John Stapp:  

Hi my name is John Stapp I graduated from Sheldon high school in Eugene Oregon in the year 1971 since that time I've been looking around for a college that would except me to further my education maybe the way I spell except is the reason they won't accept me.My interest in high school I haven't changed much. I was interested in girls drinking in cars. I'm still interested in girls and cars but I haven't had a drink for 21 years as of June 7 of this year . Please save your congratulations as I've never had such boring years when making less money in my life is the nondrinking year but I am still alive . The last 21 years and just been a riot as nobody wants to be around somebody picking you looking for leaf clovers standing by lake and looking at the rapids looking at a tree and how the branches are held up my truck because this is tennis thing to do when you don't you don't go to clubs you don't look at girls because because if she's beautiful. You have to have a couple of drinks before you have the nerve to go up and talk to her . Now a car although maybe similar to a girl at least you don't have to talk to it and be afraid of losing it like you do some girls .Another similarity is that the old broken down ones you don't have to worry about anybody taking them you don't have to worry about doing anything except keeping them running and replacing parts and helping them along as they walk .I remember my first car was 58 Chevy in quite a few the girls like it because it was red and white to town. I wax SetCart until I got cleared through to the park then to the metal but it sure did look nice and gray .I had gold shag carpeting at from the mobile home business at my dad and also have a princess telephone that was hooked up to nothing but when I drive down the street feel important I looked up the receiver NNFlex I was talking to somebody well I was talking to somebody and I was even listening to them talk back still do the same thing but Don't have the princes phone anymore just have to pretend .What kind of macho guy like me once a phone call the purchase anyway I'd much rather drive down the street talking to my pinky and listen to my thumb. Moving on to more important things I think it's important for you to know that I've been married four times well actually three times I was married to my first wife twice. I didn't really want her so I divorced her but then I really didn't want anybody over else to have her so I married her again .Was a bit confusing to Herbert made perfect sense to me I moved on couple years later I got married again for about 10 years after that I decided it was in the thing for me to be night so I move down again and I got married for about a Three years and this is when things get serious and I mean dead serious the most fantastic thing in my life that ever happened to me and there will ever happened to me was born on November 29, 1989. Her name is Kelly Marie stapp. Prior to her birth I Began to think of what I start for who I wanted to be with you saw me what kind of example that I wanted to set what were my true believes what was I listening to what was I following what kinds of things Was I doing all of a sudden my life became an example of another life a life that was the most important life to me And got even gave me a third part in creating this person creating this the tiny perfect person as I wants to head come out I began to cry I began to cry very hard because of two things one there was my new baby girl Perfect in all respects 10 fingers the work gentel is the work to legs to arms of bellybutton stomach got back I had an ask Pise knows it was miraculous I began to look at my own hands and realize how miraculously work I began to take things not for granted anymore because all of a sudden everything became valuable to me here was just perfect human being and every part Albeit Thyni worked perfectly. I was the person FirstPerson after the doctor to hold the baby the baby's name was Kelly Marie staff and never again what she called the baby At the time I was working for a company is vice president of marketing for insurance company called Insur text corporation I would leave on a Sunday night and come back on Friday night and start over the next week I remember being in St. Louis motel room and looking out over St. Louis and all of a sudden I began to cry because my three -year-old baby had been left at home loan and I was alone and missing her terribly. I started crying Pick up the phone without hesitation and called my back BoxBackup to Scottsdale Airpark where are headquarters I said to them you know I love the money I love the expense account and I love the lavish life but what I don't love is not being with my daughter her life is going by so fast and so is mine and I've got to quit this job I love you racks but I can't do this for you anymore . Never once did I look back on my decision well I look back couple of times when the money start getting very thin but estate would have it I was taking care of once again up and running in the city that my daughter lived in and my wife we had a terrific family and a lot of fun .There was another wife in there somewhere And I don't say that lightly. People are people and the people that I'm married and divorced our people they have feelings gentle feelings and they have Karen hearts and after all four people can't be wrong ...Although those work during my drinking days not an excuse but a legitimate reason ...He's pretty well heard of what I've made up I made of my daughter and my family I love my family during my mom is now 80 years old my brother is 49 years old as of today and my dad has ceased living and I have a brother that was 23 when I was 20 and he died in a motorcycle accident but I love the family that I have been I still love the people that are deceased . No you know when I made out I made up a family I made up of my god I love my daughter more than anything in the world and I worship the ground that you watch if I had anything that I can do over life it would be to watch her grow up again sing to her you are my sunshine Dising to her she'll be coming around mount and the singer to her Barney songs . You know I made a lot of mistakesAs we all did while growing up but all in all I turned out to be a pretty good guy and all I can say is that of all the jobs I've had all the people that I've met all the things that I hadn't seen you remind me of something to my dad told me what I was drying out. He said some find one thing that you enjoy and do it do it to the best of your ability whether it's being a ditch digger earnt I just do it to the best of your ability well now I can say to him gas what I found was that I'm the best dad that is ever that there's nobody that loves anymore than I do. There's nobody day cares And there's nobody that protection for last but not least is nobody that Crise any harder while driving down the road lying in bed reading or anything else because I miss that girl so much that it hurts every day but at the same time I'm so excited for her her new adventure her new life. Her excitement and your enthusiasm. II'm sorry for all the mistakes in the above but I work with the smart phone and it would take me forever to type this maybe that would be a good thing I don't know if this is what you wanted me to catch you up on in my life but this is what my life is on the best dad that ever that I have the best dollar than ever bad and that's what I'm all about is loving my family . The two favorite words in my life have boiled down to this or three letters each one is son and one is dad . Thank all of you who stuck with this erratic to put up with my redundant story is so important to me so important to my life and so important to what I've always wanted to be in never knew...Expand for more