Linda DuBos:
CLASS OF 1964
Oxon Hill High SchoolClass of 1964
Oxon hill, MD
Linda's Story
It's always so exciting when you see an old friend on classmates. So you pop over to their page wanting to see where life has taken them since those long ago days of high school; and there is nothing there. How disappointing. My story has also been blank. I suppose the reason for me is because it's a little overwhelming to know where to begin.
I could throw out a lot of boring facts - I've been married, I've been divorced, I've remarried (Patrick is his name), I have five children, four of which are still living, I also have three wonderful stepchildren, five grandchildren, and one great-grandson. But that isn't the sum total of who we are. It's just the best parts of who we've become.
Life is a journey. Always changing. Always evolving. I've always been an overachiever. In my professional life I worked my way up to the top as an escrow officer, a Limited Practice Officer, officer manager, and Designated Escrow Officer. Went back to school and got my degree in real estate law. All that meant was that I spent too much time at the office. Too much time away from my children. Being the best wasn't in the long run worth that lost time.
Then comes retirement and the question what the heck do I do with myself now. No more 12 hour days at the office. Twenty four hour days at home. My goodness!
So begins the quest to discover what to do with the rest of my life. And you know what I discovered? This is really an exciting time to find out who I really am. My children are grown. My husband is still dependent on me but my time is basically my own.
I do things I never had an interest in previously. I do scrapbooks for my grandchildren and found out I like being creative. I developed a line of children's clothing called Tea Party Fashions. I created a...Expand for more
nd sold rabbits dressed in Victorian fashions. My rabbits were featured in a national magazine called Art Dolls Quarterly.
Then my world impolded in 2010 when my youngest son took his life by suicide. There is nothing more devastating or life changing than the lost of a child. For years after Christian left us I only existed. Then I began an art journal of my life without my son in it. That journal become a blog with thousands of followers. It was called "a journey, Death by Suicide, a mother's story". By helping other tender souls, I helped myself and they, my fellow travelers, helped me to survive.
I will never overcome my grief. It will continue to be a part of me for the rest of my earthly life. Every day I think about and miss my son - terribly.
I learned to express my feelings through my art. Other parents have ask me to do portraits of their precious child that they've lost to suicide.
Now I do watercolor paintings more for pleasure and self growth. I've sold quite a few but that isn't my objective. I want to improve my skills by learning new techniques and new challenges.
My greatest joy in life however is my grandchildren and now our first great-grandson. There is Brandon, Benton, Persephone, Christian, baby Christian and baby Harlan. Yes two young ones named Christian can be a little confusing.
I love FaceTime. My grandson, named after his Uncle Christian, calls me and we play tic-tac-toe over the phone. He always wins. He always has the paper. When I say please put my "O" in, for instance, the upper right hand square, he'll say "no Nana not that one. I have a plan for that square. Eventually I'll find a square he approves of. No wonder he always wins. I love that.
I love being a wife, a mother, and a Nana. Life is good.
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