Marilyn Dotson:  

CLASS OF 1969
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Twentynine palms, CA

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Life I started and finished school in 29 Palms, swore to leave the area when I was old enough. Well I made it to Yucca when I met and married Harley Gerth, stayed with that idiot for 10 years. I had a daughter with him. Then the fickle finger of fate pointed my direction and said to try another road, so I married my highschool sweety, Herman. We stayed married 18 years, had one son together. Thats enough, I'm through being married to anyone. I met a neat guy online, he's a nice person but lives in the dark ages, still drags his knuckles when he walks across the floor, so we wont make our relationship a legal one. I have been blessed in life, I had wonderful parents and family. I have 3 grandsons who really make life worth living. I love having them. I'm still strung out across the country. I inherited some property in Arizona, bought some in Texas and have a cattle ranch in Kentucky. I'm selling a lot of the properties. Too much distance between them. I'm going to get back to work soon, start earning instead of spending. What a novel idea!! School TPHS WAS ONE OF THE BEST. BEST KIDS, BEST TEACHERS, JUST ALL ROUND THE BEST. I MISS ALL THE PEOPLE I WENT TO SCHOOL WITH, AND WISH I HAD TAKEN MORE TIME TO GET TO KNOW A FEW PEOPLE A LITTLE BIT BETTER. MR HOPKINS WAS THE GREATEST TEACHER/FRIEND I EVER HAD, I ADORE HIM. IF IT WAS TO DO AGAIN, THE ONLY THING I'D CHANGE IS I WOULD NEVER GET MARRIED, STILL HAVE MY KIDS, BUT JUST WOULDNT GET MARRIED. I'D LIKE THE CHANCE TO REWIND AND REDO MY LIFE FROM HIGH SCHOOL ON. LOTS I'D CHANGE. BUT GOOD FRIENDS AND FAMILY ARE SO IMPORTANT, I WAS LUCKY ENOUGH TO HAVE BOTH IN TPHS. Workplace I STARTED OFF IN A NURSING HOME AND FOUND OUT I LOVED TAKING CARE OF PEOPLE. IT FILLS THE EMPTY PLACES IN MY LIFE. I WENT ON TO WORK IN PALM SPRINGS, WENT TO COD AND BECAME AN LVN. I'M STILL AN LVN. I GOT VALUABLE EXPERIENCE IN SALINAS, CA WORKING IN ICU AND HAVE CONTINUED TO WORK IN ICU SINCE THEN, WHEN I'M WORKING. I LOVE THE FAST PACE OF ICU, CONSTANTLY HAVING TO BE ON YOUR TOES AND THINKING ABOUT WHAT THE DOCTORS FAILED TO RECOGNIZE. ITS A VERY REWARDING CAREER AND I STILL ENJOY NURSING WHEN I'M WORKING. I always wanted to be a mom when I grew up. My family and friends thought that was a good idea. As it turns out, they were partially right, partially wrong, I'd like to have been a better mom to both my children..this prompter is telling me to add more to this saga, geez, its saying whats the wildest thing I ever did in school.. did we do wild things back then? I was as straight and boring as can be. I guess the worst I ever did was go drinking with Kathy Farmer and Dave Miller one night, we were at the shack, everyone knows where that is right? The cops came out and busted the party up, Kathy and I ended up walking home through the desert at 1am. I was grounded to the floor for months! Boy was I a bad girl!! ha I think my biggest surprise about life is its not really a leave it to Beaver world after all. I had such expectations and my choices in life made them fall flat. I'd love to be able to do things again, but we don't have that option. I've made do with what life handed me and through the guidance of my wonderful family, my mom and dad especially, I've been...Expand for more
able to cope well. When my sister was killed by her idiot husband driving drunk I nearly lost it, but have come to grips with that also. Its hard to lose your only sibling. Hard to lose any sibling, friend, family, anyone you love! My best childhood memory.. anything to do with being with my dad. He was my hero in life and we had such wonderful times together. We did anything from riding my horse together to fishing, camping, swimming, you name it, I was up his butt. I don't know how he stood me but he put up with me all those years. I've never forgotten seeing him sitting on the edge of his bed, face in his hands crying when I told him I was going to marry Harley. Boy if that moment could be relived I'd do it in a heartbeat. I never would hurt my dad intentionally and marrying Harley tore our family up. It was 10 years before things got back to being nice again, and those are 10 lost years. It wasn't worth what it cost me. I only had a few more years with dad before he had a massive heart attack. He lasted a year, just like the doctors said he would. Nowdays he could be fixed and continue to live out his life, but in the 80's the technology wasn't there. I miss my dad horribly, mama too but my hero died and I wasn't there. ENDING 2009: Somewhere on this mess of a website is a posting I did about having breast cancer, I'm clueless where it is so I can't add to it, but will add to the end of this posting. I'm still such a blonde and I'm not offended when people remember me being goofy as hell, I still am! Over Thanksgiving I suddenly realized I have no recall of last years Thanksgiving. I was in the process of getting chemo, losing my hair, losing my mind and fighting hard for my life. So maybe its ok not to remember, but its very unsettling. My doc says I'm cancer free but I find that hard to believe. When I had the surgery they took 15 lymph nodes from my arm and all were negative which is good, but I just know that my life has never been that easy. Not that chemo and surgery were easy, they weren't. But its hard to believe that I could be so close to death and take a few months of chemo, get my boob cut off and presto! I'm cured. I find it hard to believe. So I wait for the other shoe to drop. I still have days of feeling really bad, really tired and really sorry for myself. I didn't think I'd miss the righty but I do. What difference does it make when you're my age? It matters. I am looking for a doctor to do reconstruction if its possible to find one. I think my attitude would improve a lot. In the mean time I have to give thanks daily to those who prayed for me so diligently. I believe I'm only alive because of the power of prayer. If any of you macho men are reading this please remember that breast cancer is not confined to women, men get it too. Please investigate anything unusual in your body and don't delay. Probably its nothing but you never know. Ok off my soap box. Life goes on, my butt gets bigger and I'm missing a boob, if anyone finds one they don't need put it on Ebay and let me know where to bid. Have a great 2010.. man, who'd have thunk we'd be alive in 2010? God is wonderful. Grandchildren are wonderful. I'm grateful to be alive and complaining for another year.
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