Ludi Toedter:  

CLASS OF 1965
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Newport beach, CA
Modesto, CA
Newport beach, CA
Newport beach, CA
Stockton, CA

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Hi Everyone! Can't believe so many years have passed since we walked the halls of NHHS. I married Pete Toedter (class of '63) in Oct 1966 (geez, we were just babies!) and we're actually still married, 42 years later. We have one daughter, Kim, who is 39. So far, our grandkids are 4-legged & fuzzy..we have 2 adorable grandpuppies! lol Life has gone by rapidly..never got the degree I wanted, but consider myself a graduate cum laude of the School of Hard Knocks and sort of a jack of all trades. I did get some college education in Accounting/Finance and worked in that field for over 25 years. When the economy hit a bump in the road in the early 1990's, I'd had enough number-crunching to last 10 lifetimes so I got a little more creative. I worked part-time for a Hallmark store to subsidize a collectibles habit, and my daughter and I spent more time working the small pet care business she had as a teenager. Ultimately, she dropped out of the business, and I built it into a fulltime job. I had no employees and was on-call 24/7..more than most doctors! lol From 2002-2007, I worked night and day..I later figured out I averaged about 3 hrs sleep every night during those years. Wonder how many brain cells I killed from lack of sleep! lol And then there were injuries from time to time. I took care of everything from ladybugs to livestock/horses. We lived in Trabuco Canyon for 22 yrs (1981-2003)and had our own menagerie on a 1/4 acre property(at one time our census included 2 horses, 12 dogs, 8 cats, 6 huge rabbits, 4 dwarf bunnies, 15 ducks and 60 chickens), and we had 3 large aviaries where we raised a variety of birds .. zebra finches, parakeets, lovebirds, doves & pigeons) so I had a lot of experience caring for a variety of animals and dealing with their injuries and illnesses. In the process, I sustained a few boo-boo's of my own..blood poisoning from a cat bite and another time from a cat scratch, a couple of dog bites-one bad one from a puppy farm dog (undisclosed by the owner), dozens of bumps, bruises, bites and back injuries from horses, bites from birds and a bezillion bug bites! In spite of all that, I loved the work! You sure don't get rich in $$$ doing it, but the gratification of making a small difference in the life of an animal and his/her people is priceless...this sounds like a MasterCard ad! lol I had to stop working in Oct '07 though..had knee replacement surgery in Aug 07..perfect surgery..awesome recovery..and then I blew it by going back to work too soon..only stayed off for 5 wks; my doctor wanted me off for 16 wks! In the next few weeks, I was injured a couple of times..had massive tendonitis from going up and down a flight of stairs on a 4 day/3 night job..doctor gave me 2 cortisone shots for that, then 11 days later, was on a flight of stairs, almost at the top, when one of the dogs I was caring for, an 80 lb yellow lab, came running up the steps behind me. She tripped and center-punched the back of my new knee almost sending me backwards down the flight of stairs! In spite of excrutiating pain, I managed to save myself from falling, but 15 minutes later I got a spider bite that almost sidelined me permanently. It was a common little spider, nothing to get excited about, but it bit me 4" below my new knee which is not good. Nine days later, the resulting Staph infection required emrgency surgery! My orthopaedic surgeon, who is also my Hero forever, performed another perfect surgery and literally saved my life. They tell me if not for him, I would've died within 2-3 hours. If you ever need a knee or hip specialist, he's absolutely, hands down, the very best! Send me a message on this website if you want info on him. My recovery has been a long one with a lot of bumps in the road along the way, but little by little, I'm working on getting back to normal. The difficulties I'm dealing with are to be expected given the nature of my surgery. It will take at least 2 years to even come close to being normal again. But thanks to my incredible doctor, I have the chance to do that.********PLEASE READ MY FOOTNOTE BELOW! Pete and I have a pretty simple life (which is fine by me!) that's rich in the things that really count. We've had our struggles (who hasn't?), but we always overcome life's unexpected surprises. We've tackled the challenges as a team instead of letting adversity drive a wedge between us. And we play together well! lol We've stayed in South Orange County..never lived anywhere else..but we may retire in Northern Arizona. We bought an acre of land in the Williams area (32 miles west of Flaggstaff on I40/Route 66)and we hope to be able to settle down there when we retire .. if we ever can retire, that is! Looking at the questions from the Story Wizard to the right, these are the ones I'd respond to: 1. Which teacher(s) would you love to see