Prede Lee Roth:  

CLASS OF 1964
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Upland High SchoolClass of 1964
Upland, CA

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My name is Prede (Middleton) Roth. I went to Upland High School from 1960-1963. I was known as a very quiet person in high school, but you couldn't believe that now. I didn't graduate from Upland High School, unfortunately, because our family moved to Canoga Park, CA in my senior year. So the last year in 1964, I had to graduate with a total different group of students. My heart was always with all my friends at Upland High though, as we lived in Upland since grade school. It was a very sad time for me and my siblings. I worked at the Bank of America in Woodland Hills, CA over two years in 1963, and 1964, while I was in High School and just loved it. After graduating from Canoga Park High School, in 1964 I met, and married the man of my dreams (so I thought) Married 18 years. We had 3 daughters, Michelle, Renee', and Patricia. I have 4 grandchildren, and six great grandchildren, with one great grand child on their way from my middle daughter Renee, My first husband and I divorced in 1980, 1981 I then decided to continue my education, got my BA degree in Business, and decided to work for one of the biggest Hospitals in San Diego which was Scripp's Memorial hospital. I enjoyed working and caring for people, and decided to continue working with Scripp's Home Health Care which was one of branch services from the Hospital. I worked a total of 15 years for Scripps,Home Heath until they laid me off due to the fact that they were dropping the Home Health service end of it, so, I looked for the same type of work, and found a company in San Diego that billed Insurances also for a group of Anesthesiologist all over Southern California, and Hawaii and worked there for about 6 years. So, I was an Insurance Analyst 1981 is when I met a wonderful man, my better half during that time. We had known each other for over 30 years, and had been together the majority of that time. I moved to MO to take care of my ailing mother in 2000. I managed over 300 Apartments, and homes there until 2003. I retired early in 2003 to devote my time to be with my wonderful hubby. 2003 we then moved to Palm Springs, then to Arizona in 2005, following the Grandchildren, you know how that is.. Our final destination in moving was in a beautiful city called Georgetown, TX in 2007 where we had our home built in Sun City in 2006 called Dell Webb community, and loved it here. In fact if our Grandchildren on my husband's side planed to move again, they would just have to come here to Texas to visit us because we didn't plan to be moving again anytime soon. Our home here in Texas is in the Del Webb, Sun City community, boasting 4 golf courses, even though we don't golf, 5 swimming pools, 4 fitness centers, and multiple clubs, and activities for it's residents. A lot of involvement, which I love. Our community is nearly 1/5 of Georgetown population. So, this is pretty close to a perfect place for us to retire. Who would want to move right? I planed to attend the class reunion in 2009, and hoped I could have met some of my old friends, and some new ones too. I looked forward to that reunion, and hoped to see everyone there, however: Update: Sadly, early in March 2009, my husband had a stroke while he was in San Diego on business. He developed a blood clot on his left side of his brain which impaired his vision and speech. He couldn't speak or write(Aphasia, and Apraxia). I flew to San Diego, to assess his condition before bringing him back to Texas. He didn't want to stay in the hospital so after a week,and after finishing the business part of it for him, I then brought him back to Texas to continue caring for him there. Our communication had been very strenuous and very hard for the two of us,as well as I'm sure very frustrating for him. He spoke, understood and knew what he was saying, but I couldn't hear or make out his scrambled words, and sounds. We got him going to therapy for, five days out of the week, and he was improving on his words. I thought he could, and would come out of this in time for the reunion, God willing it. The stroke he had, I feel was a warning. We really do need to listen to our body's warnings. With much patience, I prayed he would come out of this just fine in time for us to make the school 2009 reunion. The future was a little uncertain for us then, and I wanted to thank all my friends that have given me support at that time. I really appreciated it. I still had planed on attending the reunion in October 2009, God willing, and I hoped to see everyone there. Update: As it turned out my husband was not able to be left alone for very long periods of time, especially to communicate his needed help 24/7, so it looked like sadly, my husband and I were unable to make the reunion that I so longed to attend for. Sometimes things happen in our life in which makes it impossible to change. However, I will plan to make the next one. So for anyone reading this please know that I look forward in making the next one in 2014 God willing.. I will check to see how the 2009 reunion turned out. I would love to hear from anyone. Post your pictures if you can. (Checking on classmates, I see everyone had a blast) So envious of everyone. UPDATE: My husband passed away 11/2/09 in the early am. He had another stroke that attacked the right side of his brain, and he just never revived. He was on life support for a couple of days, and Hospice was planning on stepping in, but then he just gave up his...Expand for more
