Michael Stein:  

CLASS OF 1979
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Calabasas, CA
Calabasas, CA
Calabasas, CA
Calabasas, CA

Michael's Story

Hello Class of 1979! The reunion was quite fun and it was wonderful getting to chat with a number of my old high school buddies. While it is still difficult to believe that 30 years have passed since our CHS days, there's no denying it as my "now" and "then" photographs prove! Just for fun, I went on-line to refresh my memory about some of the major events of 1979 OTHER than the commencement exercises for Calabasas High School's first graduating class. Here are a couple of interesting items: * Famous people born in 1979: Brandy, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Kate Hudson, Norah Jones, Heath Ledger, Lamar Odom. * Famous people who died in 1979: Conrad Hilton, Nelson Rockefeller, John Wayne, Vivian Vance and Mamie Eisenhower. * Average cost for 1 gallon of gas: 85.9 cents (BOY have times changed!) * Best Song of the Year: Just the Way You Are (Billy Joel); Best Movie of the Year: Kramer v. Kramer (Dustin Hoffman's first best actor Academy Award) * Political happenings: Margaret Thatcher becomes Great Britain's first female Prime Minister, Anwar Sadat and Menachem Begin sign Egypt-Israel peace accord, 42 year old Sadaam Hussein becomes President of Iraq, the Soviet Union invades Afghanistan. Plenty of things were happening right here at home in Calabasas. Even this many years later, I still think so fondly of our days at CHS and joining Classmates.com has brought back so many memories. Learning the new class rotations, lunch in Room H-7 (remember the first cafeteria which also served as the first theater for school plays and the site for school dances?!), playing sports teams from 4 year high schools and getting trounced and trying to come up with the school's alma mater. I specifically remember a school assembly for all 8th graders (presided over by future first principal Al Acton) on the field at A.E. Wright Middle School -- the topic? Voting on the mascot and school colors for the soon to be completed new high school. Although Coyotes and brown and gold were the winners, do you remember what the runner-ups were? Cavaliers and green and white (Don't ask me why I remember that). I think we made the right choice. I was particularly happy that CHS opened when it did since the campus was literally less than a mile and a half from my house in Calabasas (where my parents still live) which was far more convenient than the prospect of taking a bus all the way out to Agoura High School off of Chesbro Road. I usually walked to school, accompanied by Barrie Bass (who lived up the street from my house) , Steve White and Mike Daniels (who lived just around the corner) and Ken Fryk (who lived literally adjacent to the school). Of course, once I had my driver's license, despite how close school was, I could usually be seen in my silver, 1965 Ford mustang, often pulling up with Barbara Tullo (now Powers) in the passenger seat. I was blessed with many friends at CHS -- Steve, Mike, Ken, Barrie, Vicki Berns, Carolyn Crandall and Sue Gartland just to name a few. Breaking in a new school was of course challenging but it was also quite a bit of fun. We knew that the traditions the school would enjoy for years began with us. I played on the baseball and basketball teams briefly but found my niche I think on the speech and debate team (big surprise considering what I now do for a living). Many of you probably remember me doing the morning announcements over the loud speaker (my first real speaking gig!). I was also blessed with some very fine teachers. Ann Fagan nurtured my love of reading. Steve Totheroh, George Blackmon and Bruce Wilkoff set into motion my life long interest in government and politics. Doug Pollock helped me develop the ability to write with the almost daily snap essays we were required to write in his Advanced Composition class. Jim Vidakovich's Radio and TV class helped with public speaking, something I use every day in court or meeting with clients. Yet, it was arguably in Helen Pesavento's class that I learned the skill that perhaps has been the most important since our CHS days -- the ability to type! Those 4 years just flew by and soon, we were sitting together in caps and gowns (after being made to walk down the incredibly long walkway from the upper field to the football field!) and I had the good fortune to be one of the graduation speakers on that very special day. I vividly remember the mixture of emotions I was feeling. Of course, elated to be a high school graduate, nervous about the ability to successfully tackle college and frankly, quite sad at the realization that this would be the last time I would see many of the people who I had grown up with. After a short layover at Pierce College (I needed a less intimidating intro to the whole college thing), I proudly became a UCLA Bruin. It was there that I first encountered a truly majestic campus (one can't see a photograph of Royce Hall and not think UCLA), a rich collegiate history and tradition, political activists (there