Mathis Rogers:
CLASS OF 1980
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Whiteface High SchoolClass of 1980
Whiteface, TX
Mathis's Story
Updated: July 12, 2011.
After graduation in 1980, there really werenât many options for someone who didnât want to be a farmer, in Whiteface, so I followed in my brotherâs footsteps and joined the Air Force. That wasnât for me, so I moved in with my grandparents in Plainview and got a job in a local grocery store as a carryout/sacker. That job lasted until the store was sold, and I was given my two-week notice while I was on vacation and stopped in to get some groceries as I was moving into my first apartment. The next week I started working at a convenience store. It was a good thing that I moved because I was working the 4-12 shift at the convenience store and it wouldnât have worked for me to live with my grandparents and work that shift. Since I had always wanted to be a disc jockey, I started hanging out at the Wayland Baptist Universitiesâ radio station with plans to attend Wayland the next semester, so they trained me. I had attempted to go to Wayland the previous semester, while still working at the grocery store, but found out the first day of class that I had Walking Pneumonia. Believe me, you donât want to walk with it, so I donât know why they call it that. A job came open at a local radio station for the graveyard shift on the weekends, so I took it and continued working at the convenience store. Sometime later, I met a lady who had a 2 year old son. She lived down the street from the convenience store and we hit it off. All the ladies in church told me not to, but I didnât listen and we got married. Afterwards, I got sick with the flu and was off work from both places for a couple of weeks. The District manager of the convenience store got mad and quit while I was out sick and the new manager came in and fired just about everyone in town (there are several of these stores in town). But they let me go back to another store part time, and I stayed there until they fazed me out. A friend from church owned a service station and let me work for him some, but it and the disk jockey job werenât enough to make ends meet. My wife was babysitting, so that helped. Her dad lived in Harlingen, (down in south Texas) so we packed up and moved in with him, his wife and their two young children. I couldnât find a job in Harlingen, so I moved in with my wifeâs brother and mother in Garland, and had a job at a convenience store the next week. A couple of months later my wife moved in with us and we found an apartment then she went back to Harlingen and got her son and brought him up and sheâd already found a job. Then the convenience store, which was new and on a corner, decided they werenât as busy as they thought they were going to be, so, since I was the last hired, me and the person hired before me were let go. It was in the era of when you had to have computer skills to get a job working with computers, but you couldnât get any skills until you had a job working with computers, so I managed to beg the manager at LaQuinta to hire me since they were going to get computers âin two weeksâ and he didnât want to have to train me twice, but they needed someone. So, he hired me. Several months later, our daughter was born and we decided that we really didnât want to spend winter in the Dallas area, so I called LaQuinta in Harlingen to see if they had any openings, and we moved back to Harlingen.
After a couple of years of my working the graveyard shift, my wife decided that since I was always tired and didnât really want to do anything with the family when I was off, she took the kids and moved in with her aunt and uncle that lived down the street from us. Shortly afterwards, my grandfather died and my mother and grandmother wanted me to be closer to them, so I checked with the LaQuintaâs in Amarillo and transferred to Amarillo.
I enjoyed Amarillo. I got involved with a computer usersâ group there and met several people. A friend of mine got a computer and logged onto a computer BBS (Bulletin Board System) that was ran by a friend of mine who built an IBM PC for me, and posted a âHiâ message on his BBS. Another user replied to him and then I started talking to him, also. While I was offline getting my new computer from the BBS operator set up, the BBS went down, and it was almost six months later that I was on another BBS that had Chat capabilities and the guy who had replied to my friendâs âHiâ called me into chat. We met where he worked the next Saturday and got to be good friends.
Some time later, LaQuinta changed their policies on how they did their pay scale, and I was way over the top with no advancement and no future there, so I started looking for another job. A client came in and said that they had an opening for a bookkeeper in Temple, TX. I said, âSure, whereâs Temple?â 68 miles North of Austin.
My friend that Iâd met on the BBS was on his way to Austin to go to UT, so I loaded him up in my U-Haul and we moved to Temple. The day I showed up for work, my trainer didnât, so I was basically learning on my own. After four weeks, I took my friend to the dorm in Austin, and then the next week I moved to Austin. That job didnât work out, but the boss was terminated since I was the sixth employee to leave that position in a year.
I did get a part-time job at a LaQuinta in Austin, and I got on with a couple of Temporary Agencies, too, so I stayed busy and met several people in the BBS community. One of my friends got a job working as a temporary at Front End Support at IBMâs OS/2 call center and he got me on. This was my dream job.
