure out what I wanted to do, along with Karate as I definitely saw the need for self defense). I also learned to surf (so easy in Waikiki--fall off, stand up) and even brought home a surfboard, which shortly thereafter my father sold when I nearly died in Santa Cruz. Fall off, drown. I spent my second year of college at the much calmer CSM in San Mateo, but still had no idea what I wanted to do. I took lots of electives (including Judo for the same reason) and fell in love with photography. My father bought me a new Pentax camera with numerous lenses, which I promptly hitchhiked with to Altamont for the infamous Rolling Stones concert. Determined to get great close ups all day, I discretely crawled on hands and knees from the back of the stage twisting and squeezing through numerous 2x4s all the way until I popped up right in front. It was thrilling to get great shots of all the bands that day--everyone from Santana... to Grace... to Crosby... to Mick. But then when it got dark, all of a sudden this big guy pushes really hard on my right shoulder to get past me and jumps up onto the stage right in front of a very startled Mick Jagger. Two HUGE Hell's Angels (hired as security guards and paid with BEER all day, I swear) charged forward like raging bulls and all I had time to do was duck as they pushed the guy backward over me landing on top of him and hysterical hippies. Panic gripped the crowd and my life was being squished out of me as I was trapped tight against the stage. Frantically I reached down hoping the small hole I had climbed through to get there would be there. To my amazement it was, and somehow I was able to scrunch down and climb back through, doing the fastest under-stage-hustle to get the hell outta there. Later, the news reported that one of the Hell's Angels stabbed the attacker to death--and much later at his court trial it was determined the attacker had a gun. I am glad I didn't see the gun, but what I did see very clearly that night was that I was not cut out to be--a photojournalist. After getting a Liberal Arts AA degree, I was determined to get into the prestigious Brooks Institute of Photography in a beautiful mansion in Montecito, Santa Barbara. Unfortunately there was a 2+ year waiting list, so I delivered mail in San Mateo driving everything from these flimsy little three-wheeled mailsters you could blow over--to wheeling around these huge freight trucks on narrow mountain roads. My chauvinist boss did not like women delivering mail at His Post Office (I was one of the first), so he made my life miserable every day trying to get me to quit by rotating me to the hardest routes, often carrying mail on my back which was the beginning of lifelong back problems. I was making a whopping $3.65 an hour and had no intention of quitting, but I called Brooks Institute every week begging to get in early if there was a cancellation. Finally, nine months of pleading paid off when Mom got the call on Thursday, I dramatically quit the PO on Friday ('Take this job and...'), my parents moved me into a little duplex we found in Santa Barbara late on Saturday, and bright and early Monday morning I started the 2.5 year-round program. I was one of two gals among 60 guys in my class, there were only 6 gals in the whole school among 600 guys, and I think only 13 of us graduated from that original class. Then my father had a heart attack which forced him to retire and making Brooks so expensive for my parents that I needed to work part time. Somehow I got a lead to be a rent-a-cop for a private detective agency and (I swear) they actually gave me a gun--but no training. (Didn't tell my parents that part.) I worked football games and concerts (stand there and look menacing, which is challenging since I am only 5'2"), and worked undercover at night at the drive-in theater busting kids for sneaking Milk Duds into their pockets before getting up to the cashier. (Saaay, is that a Snickers bar in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me?) But then, one night I was assigned as one of the security guards at a wedding to frisk the women, which should have been my first clue. Unbeknownst to me, the bimbo bride was marrying the rival gang leader and her previous betrothed was, shall we say, not pleased. Before I knew what was happening, I was in a gang fight as they started smashing everything with chains (Karate and Judo were not going to be helpful and I was too terrified to get the gun.) I yelled to my partner, 'Call the police!', and then I realized, ohhh crap, that's me! That's the night I realized I was not cut out to be--a cop. Luckily I was soon awarded a partial scholarship at Brooks, so in December of 1973 I graduated with a B.S. in Cinematography & Photography. My goal was to become a studio cinematographer on feature films, but unbeknownst to me was I was ahead of my time. The Cinematographers Union, which I tried every-which-way to get into for many years, was still quite the Old Boys Network. They did not want young girls around, well, as cinematographers anyway. Then I met a few gals who invited me to meet regularly at the Greystone Mansion in LA where we shared horror stories about being women in the film industry. That little group turned into the international organization, Women in Film. In early 1974, my college boyfriend and I were thrilled to get hired as cinematographers for an exciting new company in Santa Monica, a few blocks from the beach no less. But right after we moved down, got settled and started, the company went bankrupt. Welcome to LA. Over the next eight years I worked hard on my photography business, covering many of the NBC programs in Burbank including 'The Midnight Special' with Wolfman Jack photographing everyone from Ike & Tina, BB King, David Bowie, Billie Joel, Aerosmith, Aretha, Olivia NJ, KC & Sunshine, and George Carlin, to name a few favorites. I also covered specials for the Smothers Brothers, Donny & Marie, Mac Davis, Hoyt Axton, and often the Tonight Show. I had a beautiful studio in our home and shot everything from Architectural Digest interiors and products... to college