would be many more awaiting my arrival in Berkeley a few years later!) and the sense that life was now moving into high gear. I'll admit I was more than a little nervous the first day I sat in one of those large lecture halls but the education I had received at CHS quickly showed me that with a lot of hard work, I could manage the complexities of college. My long standing distaste of anything USC became particularly pronounced during this time, so much so that even today when I hear that "other school's" fight song, I literally cringe (is it just me or does their band repeatedly play the same boring song over and over?). Sadly, Westwood was very different then. Although I haven't been back to the village in years, I know its fallen on hard times. Back then, Friday and Saturday nights ensured that the streets would be brimming with people looking to be one of the first to see the release of a new movie. People watching was almost as entertaining as going to a movie. Hamburger Hamlet right there in the village offered a great place to eat but for those of us on a tighter budget, motoring down Westwood Boulevard to Pico was easy and it meant enjoying the best burger in town (still) at the Apple Pan. Donning another graduation robe in 1983 and receiving my college diploma made me so proud but I knew I had some more things to do. After working full time at the Santa Monica Superior Court as a Deputy Clerk from January until August, 1984, virtually all of my worldly possessions were packed in suitcases in the back of my parents' car as we motored north to Berkeley for me to start my studies at Boalt Hall Law School at the University of California, Berkeley. I really had no choice -- Mr. Fraisse insisted that I become an attorney! I spent 3 wonderful years in the Bay Area and fell in love with San Francisco and Berkeley. Having lived at home and commuted while attending UCLA, law school was my first experience living on my own and fending for myself. I was 22, had never lived anywhere but Southern California and hadn't the foggiest idea how to do laundry (I would quickly learn). Fortunately, contrary to the horror stories I hear from many of my colleagues about how miserable they were in law school, I loved it, due in no small measure to the beauty and serenity of the Cal campus and the Bay Area in general. I have the distinct memory on more than one occasion of gathering with friends on the roof of our dorm to relax and take in the sun slowly slipping out of sight behind the majestic Golden Gate bridge. After sunset, the eerie sight of the tower on Alcatraz Island casting its circular beam of l...Expand for more
ight into the foggy night sky was strangely beautiful as well. As you can see from this description and on my profile page, San Francisco and Berkeley are two of my absolute favorite destinations and the family and I have visited there many times over the years. After graduating from Boalt in 1987, I migrated back to Los Angeles and joined the law firm of Loeb and Loeb. The firm was an excellent place to get my feet wet in the profession. I met two of my most important mentors there and we are still very much in touch. While Loeb was an important step in my professional career, it played an even more critical role in my personal life for it was there that I met a beautiful and charming young lady who manned a desk in the Firm's accounting department -- my future wife Sandie. I was immediately struck by her and wanted desperately to ask her out but faced one obstacle -- the Firm's unwritten, but well known, policy against intra-office dating. In my first major act of defiance (no doubt a trait developed and nurtured during my years in Berkeley, the bastion of all social protest!), I ignored the rule and managed to muster up the courage to ask Sandie out on a date. Fortunately for me, she ignored her own rule against dating attorneys and accepted my invitation. The date was January 9, 1988, we shared chinese food at what is still our favorite chinese restaurant in Chinatown, Yang Chow, and we've been together ever since. Married for 20 years this October, Sandie and I are the proud parents of two beautiful daughters, Rachael (age 18) and Ilyssa (age 15). As you can see from my photo album, these two are the jewels of our eyes. In addition to being exceptionally good students (both are routinely honor roll members), they are blessed with a multitude of talents including singing, dancing, acting, painting, drawing, knitting, needlepoint and sculpting just to name a few! Even more importantly, they're both kind, gracious and loving young women who would do anything to help a friend. Nothing that Sandie and I have ever done before we met and nothing we may still do in the future will ever match the pride we feel when we think of these two wonderful people. As we both often say, Rachael and Ilyssa are truly our greatest achievements. We all live in Pasadena with our other child, Rachael's dog Jamaica (who can also be seen in my photo album along with photos of Ilyssa's beloved labrador Jasper who passed away of old age --14 years old to be exact -- on September 17, 