I love Austin and would love to go back, but thatâs not in the cards right now. Mom called me in 1994 and told me that Mamawâs Alzheimerâs was too much for her to handle by herself and sheâd fall at night when she got up to go to the bathroom and it was hard for Mom to get her up, so I left my dream job and moved back to Plainview.
I worked at home for a while, a friend of mine in Austin had gotten me on with a scientific research company either in Washington D.C. or New York, I canât remember which now, and I transcribed their tapes. It was great, but it was in the era of when everyone in Plainview either didnât know what a computer could do for them or didnât want to know, or did know and did it their self, so if it werenât for the transcription job, Iâd been in trouble. We had to put Mamaw in the nursing home because it was just too much for the two of us to handle. So, I finally gave in and went looking for a real job. The next week I was working at the Holiday Inn Express as the night auditor.
It was okay to be back in the motel business, but graveyard is hard to do when youâre living with your mother who is on a day schedule.
Then my Sunday school teacher decided to hire me to be his office manager for his computer shop that he ran out of his house. So I left the motel business again to get back into the computer business. I wonât go into detail of what happened there, but Iâll just say that Iâm surprised heâs still in business.
After leaving that job, I ran into the owner of the Holiday Inn Express and asked if he needed any help. The next week I started working at Best Western. He owned both.
My grandmother died in 1998, and we had to sell her house, so we found a nice place to rent and moved into it. I continued to work at Best Western until the manager drove me crazy and I walked out on him in the middle of a shift with his wife waiting in the car. Then Staples moved to town, so I got a job there. Retail is not for me, and I only stayed there for about six months. Afterwards, I put in my application at the Holiday Inn in Lubbock, and started working relief audit and relief security there.
Holiday Inn Express in Plainview sold and changed to Plainview Hotel, and I got a job working the night audit there, and we got the Ramada Limited franchise, but I kept my relief Audit/Security job in Lubbock. I worked for two years straight without a day off. Then we had a Rogersâ family reunion in Sweetwater, and I took off a few days to attend it.
Mother started having fender-benders when sheâd back out of somewhere, then one day she was on her way to her Ladiesâ Bible Study and turned in front of an oncoming car. It was red and she said she didnât see it. Totaled her car, I didnât see the other one. Luckily, neither she nor the lady driving the other car, were injured. So, after all the fender-benders, I told her she...Expand for more
couldnât drive my car, because I had to have it to go to work in Plainview and Lubbock, and that Iâd take her wherever she needed to go. Well, I was still sleeping during the day, so sheâd get bored and want to go to the Post Office, so sheâd take off on foot. Sheâd get back home and had received some junk mail, so sheâd take off again to go to the Post Office. Sheâd sometimes make two trips a day; it was a mile and a half one way. Sheâd fall occasionally, but someone would pick her up and bring her home. One afternoon she went out to the dumpster and I realized that she hadnât come back after about forty-five minutes, so I went looking for her. She was sitting on the ground by the dumpster and couldnât get up. Then one afternoon she went to the convenience store down the road from our house and fell in the middle of the street. The police came and woke me up. Thatâs when I discovered that her Alzheimerâs medication was making her pass out, as it says it can, and I took her to the doctor and had him change her from Aricept to Razadyne.
The owners of Ramada Limited sold to some easterners and we went back to Plainview Hotel until they got the Super 8 franchise. Then they wanted me to be the office manager. I had to work during the day for this job, so I quit the Holiday Inn in Lubbock. That worked out okay until business went down and I was printing the checks, but no one was signing them and everyone started calling wanting their money. Then the owner came to me one day and asked if Iâd go back to $6.00 per hour and go back to working the desk. I told him no and left. I called the Holiday Inn in Lubbock and said that I didnât want a job but if they needed any help, Iâd fill in. So, I got on unemployment and discovered that if you donât have a degree in something, you donât get a job out in the field I really would like to work in (computers). Well, a couple of months later Holiday Inn in Lubbock called me and said she needed to fire someone and would I come back. I said until either they replaced me or I found something else.
Iâve lost track of time of how long I was there, but I was working four days a week. Mother was getting worse with her wanting to go and falling, so I knew that I had to do something. My replacement finally got trained and she showed me how to apply for a job at Texas Tech University. A couple of months later I got a call from someone asking if I was still looking for a job. Yes. I had put in three applications, so I didnât know which one she was. I went to Lubbock for the interview and she said that she had one other prospect that she thought might be a better candidate since sheâd worked there before, but the job that they had was new and no one had done it yet. A couple of days later her assistant called to say that theyâd hired the other lady. Two weeks later the boss called me back and asked if I was still interested, the one they hired had put in her two-week notice. She found her dream job elsewhere.
