Lonnette Millican:  

I retired after working 32 years for Banner Health. I retired from Banner Home Care as the Director of Clinical Resource Management in June 2011. My retirement was because my husband's health had declined and I wanted to be able to say I was glad we had the time together instead of I wished I had taken the time . Unfortunately he passed away unexpected 1 month almost exactly after I retired. The last month has been spent on coming to grips with losing him and trying to work my way thru all the paperwork. (I actually say thru all the "garbage"). It seems to be never ending. When I think I have completed every form possible, 3 more come in the mail either from Social Secutiry, VA, or his life insurance. It is all consuming right now and very frustrating I can't think of what they will want next. I have sent them everything!!. Everyone wants to know: 1. If I'm selling my house - they all say it is to big for one person. 2. When am I going back to work?. I keep saying I am NOT selling my house - it is paid ...Expand for more