Rachel Matthews:  

CLASS OF 1982
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Los angeles, CA
La verne, CA
Los angeles, CA

Rachel's Story

Idyllic Childhood in El Sereno The interesting thing about growing up in the suburb of El Sereno in Hillside Village was (figuratively speaking) living in a bubble, By the early 1960's, the majority of the Italians had moved out of the neighborhood, and a few Americans from Mexican descent like my father moved in. There were still a few Whites - like Mr. Eden who lived two houses down from us and remained our neighbor for many years. My parents were protective over me and shielded me from a lot of negative things; so for the most part, I had an idyllic childhood. Unlike other parents who were in their early 20's with children, my father and mother became parents later in life. My father was in his mid forty's and my mother was in her mid thirties when I was born. My father was born in the U.S. in 1919 and was 10 years old during the Great Depression. He was from "The Greatest Generation." He knew the meaning of tough times, the value of a dollar, and didn't believe in credit cards. He was a Veteran of World War II who was proud of America, valued loyalty and respect, wasn't afraid of making tough decisions, and getting the job done. Gosh, they don't make men like that anymore. From the time that I was knee high, I thought he was superman. He was my HERO. By the time I was born, my parents friend's children were young adults and my parents were the oldest on the block with infants. This was an oddity. With this in mind, my parents had two sets of friends: an older set and younger set: The latter of which had children our age. On Friday nights from home, I could hear the Wilson High School band playing while some of the lights from the football field illuminated portions of our backyard. It was great! As a child, my neighbors and I would play hide-n-go-seek. In summertime, my family would have BBQ's in the backyard with friends and family. I can almost smell the carne asada, hot dogs, my mothers beans and rice (which were the best), potato salad, tomatillo and red salsa, and of course...homemade tortillas. The wives were in the patio catching up on the latest family updates, while the husbands were near the BBQ telling jokes. In this magical and happy childhood, everyone was married and there was no such thing as divorce. There was laughter and children were playing. For dessert we had cantelope and watermelon. Each of us got a big slice! It couldn't get any better. With all of this going on, you could hear the periodic cheers of the audience in the football field, and the crowd chanting - WILSON, WILSON, WILSON., while Mexican Polka songs could be heard on the record player. Those were the days. During the week when I came home from school, I remember the quesadillas and snacks that my mother made, and the wonderful aroma of something always cooking in the kitchen. Remember Hamburger Helper and Spam, I do. Times were tough, but my mother made things stretch, and we never complained, because that's just the way it was. At dinner time, we all ate together as a family and talked about our day at school. I was restricted as to the T.V. programs that I was permitted to watch, and remember re-runs of Ozzie and Harriett, and enjoying episodes of Little House on the Praire, and the Waltons. We watched these shows "as a family" together. I guess you could say this was "family night" before the term was invented. In my teens, the Popular T.V programs to watch were Fantasy Island with Ricardo Montalban, the Love Boat, and of course, I Love Lucy with Desi Arnaz and Lucille Ball, which we all loved. A memorable visit to my neighborhood was when in the early 1970s, the President at the time, Jimmy Carter accepted an invitation to come to our neighborhood: in El Sereno: Hillside Village! Imagine that... It was incredible. From the west side of the mountain down Wilson High, barriers were set up by law enforcement and CA Driver's licenses and IDs were checked to ensure that anyone entering our neighborhood was a resident. As news spread of his event, everyone was excited and proud. As the President's motorcade slowly passed to enter our neighborhood and his rear right passenger window opened, he waved to all of us. I saw his face and his million dollar smile, and he actually looked at me. I kno...Expand for more
w this may sound kind of silly, but I was so excited. He was only about 15 feet away. It was great! He stayed with a family in the neighborhood a few blocks up the hill for a couple of days and then returned to Washington D.C. In this context, I thought anything was possible. My love for education started in 1967 after seeing the television show called Romper Room. I wanted to go to school, but being only 3 years old, I could not be enrolled in kindergarten. Fortunately during this time,a new Federally Funded Pilot Program called "Head Start" was approved for low income families, which I was allowed to enroll. To this day, I am so grateful that I started school so young. It set me on a great career and life path, Head Start was fun, and I was in school 4 hours a day during the week. In this program, my mother was a volunteer, and started her journey as well with me, and later with my sisters. From the time that I started my first day in Head Start to the last day that I graduated from high school, she was also on the school grounds every day fulfilling various volunteer roles. When I was in Catholic School during a portion of my elementary school years, my mother was a volunteer on campus. Then, when I went to Multnomah Elementary School and later to El Sereno Jr. High, she held various volunteer positions of hall monitor, nutrition and lunch campus monitor, member of the School Advisory Board, and later the School Advisory Board's Vice President. At Wilson High, she was the Parent School Advisory Board President. and was also a representative for the region. With this in mind, when I say that my mother was involved in my education, there was no excuse for a "child being left behind." She made sure that I received the best possible public school education offered in El Sereno through the Los Angeles Unified School District. Each summer before the beginning of the fall school year, she and other parents reviewed and read the proposed texts, and discussed issues and concerns at monthly meetings with teachers and administrators. She along with other parents were instrumental in reducing the number of troubled students permitted to transfer into El Sereno Jr. High and Wilson High, and spoke at the Board of Education relative to this issue, gangs, forced busing, and other topics. I learned from a very early age the politics of education, the importance of parental involvement in the educational process, and importance of receiving a proper public school education. As you can imagine, my mother's involvement called my instructors to task, which was a good thing in my AE courses. On one hand, they obviously respected her involvement, but resented her oversight and "class sit-in observations" in the back of the classroom on a "surprise" and periodic basis. Throughout our educational experience, my sisters and I were known to teachers and Administrators as the "Gil girls." Overall, I can say that I had great instructors who really cared about my education. When my youngest sister graduated from Wilson High, the High School Principal who knew my mother very well came to her and said, " Well Mrs. Gil, I guess this is it...This is the last of your daughters graduating, right? With a chuckle, my mother said, "That's right, I've done my job, and you must be relieved that you won't be seeing my pretty face here anymore." The Principal, who was about 6' 4" inches and towered over my mother who was 4'9" said, "You know Mrs. Gil, I'll never forget the first time we met over a particular issue and what you said to me." My mother smiled and the Principal continued, "You looked up at me with your index finger and said, "I don't care if you're taller than me, I'm a parent concerned about my daughters' education, and you're not going to get rid of me. You'll be seeing a lot more of me." Both of them laughed and the Principal said to my mother, "I've learned a lot from you Mrs. Gil, and I'm going to miss you." My mother was very special to me and even though it's been a long time since she passed away (in 1989 of Breast Cancer), I truly cherish and value her involvement in my education and her valuable life lessons. Happy Mother's Day to all the "Classmates.com" mothers out there. 5/9/2010
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