John Dunham:  

Yooooo. VHS. What a trip! We are so old now, while being kids in mind and spirit. As I write to you, I have two wonderful children. One is 13 and the other is just turning 12. They hate me like young teens do, but hey! they can get over it when they are 30. I'm strict because I know what I was like as a kid. They couldn't possibly be bad compared to me, RIGHT? Oh hell. I'm doomed! Anyway, I was married in 93 and got divorced (according to the courts and all) by 2001. Life accrues many mistakes and my ex was one of them. Mind you, I do not blame her. It took my conscent to marry the woman. As years have passed and my maturity has evolved, I decided I wanted a long term mate with no commitments. So, she and I share a place, share parental responsiblities, and basically live like husband and wife. Yet, there is nothing tieing us together besides the business we are buying, the house we bought, and the finances we share. LMFAO! Who needs marriage when you can have financial obligation! I still live in Oceanside... now in the Parkside golf course area. We spend our weekends helping the girls become better softball players and better people. Work has been an awesome ride. I can tell you this... Without having a college degree, I am surprised I have done so well for myself. As an admitted computer nerd in my early teens thru late 20's, I was in the right place at the right time. End result is that I've done what I've wanted most of the time and gotten paid for it. As a geek (ahem), in my 20's, I was the a-...Expand for more