textbooks on exciting things like welding and mathematics... to scenic greeting cards and calendars... to precious gems for the Gemological Institute... to Knudson Foods... to Bridgestone Bicycles... to Tennis Illustrated... to famous body builders for Muscle Magazine... to romance novel covers... to Rams Cheerleaders... to fashion shows... to movie premiers... to ABC Entertainment Center events... to the Academy Awards... to the first time a woman became a network anchor: Barbara Walters, Frank Reynolds, Peter Jennings and Max Robinson... and then... I shot the very first, shall we say, reveeealing PlayGIRL centerfolds. (Hard Job!) Then with teaching credentials from UCLA, I taught every black & white and color photo and film course imaginable (Action Sports Photography and Advanced Architectural Photography were favorites) at UCLA, USC, Cal State Northridge, West LA College, several Adult Schools, and started the Motion Picture Production Department at Santa Monica College. Then in 1982 I got an offer I couldn't refuse and chucked it all to go into the television business. My technical background plus sales ability made me unique for a woman in the television industry at that time. I was instrumental in the growth of two multi-million dollar companies as Executive VP and part owner of one, and VP of Sales & Marketing for another. We produced all kinds of programs and TV pilots (Wonder Years), commercials, the first infomercials, corporate work, and I got our mobile video truck included in the coverage of the 1984 Olympics in LA. I also went to the Pentagon to get us cleared for work on high level secret government projects. I judged the Emmys every year (still do), attended the awards, screenings and parties, met tons of famous and infamous people (Tom Selleck, Muhammad Ali, Joan Rivers, Mary Hart, Robert Wagner, Franco Columbu, are a few of the nicest)--and enjoyed nearly all of it. When the first company I had poured my heart and soul into was sold out from under me in 198...Expand for more
9, I took a year off and traveled all over Europe by myself (one suitcase and a Eurail pass)... then to Niagara Falls and Toronto... then all over the U.S. visiting friends... then a cruise to Mexico... and then the upper northwest including Vancouver BC. It is a highlight of my life. In Europe, I adventured everywhere from Rome to Ireland: skiing at the Matterhorn in Zermatt and St. Moritz staying at the Palace Hotel; connecting with friends in Munich, London, Dublin and at the Cannes Film Festival; staying at the magnificent Hotel de Paris and gambling in Monte Carlo, staying at the historic Danieli hotel in Venice and the beautiful Ritz Hotel in Paris, which unfortunately years later was the last place Princess Diana was seen coming out of that revolving back door. But then... in the mid-90s everything in my world started to fall apart one by one when... I was laid off by the second company I made successful when unbeknownst to me I had only been hired to make it profitable so it could be sold out from under me, my long-term relationship ended, I got mugged by four coked-up gang members with knives at my jugular threatening to kill me for $36 bucks (where's that gun now), and then endured risky painful spinal surgery. Then, very shortly thereafter, things went from hard to horrible when I had to go to the SF Bay Area to help my aging parents... by myself. I could not believe it when it turned into having to be there for nearly a year... without a day off. My once-adoring father, who had been there for me my entire life, turned verbally and even physically (choked me) abusive, and I was heart-broken to lose his love. It was astonishing because all the doctors I took him to said they couldn't find anything wrong with him--he was always so darling and sane in front of them. I became trapped, unable to leave my sweet ailing mother alone with him (she'd almost died from his inability to continue to care for her since a heart attack years before and was 82 pounds), unable to get a proper diagnosis or medication to calm him (he'd just flush it down the toilet or throw it in my face), and unable to find caregivers who would put up with his Jekyll & Hyde ranting, raging and throwing things at them. I cried every day, but finally with nothing but sheer determination I solved the endless crisis medically, behaviorally, socially, legally, financially and emotionally. The experience was so harrowing (the hardest thing I have ever done), it compelled me to write and self-publish my first book, written with humor to make a tough subject palatable, 'Elder Rage, or Take My Father . . . Please! How to Survive Caring for Aging Parents' (ElderRage.com). It took two years of working 14+ hours a day, as I had no idea what I was doing. Amazingly, it became a bestseller, a Book-of-the-Month Club selection receiving 500+ 5-star Amazon reviews, required reading at numerous universities for courses in geriatric assessment and management, and considered for a film. Three production companies expressed interest but no offers yet. I'm thinkin' Betty White for Mom, Anthony Hopkins for Dad, and Michelle Pfeiffer for me--ohhkay, it is a long shot. Life is sooo bizarre, as I didn't even know I had a talent for writing since I had never written anything but a postcard. Now I speak at writing and publishing conferences helping aspiring authors. Who knew. It took nine months to secure 50+ celebrity endorsements for 'Elder Rage' including: Hugh Downs, Ed Asner, Jacqueline Bisset, Dr. Dean Edell, Duke University Center for Aging, Johns Hopkins Memory Clinic, Senator John D. Rockefeller IV, Leeza Gibbons, Phyllis Diller, and my friend since 1974, Regis Philbin. He held it up on the show and said, 'Gelman, you have to read this book, because when it happens to me--you're going to be the one to take care of me!' Then by an amazing fluke, I landed on the cover of the AARP Bulletin (circ 22+ million), then Woman's Day and Prevention Magazines and many more. I have been interviewed on TODAY (with Katie just before she left, very nice), CNN twice, and hundreds of radio & TV programs