again & why? Jane Koerber (PE) and my Physiology teacher (can't remember his name..hate when that happens!) Those are 2 teachers who made a big difference in my life in many, very personal ways, especially Mrs. Koerber. Does anyone know where they are now? 2. You get one do over-what would it be? I'd go to med school and study psychiatry. Have done tons of career-related testing, and they all say I was born to be a Shrink! lol I just practice medicine without a license ... all my friends call me their Shrink ... I just don't charge for my services! lol 3. Talk about your oldest friend, how you met and why you clicked. My oldest and dearest best friend is Alice (Moberg)(Baumer) Blix. I think it was our sophomore year when we met. Alice and her family (Mom, Dad, Sister & Brother, Paul) moved to Newport Beach from Azuza and was a friend of Carla Wolfe's. We were introduced by Carla and basically became instantly inseparable. At graduation, Alice and I were both engaged to best friends, Carl Baumer and Larry Kinsella (neither went to Harbor). Alice and Carl got married in July 1966, but I broke off my engagement to Larry. I think the idea of best friends being married to best friends just sounded like a lot of fun, but common sense prevailed., and I gave the engagement ring back. Sadly, Carl passed away at an early age .. he was only 50-ish. Alice remarried about 3 yrs later and is happily married to Dave Blix who she and Carl had known for several years. They moved to Colorado when Alice's younger daughter, April, had a health scare. Last I heard, her other daughter, Syndy, was planning to move there, too. We still keep in touch though not as often as we would like. 3. Where have you lived? Newport Beach (1966-73), Santa Ana/South Coast Plaza Area (1973-78), Mission Viejo (1978-81), Trabuco Canyon (1981-2003) and Laguna Hills (2003-Present). 4. The one person from my past who I'd most like to see again is _________ because ______. There's one person who was a very special friend, and I never had the chance to tell her how important she was to me. I think she knew I valued her friendship, but I was too shy to come right out and say it. Her name was Linda Vitolo. She enrolled at Harbor in our junior year (1964) and was a very quiet and shy girl. I befriended her on her first day of school and helped her to find her classes. From that first day on, we were friends. If any of you know where she is today, I'd love to find out how to contact her. 5. What happened to your first crush? I had a huge crush on Kirk Schuller (sp?) in my junior year. He was soooo cute! Anybody know where he is today? 6. Whats the weirdest job you ever had? I got the prize for having had the most different jobs at our 5-year reunion! Think there were about 10! Probably one of the weirdest of all was one of my pet care jobs ... the client was an equine veterinarian and she let her home be completely overrun by her dozens of animals! My daughter and I were doing our pet care business together at that time, and we had to be approved by this gal's aging German Shepherd before she would hire us to do the job ... I'm very serious! If you didn't pass the dog's approval, you didn't get to be her friend! I remember the first time we went to her house .. we were trying to be professional, but we were completely distracted by her herd of cats going in & out of the back of her couch! She let them tear up all her furniture to create their little hidey-holes and comfy spots! But once we passed the German Shepherd test, we got the job, and it was a big one! In addition to the dog, she had 4 horses, 2 miniature donkeys and 34 cats! There was never a dull moment on that job! And that's just one of many pet care stories! I've slept in a barn with a pregnant mare ready to foal any second, driven down the 241 toll road at 90 mph with one hand on the steering wheel and the other hand doing manual heart massage on a 13-year-old poodle in late-stage congestive heart failure, cleaned up floods due to plumbing failures, administered subcutaneous IV fluids to several animals (including my own), most notably to a 21-year-old kitty, tended to a shipment of ladybugs used for pest control and sometimes even found myself doing 2 overnight jobs at the same time! There's never a dull moment when you're working with animals! Guess I should wrie a book as I have endless critter tales to tell .. some funny, some heartbreaking, some highly dangerous and some that make up my most gratifying memories over the course of my 61 years! (You know, that number is just wrong..I'm totally convinced my Mother lied to me about my age and made up a phony birth certificate just to confuse me!) lol 7. What about you would surprise everyone at your high school reunion? I have 5 tattoos and 1 unusual piercing (it's in my my ear but in an uncommon spot)... I have 3 tattoos in a cluster on my left ankle, 1 small tattoo on the back of my neck and 1 that wraps around my left wrist .... and, no, I'm not a biker chick! (although I did ride dirt bikes for several years long before girls started doing that sort of thing). Alway...Expand for more