fight to live. He was a wonderful man, and I don't know how I will ever do without him. It will never be the same. He was a wonderful husband, my best friend. My kindred spirit. My husband however prepared me for this. We had talked about the chances that this might happen someday as he had, had a triple heart bypass in the past, and his health was failing, and wanted me to be prepared if it did happen. So, he had already talked to his Lawyer to update his will, in the event something may have happened, and to make it easier for me not to have to worry about anything. He was just that kind of man who planned for the future.Very loving, and thoughtful of a person. Life is very unpredictable. I know we are all destined to die someday. It's just a matter of when and where. I was just not ready for this to happen that soon, hoping, and praying, and seeing him actually getting better, and he was actually starting to talk, and communicate with family, and friends. II was not prepared emotionally what came next, but, maybe no one is. It's hard to accept and deal with the reality at times. I have lost my husband, but I hold him dearly, and close to my heart always. R.I.P NORM ROTH 12/6/31--11/02/2009. My sweetheart. You will always be in my heart. I love you now and forever. I want to thank you all for the condolences, and cards I have received, they have meant so much to me. More than you will ever know. 11/2/10 Well, a year has literally flown by now since my husband passed away in November. It was a very hard year for me being alone, and not sharing my thoughts, and dreams with the man I loved so dearly. I went through depression with denial, and I still have some depression, but not too bad now. They say that time heals our hearts of our lost loved ones, but, I'm still waiting. I just don't worry about it anymore. It's just the empty and void feeling you get sometimes. Thinking of my wonderful life with the man I loved, and still do, has gotten me through each day. I do keep myself very busy, and have a lot of responsibility in our business, but there are moments that you just can't block off the hurt, and loneliness, or do I want to anyway. What's really hard is that you may hear a special song you loved together, or a special dinner, even holidays I know have been hard for me. I was one of those blessed people who found my better half, my soul mate. But now, he lives in my heart through all the wonderful memories we shared. I am slowly getting out more alone, and getting involved with group of friends, but it feels very strange. It's not fun doing things alone, and it's not the same anymore. I'm just not ready I guess. My husband once said to me that if I ever passed away before him, he would find a woman to share the remaining time he had left with. Of course, I nudged him in the ribs for that. He always said people were not meant to be alone, and didn't want me to be alone either. But this is another story.for the future if it ever happens. Everyone mourns differently. February 10, 2014 Well it is going on 5 years now that my husband has been gone. Always think about him, and always make my important decisions with him in mind, whether he would have made the same decisions that I chose. I think so. We thought so much alike, and complimented each other. I've sold our business now, like he wanted me to, it was time to do that, and I feel a little better about it now, less pressure and demands on me. Planning on attending (probably the last reunion, at our age) April 11, and 12, 2014. Got my ticket, got my room, called my friends in California that I will see them there. Can't wait to see all the 1964 Classmates that will be attending. You may not know, or recognize me, but, we all shared memories of UHS I don't plan to stay living here in Texas this year. My youngest daughter plans on having a family of her own soon, and wants me to move to California soon. So, I am now looking for a home in Merced, Calif. I really hate to move from here as I just love it here, but, I do need to be closer to my family who are in California. Plus it's not the same here without my husband. Well, the 50th School Reunion will be now in April 11,12, which is not too long now. Don't know where the five years went. We're all a little older now, and a little wiser, and I hear this is the last year for Roz to be preparing anymore future reunions herself. So, this may be the last one for many to attend. This Reunion is going to be special just because of that. Hope to meet and see most of everyone there. Hope to see you all there. We all share a moment in time from 1960 through 1964 even though we may not recognize everyone, but we are all still family because we shared those special moments in time. Update: Well June of 2014 I found a home, bought it, and moved into it. It needed a updated kitchen, so I planned to have the whole kitchen changed to suit me. Opened a wall in kitchen so I could have the kitchen and living room , so I could look into the living room. I could invision what it would look like. Well September 2014, I started having chest pains, and couldn't breath. Went to the doctors to see what was going on. They told me that I needed an open heart surgery. So, I went in, and got a triple bypass surgery done. Feeling pretty good now ready for the year 2015. My kitchen will be done by February , 2015, so I am very excited. I look forward to a wonderful year of2015.
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Norm & Prede
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Liz Emerson (my step daughter)
My best friend Carolyn (Cowan)Scanlon
Sis LaVerne, & friend(Carolyn Scanlon class64)
Patricia, my yougest daughter
Michelle my oldest daughter
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LaVerne, and daughter Charity
LaVerne's Birthday Feb 15, 2006
My Mom (Dora Middleton)
LaVerne,Will, and Prede
Sisters/  LaVer Middleton, & Prede Middleton
Upland Elem.School Feb 28, 1958 6th grade

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