all over the country and Canada. I also launched an Internet radio program to help caregivers worldwide: Coping with Caregiving. In 10 years I interviewed over 1500 healthcare professionals and learned so much. I've also written hundreds of articles for sites like ThirdAge, HealthCentral, AgingCare, and a syndicated column. It just amazes me that my life's most harrowing experience that took me to my knees and nearly destroyed me, led to my highest purpose, passion and reward. I have become a well-known speaker on Alzheimer's and eldercare awareness and reform--traveling extensively to speak at hundreds of conferences. I was invited to speak in Dubai and India at International Alzheimer's conferences, but didn't go, long story. My first big speaking break came when I was honored to replace Maureen Reagan when she suddenly took ill just before the California Governor's Conference for Women, and presented with (then) First Lady, Sharon Davis, very nice. I have also delivered keynotes to the National Security Agency outside of Washington DC (close circuited around the world to 36,000 employees), National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys, and was so honored to speak before 200 legislators on the floor of the Florida House of Representatives--a highlight of my life. I am on the Board of Directors for the FAIR Foundation which advocates for Fair Allocations in Research Funds from Congress and the NIH, as it is so inequitable. I was delighted to testify before the Assistant Secretary on Aging about the need for funding for Adult Day Care Services, which saved my parents' lives as well as my own. The National Adult Day Services Association bestowed their Media Award, and the National Association of Women Business Owners bestowed 'Advocate of the Year' at their Remarkable Women Awards. I was also excited to be in a PBS Alzheimer's documentary. I educate families as well as all kinds of healthcare professionals, including nurses and all types of doctors for their CEU/CMEs (Continuing Medical Education Units). It is astonishing how limited many healthcare professionals knowledge is about eldercare and early signs of Alzheimer's disease. I would have never guessed I would do this type of work. Yes, I am consumed with purpose and passion because the eldercare system is such a mess and it just has to get fixed before 78 million of us Baby Boomers get old. I am doing my best to help. But then... in Feb 2004, after the heartache of burying both parents within nine months of each other (after finally solving everything and four more years of managing two 24/7 live-in caregivers), and getting rid of sixty years of their belongings and pouring a fortune into fixing up their home before I could sell it--I could not believe it when the day I returned from the high of speaking before the Florida House of Representatives, I had the lowest day of my life when I was diagnosed with invasive breast cancer, nearly Stage 3. What a difference a day makes. After six months of brutal dense-dose (every other week) chemotherapy, steroids that make you starving hungry all the time and fat, a double mastectomy with the worst pain I have ever experienced in my life on the left (tumor was on the right), nine days in the hospital with a blood transfusion, six weeks of burning radiation, then painful reconstruction--I am happy to report I am in remission. Of course, I have added Breast Cancer to my mission, stressing the importance for everyone (especially caregivers) to closely monitor their own health... which I had so foolishly failed to do. I always say toward the end of my presentations that I gave my parents five more years of life in their eighties, but it cost me several years of my fifties. When I was bald and bloated from chemo, I did a 'Samantha' from Sex in the City dramatically pulling off my wig and shocking the audience into promising to get their medical tests. I have received numerous emails from women saying I probably saved their lives, as their breast cancer was caught much earlier because of me, which of course is very rewarding. Then in mid 2006, I was thrilled to buy a beautiful condo in a modern new hi-rise, but then I just could NOT believe it when in 2007, I took a disastrous freak fall. Somehow my rhinestone flip-flops stuck on my cherry hardwood floor and I went down sideways so fast I didn't even have time to try to catch myself. I broke my right arm all the way through at the top and completely shattered the shoulder. Of course, it was the radiated side which had been weakened. After extensive painful physical therapy for most of that year, it has come back 95% which all the doctors said it would never be able to do--so HA! I am tested regularly for cancer recurrence, so far so good, and after a few more surgeries and freak falls (nothing broken but my pride) from neuropathy pain and numbness in my feet from the chemo, I am thrilled to just still be alive. I strive to live in the moment and be grateful for everything right now--and I work hard to let go of the small stuff. It is a lesson we all seem to have to learn--again and again. In 2012, my mission expanded to include Alzheimer's now being termed Type 3 Diabetes and the Obesity Epidemic and am striving to spread the importance of understanding insulin, ghrelin, leptin resistance, dopamine, and sugar addiction. I am often interviewed on internet radio and may be speaking at an event near you--my calendar is on my website. Jacqueline Marcell ElderRage dot com PS: I use Marcell as my pen name as it is never misspelled or mispronounced like my real name, Marsall, which everyone sees an H in and says 'Marshall'. I just wish I had changed it years ago! Love to hear from everyone and connect on Facebook too!
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TODAY SHOW with Katie Couric
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'Elder Rage', my first (and last) book.
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Jacqueline Marcell at a speaking engagement
Alzheimer's Association Memory Walk, LA, CA

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