Phyllis Joesph :  

CLASS OF 1969
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Billings, MT

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Life as of 6/04/14 I was married for 35 yrs. until my hubby, Ron Pendill,Sr., died in '02 of Squamous cell carcinoma. I have 2 children..Kristi-born in '68,& Ron Jr.-born in '72.I am a grandmother of 4.Kristi's 3-Davielle-29,David-28,& Keisha-20. Ronnie has 1-Libbey-11yrs. All but Ronnie live in Billings...he's in Minnesota! David was in the Air force stationed in FL. after spending 2 yrs. in Japan. he is out now & planning on going to college. I also have 4 step grandsons~Blake who is 20, Jarod who is 14, James who is 6&1/2 yrs. & Alexander 5 yrs & 1 step granddaughter,Sarai 5&1/2. I became a great gramma to identical twin girls in Sept.'08. Gt.grandson Daelyn {Dae} was born July 17,2010 & is the light of my life!! Broke my heart when Dav decided to move to Ohio to be with her boyfriend!! But now I have another gt.granddaughter,Andielle,who was born in Jan.2014. I remarried almost 11 yrs. ago to a wonderful man,Joe, who was born & raised in CA. He likes to take me traveling in our spare time~spent a month in Australia with some of his family in '06~ & he spends all his free time with me. My kids & grandkids adore him!! I worked up until 8 yrs. ago in the dry cleaning business but consider myself retired now. Joe works at one of Billings refineries as a head operater. I have never lived outside Billings. Joe wants to move to Australia when he retires in 2 yrs......we'll see!! Another option he threw at me is to spend 6 mos. here & 6 mos. in Australia....6 mos. during our hunting season & 6 mos. during theirs!! Our oldest granddaughter, Davielle, is his main hunting buddy....wonder if she'll go for that??!! We usually make it to California every year....also Spokane where Joe's daughter lives & Minnesota to see my son, who finally got married. We now can add Ohio as our yearly trip to spend Dae's birhtday in July. I'm still praying that they will move back to Billings!! The teacher I'd like to see again would be Mrs.{Miss?} Strutz because when I got married during my sophomore year, I was told she lectured the class for an hour on teenage marriages & how they never work out. I'd want her to know my teenage marriage lasted 35 yrs.!!! It was rocky but when we finally grew up it was great.....damn cancer! Another past time I enjoyed was to go to garage sales then selling on ebay. Have slacked off on that this year as ebay is making some changes. May 20,2016 On May 14th,2015 another gt.granddaughter was born to my granddaughter Keisha in Denver at the Denvers Children's Hospital. But this birth brought many tears & fears. We knew before hand that this birth could end in death. Baby Kaedra has a rare and severe heart defect called tricuspid valve dysplasia & pulmonary atresia. Drs didn't expect her to survive birth. They had to take her almost a month early. Her story is told on Prayers for Kaedra's Mended Heart. She had 2 open heart surgeries the first week & a half after birth. But this little girl has defied all! After spending almost 9 mos. in the CICU they released her! But Denver is now Keisha & Kaedra's home since Billings hospitals wouldn't be able to give her the care she needs to survive. We celebrated Kaedra's 1st birthday!! Now the wait to see when her next surgery will be needed to replace the valve that she will eventually out grow. We make at least one trip a month to Denver to see our girls! Kaedra has a Facebook page~Prayers for Kaedras Mended Heart~that shares her journey. Update May 2018 Prayers for Kaedras Mended Heart May 24 at 2:41pm · A little update on Kaedra. Most of you that are around her most of the time know that her belly is extremely big. For awhile we thought it was a lot of stool but it just kind of stayed the same for awhile &a we made it our “new nor...Expand for more
mal” well after her hospitalization in the beginning of April after being on IV diuretics we noticed her belly went way down & after a couple of weeks it went back to being big. This last admission it stayed the same but definitely looked more bloated & hard then other times. We got discharged from the hospital this past Monday on an extra diuretic hoping that we could keep Kaedra’s fluid balance “stable” until her cath on June 5th. Well these last couple of days Kaedra’s eyes have been more puffy (her sign of fluid retention) needing more oxygen 1.5liters & her belly has been pretty big still. We went in to see Shannon today (Kaedra’s cardiologist) & she instantly noticed the changes in her compared to when she looked really good a month back. So she added on another diuretic that will hopefully pull some more fluid off which we believe is in her belly due to her stomach being “swollen” & not moving things correctly, a ultrasound of her belly will be done next week to confirm this but all of these issues are making Kaedra’s quality of life pretty poor. With her tricuspid valve still leaking a significant amount it is causing issues with the rest of Kaedra’s body which all in all clinical signs of right sided heart failure. The cath on June 5th will basically confirm everything & push the team into making yet another surgical plan for Kaedra. The main options as of right now are either listing her for a transplant, if they go this route they can start her on Milrenone (if they think it needs to be started) that will be given through a central line which she could go home with until she were to get an offer on a new heart . Transplant has just been discussed & she has not been evaluated by the transplant team yet which will come after her cath. The other thing they’ve been talking about is just replacing her tricuspid valve all together, that too has some ups & downs, I have been told that tricuspid valve replacements aren’t always the greatest & sometimes don’t last as long as they would want them too. Both options are very big & very scary but could also give Kaedra a life free of reoccurring hospital admissions, tubes, wires & pokes. Letting her have some freedom to be a kid who doesn’t constantly live in a hospital. I know her team will discuss all options throughly & come up with a plan for little miss. All in all they feel like some kind of plan needs to be made/ done sooner rather then later. Once again Kaedra calls all shots & somehow we always get into a place where she pushes them into doing something for her. As of right now she is doing good. Still developing & learning but also is pretty uncomfortable with a big belly & higher need for oxygen. These next couple weeks/months to come will be a pretty big deal for us as we wait to see what the team decides. ❤️ July 11,2019 This past year & a half have been busy between monthly trips to Denver to see Kaedra, my sis died in Jan.'18, my mom died in March '18....we bought a cabin in the Castle Mtns last summer & then in March '19 a heart was found for Kaedra but we lost her a few days later after her body rejected the heart that sat on ice too long!! The only thing holding me together are my patient,loving hubby,Davielle & her 2 little ones moved back from Ohio & are living with us til she gets her life in order & having the cabin off the grid to cry & ask God WHY???? Kaedra died 2 mos shy of her 4th birthday....Heaven gained the funniest,sassiest little Angel & my heart, as well as all, grieves badly each day that passes..Mama Keisha,Gramama Kris,Joe & I all surrounded & held on to her as they took her off life support.....hardest thing I've ever experienced in my life!!
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Joe was wondering why he kept getting double looks at Albertson's....
Our youngest granddaughter Libbey Pendill who will turn 18 a month from
 today.🥰🥰
Today is National Dog Day. Love our Quigley!!
Thunder & lightning....gotta watch!
This is Dav's pup Buck. He's half heeler & half Cane Corso.(Italian Mastiff) He is such a well behaved pup & so cuddly ❣❣
Papa's hugs are so comforting.❣️❣️❣️
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All I have to do is look at a photo & it's crying time for me!😢😢
Tired dog.....chasing cows,chipmunks & mice is exhausting!!
When Joe sneezes....no matter what room he's in....Quigley has to run to him & make sure he's ok. I sneeze...nothing!😡 I open the cookie container...he comes a runnin'! I hate this dingo!!
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