s felt better having 4 wheels under me than only 2. On the street in a car, I'd race anything and anyone if I had a competitive car. In 1973, I bought a 1971 Datsun (Nissan, now) 240Z. First thing I did was take out the A/C because it had a negative affect on the performance of the car. Basically, I left it stock except for 3 things ... put dual exhaust on it so it would breath easier, had a vapor injection system installed (similar to aircraft engines) which helped that hot OHV/OHC in-line 6 cylinder engine run cool and fast and modified the throttle linkage so my husband would quit running into the freezer in the garage. The stock Z had very complex throttle linkage that made it just about impossible to ease down on the accelerator. The car had "stop" and "go" and it was very hard to get used to driving! I loved that car ... had two Z specialists work on it during the 11 years I owned it, and they both said it was the fastest stock Z car they'd ever driven. And I put it to the test many times! I got into hundreds of play races on the street, but also got into at least 3 dozen (probably more)very serious street races (and that doesn't count the times I went fast all by myself..lol). The 240Z was more of a road car than a drag racer, but I was only beaten twice in drag races. I knew the two guys who beat me, and both their cars were highly modified so it wasn't even a fair race. But they both said they were pretty impressed that a girl could throw such a mean speed shift! They told me no else had ever made it that close to them at the finish line in a street race, even a fair one! The fastest I ever drove the car was about 120 mph. We lived next to Alton Avenue in Santa Ana in the early 70's, and at that time, Alton was a long, straight, 2-lane road. It still had the quarter mile markers painted on it from when we drag raced there in high school. Back then, it was in the middle of lima bean fields! In the 70's, there were beans growing on one side of the road and houses on the other, but they were set back a couple hundred feet from the edge of the road. Alton was about a mile long between Main St. and Greenville Ave. and a great place to see what your car was made of! There was a Santa Ana policeman who would stop to chat (when patrolling our neighborhood) when he saw me outside working on my car, and he let me in on the safest time to race out there without getting caught! So I took my car out there at sunrise one morning and ran it through the mile a few times. On my last run, I got it up to 120 mph, but I was approaching the Greenville/Alton intersection too fast. There weren't any other cars on the road, but it takes a lot of road to slow down when you're going that fast. I kind of got a little sideways through the intersection from braking a little too hard, but still had control! What a ride! Loved every second! My husband still tells me to slow down, and he wishes I didn't have such nerves of steel when I get behind the wheel of a car. My Mom passed away in 2002, and I never did confess to her why she needed to replace tires on our 1961 Corvair every 6 months when I started driving at 16. Probably better she didn't know! lol I always love to hear from old friends so if you feel like it, drop me an email on this website. I'd love to hear from you! FOOTNOTE ABOUT MY KNEE SURGERY: My surgeon, who I also called My Hero, turned out not to be worthy of that title! Several weeks after he did my 2nd knee surgery for the staph infection (surgery #2 was on 10/31/07), I noticed my "new" knee was bowing out to the side slightly. That was in January 2008. At first, I thought nothing of it, but then it got worse visually and of course, my pain was greatly exacerbated. Toward the end of February 2008, he started giving me cortisone injections again, and this time he was careful to wait until the minimum 12-weeks post-op period had passed. And over that period, my knee destabilized causing severe joint pain in my hips. Even when my side-effects were glaringly obvious, he continued with the injections. He convinced me they were safe, and I believed him. I'll skip the details right now, but suffice it to say, he was feeding me toxic levels of cortisone. I ultimately had 19 cortisone injections in 16 months! In January of 2009, I hit the end of my rope with him! He refused to answer my questions regarding the lateral bowing of my new knee which by now had become startlingly extreme and still wanted to pump more cortisone into me. On 1/28/2009, I was in the ER at Saddleback Memorial Hospital thinking I was having a heart attack! But instead of heart failure, I was suffering the effects of blood clots! I had 1 in my left leg and one in my lung ... this was life-threatening event #2! Fortunately, they were caught early and it sppears I've dodged yet another bullet! At this writing, it's now January 2010, and I've had no recurrences at all. When I was discharged from the hospital 3 days later, I set