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In Loving Memory of: Sgt Patrick Ryan McCaffrey Born May 26 at Stanford Hospital, Palo Alto, Ca Was shot 8 times and Killed, June 22 2004, Balad, Iraq Purple Heart, Bronze Star, California Memorial Medal PatrickSpirit.net VeteransVillage.org On a hot August afternoon, the Homestead High School football team was suffering through extra wind sprints and conditioning drills. The weather was stifling, and players were starting to grumble. But cornerback Patrick McCaffrey stepped up to encourage his teammates to finish out practice with their heads held high. "He wasn't the biggest guy, but he always volunteered for the biggest job. He had no fear," says Eteka Huckaby, a running back who played alongside McCaffrey. Huckaby, who later played in three Rose Bowls as part of the University of Washington's football team, says, "He was one of the toughest guys that I ever played with." That zeal and fearlessness led McCaffrey to enlist with the California Army National Guard just days after the terrorist attacks on Sept. 11, 2001. As part of the 579th Engineer Battalion out of Petaluma, McCaffrey shipped out to Iraq in March. It was there, in the town of Balad, where the Army specialist was shot and killed when his ground patrol unit was ambushed on June 22. This sort of situation was not something McCaffrey envisioned when he joined the National Guard, according to his mother, Nadia McCaffrey. "He wanted to help if something like [9-11] happened again. This was the first time his unit was sent overseas for combat since World War II. He did not expect to be going there," she says. "But once he was over there, he tried to do the best he could." "I really admired him for his determination, but he had that tenfold in compassion," adds Huckaby. Nadia's son's tour in Iraq included showing his characteristic consideration for everyone but himself. She says he worked as a medic in temperatures that reached well into the triple digits, so when it was time to rest, everyone made a run for the shade. Not McCaffrey. "He would go around che...Expand for more
cking on the people in the shade, making sure they were OK and that they had water if they needed it," Nadia says. "After that, maybe he would rest a little." Alison Rost From the SunnyvaleSun Reflections of a Gold Star Mom on Mother's Day 2006 By Nadia McCaffrey Did I actually give birth 36 years ago? My mind is wondering over sixty one years of my life, what does ¿Mother's Day¿ signify anymore?? , I am trying desperately to rescue the vague meaning left of two words.. Or is it that the meaning is so strongly anchored within me, that, I am not sure how to deal with the disappearance of the dearest person in my life. I better get use to not getting a sweet card and flower, and phone calls ever again saying: Happy ¿Mother¿s Day¿ MOM, I love you, your son, Patrick. For so many years, I took all messages of love for granted, what a fool I was! `Why do I wish today, that I had kept and saved it all? I never doubted that Patrick was my guardian and would watch over me until I died, as I watched over him while he was a baby, a child. What am I supposed to do next without him, without his wisdom, his compassion without his love, without his gentle strength, without his voice saying ¿I love you Mom you have always been here for me as I will be there for you..." Patrick¿s birthday is almost there: May 26. For the past two years, I have been hiding to myself, the fact that Patrick was NEVER coming home. I did not say that I had accepted it, nor realized it. Patrick would have been 36 years old this year. I fully realize that this huge pain will never go anywhere, or fade away in the back round of my consciousness, NO, this pain will be with me until my last day on earth. Perhaps I will learn how to function with it, or perhaps not¿ However, after these blue notes, I shall pursue my Journey to Peace with as much compassion, unconditional love, tolerance and caring for each other as I can, and this is the road that I have chosen, I do the best that I can to fulfill every day and keep on my faith. Nadia McCaffrey, Gold Star Mother
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