Karen Roy:  

CLASS OF 1972
Karen Roy's Classmates® Profile Photo
Toronto, ON
Guelph, ON
Guelph, ON
Don mills, ON
Toronto, ON

Karen's Story

After V.P., I attended the University of Guelph and received my B.A. in Psychology. I then took a drafting course, and was hired during my work experience time in a chain saw manufacturing company, which was right next door to where I lived. I loved it there, especially being able to use my illustrating ability and mathimatical appitude. It was challenging and fun. I was there not quite ten years when I had a heart attack at the age of 35 and chose to quit my job after finding I no longer had the stamina for the early hours and heavy reams of drawings, I hope old friends will remember me as an intelligent, kind, pet-loving individual. Animals are my passion. How do I blow off steam? Very successfully. I dish it out to the person responsible at that moment or as soon as possible. One of my favourite ways of relaxing is playing my piano. I sought out and found my grandmother's 1909 player piano that had been sold out from under her. I found it in Montreal and two weeks later, it was delivered to my door. When I heard the air brakes of the moving van coming down our country road, I left the supper table and ran out to meet it. Even my dad, who didn't play, lovingly tinkled a few keys. I could tell he was glad I'd pursued that dream. So many people in my family had played it; it was like giving a piece of them back to me. They are all dead now, except for me. I play by ear, but well enough to please myself and the dogs - they come and lay down at my feet as soon as I start to play. My Mom died 6 months after my heart attack in '88; then there was just dad and I for 18 years. We were the only "family" we had left. Dad passed away last Dec.17 and was buried Christmas Eve. For 27 1/2 years, I also lived with my partner, Eileen, who was 22 years older than I am. And over the years, we'd had many, many dogs and cats. My biggest surprise in life: the discovery and acceptance of my sexuality and subsequent ability to appreciate the best in both worlds, which is the title of my published autobiography: "The Best of Both Worlds". I'm presently writing it's sequel: "Love is Not Enough". . You asked me what happened to my first crush. She was my grade 3 teacher who I found again this past Christmas night. I was one of the students in her first year of teaching: 1961. We are constantly in touch and very eager to see each other very soon. My best friend would tell you I am consumed with bitterness, from the lack of understanding I received from, not my peers at VP but three of the so-called mentors being paid to guide as well as teach. Thus, as I said, I learnt from the best to give back what I...Expand for more
got; what goes around, comes around - right ladies? Do I still dress as I did 20 years ago: you bet. I couldn't care less about "style". I dress for my comfort and to fit the occasion. The weirdest job I ever had was driving a cab part time; boy, you meet some real doozies I'll tell you. I had three fares one afternoon - one of whom looked like Charles Manson, covered in paint stained over-alls, with two love sick girls tagging along with him. He thought he was going to intimidate me I guess, by swearing and kicking the meter. By the time I dropped them off, he'd apologised because I threatened to call the police and he had just been released from prison. To show the respect the male drivers had for me, when I arrived at his destination, I was surrounded by cabs on all sides - even up on the sidewalk. I had to laugh at the idiots impression that he could control everybody he was in contact with...not this girl. My biggest victory for me was going off to Guelph, and having the courage and self honesty, to admit the truth about my sexuality. There are so many foolish, lonely people out there, too afraid to be honest with themselves about themselves. I feel sorry for them. Life is so short; too short to hide in a closet. They can hide from the world but they can't hide from themselves. I love this question: which teacher would I love to see again? Oh gee, I wonder who that would be? Out of love and respect for her, I'm leaving her name out of this - because it was much more than puppy love; it still is and it always will be. Time heals nothing. You asked me to share a childhood memory I'll never forget...my first six years strutting around in my peddle-pushers, at my grandparents cottage in Vermont. The smell of the foliage after a good downpour, and watching the skunks waddle under the cottage, to settle down for the night. I'd lay on my stomach, peeking at them and talking to them in baby talk. They would even walk up closer to me, without fear in their little hearts. I was as haopy as I'd ever be in my life. My last contributing thought to this: is what I wrote on Doris Preston's "Thinking of You" card shortly before she died...for those of you who understood me, no explanation is necessary; for those of you who didn't - no explanation would suffice. Thank God Helen Tamberg understood me or I'd have been residing six feet under all these years. For those of you who would appreciate knowing, Helen had lung cancer that had spread to her spine, but she had been stabilized on a $3000.00 a month drug. * Helen passed away Jan.7, 2008. She is NOT a part of my past; she is a part of my future.
Register for Free to view all details!
Reunions
Register for Free to view all events!

Photos

phyllis 74, karen 55 - cropped #2.

Karen Roy is on Classmates.

Register for free to join them.
Oops! Please select your school.
Oops! Please select your graduation year.
First name, please!
Last name, please!
Create your password

Please enter 6-20 characters

Your password should be between 6 and 20 characters long. Only English letters, numbers, and these characters !@#$%^&* may be used in your password. Please remove any symbols or special characters.
Passwords do not match!

*Required

By clicking Submit, you agree to the Classmates TERMS OF SERVICE and PRIVACY POLICY.

Oops an error occurred.