about researching cortisone. What I found was mind-blowing, and I hadn't had a clue about any of it! I learned that during the period of 16 months when I had 19 cortisone injections, I should not have been given any more than 4 injections!! Why didn't I know this before?? Believe me, I've beaten myself up time and time again for that, but the truth is, I really did not know how much was okay. Personally, I've suffered with constant, intractable pain, worry, fear and the list goes on and on. Worse than that though, my family has suffered through 2 very real life-threatening events, and my health challenges have changed the course of their lives as well as my own. It took several months to find a new orthopaedic surgeon. The practices I visited took one look at my x-rays and told me to go back to the surgeon who did the work if I was still having problems! No one wanted to take my case, and it wasn't until I found someone that would take it, that I realized why. You see, this doctor who I called My Hero, had done at least 1 bad surgery and probably 2!!! I was stunned, but everything that had been confusing to me during the previous months of trying to find a new doctor who could help me with my deteriorating knee because crystal clear! Those other doctors took one look at my x-rays and saw "LAWSUIT" written all over my case! My new doctor explained that 1 and possible both bones in my leg had been cut at the wrong angle. In addition to that, he said he suspected that the replacement spacer surgeon #1 put in my knee during the 2nd surgery was too small. All of that added up to an extremely unstable knee that he said was a "ticking time bomb!" It would be inevitable that this knee would deteriorate to the point where I wouldn't be able to walk anymore. The only way to stop the cycle cycle would be to do the surgery a 3rd time!!! Shocking news to say the least! Because of the potential for a lawsuit, I decided to get a 2nd opinion .... that doctor said exactly the same thing my new doctor said. It was imperative that I have another surgery to fix this knee. So on 8/05/09 (exactly 2 years after the first surgery), I underwent a knee surgery that lasted over 2 1/2 hours .... a very long time considering knee replacement can be totally completed in 40-45 minutes! I spent 10 days in the hospital, also a very, very long time for a knee surgery!! At this writing (1/28/2010), I'm going through a very difficult healing process which will be ongoing for 12-24 months. All things considered, I'm doing very well. I still have considerable pain, but my knee is straight as an arrow and I regain a little strength everyday. I expect to be in much better shape a year from now. The bad news is that all this trauma (4 major surgeries in 2 yrs-there was another emergency surgery caused scar tissue from other surgeries I'd had in previous years) has triggered an accelerated arthritic response. I'm looking at probable surgeries on both hands and possibly back surgery at some point in the future. After seeing a Spine Specialist, we've decided to begin a conservative range of treatment to put off surgery as long as possible. So on the one hand, I'm very lucky to be alive after 2 bad knee surgeries and gross, negligent misuse of cortisone by my first surgeon. In spite of everything he did wrong, he was able to stop the progression of the lethal staph infection I had .... an infection that was more likely caused by the multiple cortisone injections he gave me too soon after my first surgery...and he subsequently called in an amazing Infectious Diseases Specialist whom I credit for keeping me alive during those crucial weeks just after the 2nd surgery. I'm very thankful for that ... I'm still alive and I still have 2 legs to stand on! But the rest of his treatment was clearly negligent .. hard to believe it because he's a very prominent, highly respected and likable doctor who enjoys a successful practice in Newport Beach and Hoag Hospital. I won't post his name here, but if anyone is interested in knowing more about this story and who the doctor is, please don't hesitate to ask. I sincerely would hate to see anyone go through the misery I've expoerienced during the past 2 1/2 years and it's not over yet! So if you'd like more information on this, just send me a PRIVATE message on this website and I'll respond as soon as I read it. And I can highly recommend a surgeon who is well-known and the surgeon of choice to fix other doctor's screw-ups! During my 10-day hospital stay after he fixed my totally messed up knee, literally dozens of medical professionals said this to me. He has patients who come from all over California and a few that even travel from out-of-state to have him do their surgeries! It is my blessing and exteme good fortune (thanks to my sister-in-law, Diane Shoffner Toedter) to have found my way to this awesome doctor! In closing, my advice to all of you ... OMG, take good care of your knees!!! lolol Be Happy, Ludi Weeks (Toedter) :)
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