Janis Jarrell:
CLASS OF 1964
Granite Hills High SchoolClass of 1964
El cajon, CA
Janis's Story
GHHS Bio for 50th Class Reunion 7/14...
Thinking back over 50 years is rather daunting. So much has transpired and so much has faded from the "must remember" file. It has been my observation (at least in my life) that we have a propensity to forget the bad and only remember the good. Imagine that is a Big Plus in our lives. I would hate to never be able to forget the negative. We look forward only! My beliefs & priorities were pretty much the same in High School and College. I was straight arrow and didn't drink, etc. in high school. During my years at G.H. my main social group was at my church... we had students from Helix, El Cajon, and Grossmont. I had moved to El Cajon the summer I was an incoming freshman and so started âbrand newâ. This was awful for me, as I knew no one at all! I was shy and overwhelmed but somehow managed to have a great time at Granite Hills those four years. That surprises me to this day! Our class was unique...extremely friendly and inclusive. My first friends were Jonna Dahl (loved teaching her new words), Andy Greaves, and neighbors Vicki Krukow, Terry Gravett, Shelley Fidler... Good times.
Right after high school I entered San Diego State, pledged a sorority and headed out with a lot of enthusiasm! I had been interested in Architecture in high school and remember having a most intense discussion with Mr. Fielder. I wanted to take drafting but he explained to me that girls didn't take that course. He wouldn't budge! Remember, it was only the early â60s. =) Not only did I consider Architecture, I also was thinking of Astronomy. The math was intense and I confess that I didn't really care to study if it caused me to lose sleep. Of course, I spent many late nights at âkeggersâ, and--whatever we called sorority fraternity get-togethers. College was a lot of fun and I enjoyed it! Also, I worked at the SDSU Library and so it took me more than four years to graduate. The goal I eventually sought and reached was good to me. Well, my dad was a teacher as were many, many in my family. Somehow, that was the path I chose and I must say that teaching was fun, jobs always popped up when I needed one, and I was good at it. Of my four districts, Burlingame was my dream district. Yes, I became a teacher and got my PHT (Putting Hubby Through [Medical School]). While doing that I taught school in four districts (Santee, Davis, Burlingame, and Vista) from 1970-1985, as my husband studied, did internships and residency work, and opened a practice in Escondido. In 1985 we moved from Escondido to San Jose, CA and he began with Kaiser Permanente Medical Group. It was a great move professionally; he got to do much more surgery, which he loved.
I had quit teaching in '85 because of our move up to San Jose, plus we had a daughter born in '83 and we pla...Expand for more
nned to have a second child. Early on, our child plans hit upon troubled waters. From 1978 to 1987 I had four miscarriages, an ectopic pregnancy, and a stillborn little boy, Christopher. Finally, in 1983 we were gifted with a baby girl, Cami, through adoption. We saw her when she was only a couple of hours old and she was placed with us within a few days through SDCo Adoptions. She is an answer to prayer, our Miracle!! Later in 1987, my 7th pregnancy was a success and our second miracle daughter, Anna, was born in San Jose. Our family was finished. It took awhile, but was most definitely worth the wait and tears! Good times and good news are generally not as interesting or exciting and not much in the telling. I was able to stay home and loved my job as a âstay at home momâ. We had a great home, great schools, and my husband loved his profession. He was good and his patients loved him. Unfortunately, his health did not hold up. He began to have numbness and pain down into his arms--due to leaning over as surgeons do, and an obvious propensity to disk problems (stenosis). He had several disk procedures and surgeries--nothing relieved the pain. He finally went on permanent disability and it was so very, very sad--beyond my imagination! Just so sad to see what it did to him (physically and emotionally). He so loved what he did and his ânewâ life was not something he wanted, or planned for. I'm skipping a bit, but he left our home abruptly in 2008, to my total surprise. I had no clue he would leave and I was completely devastated. After almost 40 years of marriage it seemed to me we could confront anything together. I always wanted to grow old with this man. It took a few years, but I am just fine now. Goodness, we are resilient souls!!!
Anyway, at 67 I am having lots of fun and enjoying myself--even took up square dancing. Now I want to learn how to fly fish for trout, learn to golf, and go skydiving on my 70th. Why not? Oh! And continue taking many, many Cruises. As I have said, I am very blessed with 2 wonderful daughters and an amazing son-in-law. He is the son I never had. My oldest isn't married and makes her home in the Seattle area. My younger daughter is a professional ballet dancer. Anna and her husband have been married almost 5 years...No children until she stops dancing. I was 40 when she was born. Wow! Why rush into anything now??
Enough about me... I'm anxious to hear of you and the path you have traveled. I pray that it hasn't been too, too bumpy... I just can't wait to meet you again. Love and Hugs to my wonderful classmates! You are the best! And I know that whatever you have witnessed and done in your life makes you even more special to me. We have traveled the highway and I knew you were there alongside me. <3 With love to you...
Hugs, Janis
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