Patrick Raftery:
CLASS OF 1993
Dover High SchoolClass of 1993
Dover, NH
Patrick's Story
Life
After senior year, I was off to the Navy. Shipped out in September '93, with best friend, Jon Camp. After 6 weeks, I was sent home! After coming home, my fiance, Ashley, was just weeks away from giving birth to our first son, Andrew. I started working two full-time jobs awaiting the birth.
Ashley was still in school, finishing up her senior year.
He was born November 8th, 1993, and Jon was even home on leave to be there! He was named the God-Father.
I then spent the next 6 months being Dad, and working around the clock so Ashley would graduate! We had our own place, and both worked. She made it! WE made it.
Then after just 9 months, she was diagnosed with Ovarian Cancer...just months before our wedding. We spent our honey moon close to home, for treatments were 2x week. She went through about 9 months of chemo and is now fully remissed. We were told we were lucky to have a child, for she would never have any more. WELL, she got pregnant just a few months after ...Expand for more
her last treatment! All the red flags went up...testing 2,3,4 or more times a week! Nicholas, born 9/20/95 was and is the healthiest kid you'll ever meet!
So, we decided to try for one more, little girl, and we were blessed yet again with Jordyn, born 4/21/99.
In between all this, I was working for Verizon, great job, great pay...for close to 7 years, and then got laid off in 2002...Then less than a year later, Ashley left our marriage of almost 10 years...
Now, close to 2 years have gone by, and I'm lost in life.
Trying to understand why?
Been a long hard road, and it stopped me from going to our 10 year reunion...just too depressed.
Slowly going in the upward direction, but its very lonely...
**UPDATE** 10/05
Still single, but hopefully love will find me! Still working two jobs, and have my kids 3-4 days a week.
They grow soooo fast, it's pretty scary! All you other parents will attest!
Hope I can make the next reunion, and get to see all you guys!
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