2008). Anxious to increase the chances of developing a trial practice, I left Loeb for a brief stint at a Hawaii based firm (unfortunately I was in the L.A. office!), Carlsmith Ball and then spent a number of years at the Los Angeles office of Bryan Cave, a St. Louis based firm. Incidentally, for those of you who live in the midwest, you'll laugh when you hear that the first time I found myself in St. Louis for a mandatory new lawyer training session, it was January and the city was enduring a particularly nasty ice storm. Having grown up in Los Angeles, I of course had no clue what an ice storm was. Needless to say, experiencing one made me realize even more readily that Southern California is the ONLY place to live! While at Bryan Cave, the itch to do trial work only intensified and a retired partner suggested I meet with a buddy of his, Guy Nicholson, who was the named partner of a small Century City law firm. At that time, Rachael was 7, Ilyssa was 5, we were all living in Glendale and the idea of commuting across town to Century City was unappealing to say the least. I almost didn't go to the meeting. The retired partner insisted, "Just meet with him" he urged. I relented and I'm so glad I did. Guy and I clicked immediately and we've been partners ever since. I had found my niche at last and was trying cases almost immediately. The Firm has 6 lawyers, a far cry from the hundreds of attorneys that roamed the halls of Bryan Cave and Loeb and frankly, I wouldn't have it any other way. My practice for the last 10 years has been almost exclusively trial work in a wide variety of subject areas. While most of my cases will never make headlines, there was one memorable exception in 2001. In that year, my Firm and I were asked to take on, free of charge, the case of 2 1/2 year old Grant Saucier who at 6 months old, had been nearly fatally shaken by a day care operator. We said yes immediately. I took the case to trial in San Bernardino and won a $9.9 million dollar jury verdict. While Grant's parents knew going in that the judgment would be largely uncollectable, they still wished to proceed in order to be able to tell Grant later in his life, as his mother Gayle put it, that they had pursued every avenue available to them on his behalf. Even better, the publicity about the case spurred interest in passing legislation mandating that private day care facilities carry minimum levels of liability insurance. Words cannot express the pride I felt in being able to assist this young family in their newly found cause. In addition to my activities as an attorney, I present a number of continuing legal education classes for attorneys and have served for the last 15 years as an adjunct professor at Pepperdine Law School in Malibu, currently presided over by Dean Ken Starr (yes, that Ken Starr from Bill Clinton, Monica Lewinsky and Whitewater!). Given its location high atop the grassy slope at the corner of Malibu Canyon Road and PCH (you can almost see our old hangout at Zuma 7 from there), Pepperdine is unquestionably one of the most beautiful schools I've ever seen but I continue to be baffled how the students get any studying done given the panoramic view of the Pacific Ocean from the library windows! Teaching the law is almost as fun as practicing and it gives me great satisfaction to have the chance to instill in my students the passion I feel for the profession and stress the importance of them remaining ever mindful of their ethical obligations as attorneys. The only downside of teaching as long as I have is to witness how younger and younger the students look after each passing semester! In fact, about a year ago, I hit a disturbing milestone -- NONE of the students in my class were alive when I began my law studies at Boalt! Talk about feeling old! Notwithstanding that, almost every time I'm in court, I'll be approached by one or more of my former students who went on to become attorneys who like to keep me posted on the latest events of their careers. I always love hearing from all of them. Knowing that I hopefully played some small part in the entry of others into a career I so enjoy is truly satisfying. As I often tell both current and former students, I see them as my "other kids." Bringing things essentially full circle, Rachael will be entering the Freshman class at UCLA this September as an English major. To say we are proud of her is truly a grand understatement. Not to be outdone, younger sister Ilyssa starts her junior year of high school and soon we'll be celebrating her graduation and transition to college as well. So much has happened to all of us, both good and not so good, and while so much time has elapsed, if I close my eyes, the flood of memories of those inaugural 4 years of a new high school truly make it feel like it was yesterday. I would love the chance to catch up with folks from that first graduating class (as well as those of you who were friends of the Class of `79) and hope you'll let me know how you're doing so we can re-connect. My sincere hope is this finds you all happy and well. Mike
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