Marilyn McDaniel:  

CLASS OF 1960
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Barstow High SchoolClass of 1960
Barstow, CA
Fullerton, CA
Central High SchoolClass of 1984
Barstow, CA
Central High SchoolClass of 1984
Barstow, CA

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Life My Pets I had a red dobie named Brandy and two cats. On April 15, 2004, I had to have my Brandy put to sleep. She had been with me for 11 years & I miss her so much. She had been with me since I developed neuro-health problems & somehow she learned to take care of me, like tell me when it was time for medicine or to alert me when I started to black-out. She saved me from falling so many times but her heart was too weak to let her go on suffering. When her Dr. had to give her the shots, we sat in the floor beside her. All of techs & staff at pet hospital came in one by one to tell her good bye and to cry with me. She was loved by all and when I had to leave, there wasn't a dry eye in the whole hospital. I will always be grateful to the staff at Animal Hosp. at Narrows for their kindness, love and understanding toward me & Brandy. She was known as the loveable little red dobie. I just came back from USC where I saw another eye surgeon. (In Dec. I had surgery on Rt.eye to implant a lens. Three days later I had emer.surgery for Staph infection & I was blind). Since then I have been going to a "Retinal Vitreous Specialist" once a wk. then 2X wk. now every 3 wks.) Now Dr.wants to do 3rd surgery to remove debri from Staph that's on Retina. But has to be general anesthesia, minimum one hr.& use ventilator. My neurologist doesn't want me to have 3rd surgery at same hosp. because have been 4 cases of Staph same time I had 1st eye surg. So he sent me to USC, where I have now seen 3 Drs.((1st one(neuro-opthomologist)agreed needs to be done but last 2 were surgeons & they don't want to do surgery because of neuro problems,etc.)). Made it sound like they didn't want to clean up someone else's mess because I might sue them. I have no intent to sue anyone! Only reason the neurologist sent me to USC was he didn't want me to have another surgery at hosp. where I got Staph. So, I go back to neurologist in June & see what he says. If he talks ...Expand for more
to 1st Dr. I saw at USC who agreed has to be major surg., then they can tell me what to do. I just want some sight back. There's some permanent damage to the Retina from the Staph(1st Dr. I saw at USC told me only way I could get infection on Retina during 1st surg. was from improperly sterilized instruments but that doesn't mean Dr did anything wrong). Four patients at same hosp. had other types of surg.& got Staph, so I am a little scared to go back there again. I'm scared to have surgery too but I don't have any choice. My Kids My son, Ricky McDaniel, is married to Debbi(Kojder)and I have a very special grandson named Justin, aged 7 yrs. He now plays soccer and looks very much like his daddy did at that age. My Life After my divorce I worked as a legal secretary for 3 yrs., attended law school part-time until I finally graduated. Since my son was born with congenital heart disease, after he had open heart surgery, I went to work for the school district where I worked until I had to retire on disability after 29 yrs. I had minor surgery while I was still working. It resulted in a nervous system disorder which is incurable. It has many of symptoms of MS but doctors manage the symptoms with medications. I also found out I have Thoracic Outlet Syndrome but my Dr. is trying to treat it without surgery. My life is not exactly what I expected but you never know what may happen. Your life can be changed in an instant. I tell people to never take anything for granted, be grateful for every day, for your family, your friends, your health and the health of your family, and especially for your life. You may plan your life: "work until I'm 65 then retire, travel, continue to lead an active lifestyle, help other family and friends who can no longer do physical labor, or many things may be in that plan". When your life unfolds, the reality of your plan versus God's plan may not be the same. Just be grateful for the life you have.
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