My last night at the Holiday Inn in Lubbock, my previous boss from Ramada Limited stopped in to spend the night, and I had breakfast with her, then I was half-way home when my brother called and asked when I was going to get there. I told him that I wasnât planning on going to Carlsbad. He said he was at my house. We went out for breakfast, but since Iâd already eaten, I just had a glass of Dr. Pepper while they ate. He informed me that when he knocked on the door, Mom opened it and said, âMy sonâs not here.â She basically told a stranger she was home alone since she didnât recognize him. We hadnât seen him in three years.
I was told that there was an Adult Activity Center in Lubbock and a lady who works there lives in Plainview and has a van that picks up several people in Plainview, Hale Center, and Abernathy and takes them to Lubbock every day. I got her in it and she said that she didnât like it there, but she was always ready to go before I was each morning. And, since the center sits between two churches, she thought she was going to church. When Sunday came and we headed for our church, sheâd always say âI thought we were going to church.â
Then she got where when we almost got home, sheâd say, âWhat are you bringing me here for? I thought we were going home.â
And she was found by a friend heading toward Seth Ward one day when she was on her way back from the Post Office. The friend picked her up and brought her home.
One Sunday morning I got up at 3:00 to go to the bathroom and she was sitting in her chair with her heavy coat on, ready to go to Church. I tried to get her back to bed, but she wouldnât go. I went back to bed and when I got up at 7:00, sheâd been outside since there had been trash in the kitchen trash can, but it was gone then. It had been there at 3:00 when I got up, so I donât know when she went out. I knew then that she could have gotten turned around and since she was wearing a black coat and it was dark outside, she could have gotten ran over, or fallen and frozen to death since it was very cold. I called a few nursing homes in Lubbock, but they were all full on the Medicare/Medicaid plans. If I paid $4500 cash per month, I could have moved her in right then. So, I called the Prairie House in Plainview, where my grandmother had been, and she told me sheâd call momâs doctor and then call me back. She called back that afternoon and told me to bring her in. I took the rest of the week off and got her moved in.
I wasnât able to afford the house without Motherâs help, so a friend of mineâs mom had a two-room apartment in her RV barn and she let me move in. It was also across the freeway from Mom, so it was better all the way around.
My friend died in December of 2008, so her mom moved to an Assisted Living Center close to her other daughter in Wellington, TX, and she sold the house. The new owners considered letting me stay there, but he decided that my apartment would make a great office for him, and she has three big dogs, of which Iâve discovered Iâm allergic to animals now, so I decided to move to Lubbock. I was still enjoying my job at Tech, even though we were having some future changes that I was not too happy about, but could deal with, and I loved being 20 minutes from work instead of 50. I went to see Mom on Fridayâs and have dinner with friends, and went to Sunday school and Church in Plainview on Sunday and then see mom then have lunch with friends from church and I got settled in my duplex.
In December of 2010, my supervisor at Tech wouldnât do her job, so I did and they fired me for it. So Iâm currently unemployed.
I have managed okay and I have also gotten my stories published as eBooks. I was able to publish my first Print on Demand novel in June, so itâs available now. Itâs called âThe Mysterious Bed.â
In March of 2011, the Prairie House called and said that Mom didnât need to be in the secure Alzheimerâs unit any more, since she wasnât trying to escape any more, so I brought her to a facility here in Lubbock. A few weeks later, she forgot how to swallow and they took good care of her the best they could. They said she didnât suffer, when Jesus came and got her on the morning of the 24th of March. I believe that she started forgetting to swallow while she was in Plainview because sometimes sheâd wind up with more food on her chest than should have been.
Itâs hard to believe that my daughter will be 28 on the first of November. Sheâs still living with her mom in Dallas, and is trying to get out, but doesnât look like itâs going to be easy.
Since Iâm not working now, Iâm spending all my time writing. But I havenât decided whether Iâm going to start searching for a job elsewhere or just stay here. I am okay for a while, but will have to start considering something probably around May of next year. My lease isnât up until June 2012, so I wonât start worrying about it until May. Would really like to move back to Austin, but will have to find a job there first.
The pastor at church in Plainview told me about a small Nazarene church here in Lubbock, so before Mom died, I started going to it. Itâs different, but itâs really nice and Iâm enjoying it. Iâm taking care of the YouTube page for them and videoing the Worship Service.
I hope I havenât bored you to death with this, but itâs my story and thatâs what they wanted me to post.
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