Richard Doty:  

CLASS OF 1965
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Merced High SchoolClass of 1965
Merced, CA
Provo, UT
Mt. holly, NJ
Norview High SchoolClass of 1965
Norfolk, VA

Richard's Story

Hi folks, Enter the following on google.com for a treat: YouTube - Free Hugs in Sondrio, Italy> I've been on classmates for about two years year. I am currenly on facebook also with the same picture. It's been good catching up with friends and a delight meeting new people...Yes, okay, it's been a delight catching up with friends too. If you stop to visit my site, please put something in your story about yourself. I enjoy reading and hearing from you. Most classmates have not yet put anything in their stories. Made mine more detailed, and had fun remembering. If you want a copy of your picture from the 1965 Merced yearbook, if you were in there, Let me know... I met a 75 year old Human Resource Manager the other day. He said he didn't plan on retiring, saying "I have to live until I'm at least 95 years of age...have to pay off the mortgage." I laughed at that one, not chortled or chuckled at that. I like the idea though of not retiring too soon...I have a former colleague that retired and soon was out finding another job. He ran out of things to do...seen one lake and had seen enough, fished this stream and had enough of that... Kind of makes sense. (FOR PIANO OR CAT LOVERS CHECK OUT THE FOLLOWING) THE "PIANO TUNER CAT" ON THE WEB FOR A TREAT. Just enter piano tuner cat on your search engine. THE SHORT VIDEO CLIP IS FOUND ON SEVERAL SITES Yep, I've been good enough to have a personal visit from Santa...He had just finished visiting with children at a neighborhood Christmas party and they wore him out! But I got him to stand still long enough so I could get some proof that he knew me..... Hi folks, I attended the 7th grade in Norview Jr. High School 1959, Norfolk, Va. Mrs. McCleary was the home teacher I had my first crush on a girl there, but was too shy to try to get to know her. For those who know about that type of experience...that's tough! I moved was over to Kempville Jr. High School not too far from Virginia Beach. Enjoyed the hurricane seasons there, enough wind to blow my bike and I down the street, but try to get back against the wind was rough! I started high school there with part of the ninth grade Yeh, that school had a ninth grade in it....No wonder it took me so long to grow up. I began music/band there...they didn't want me in the girls' choir...didn't have one for boys. But I was invited to play in the band...Baritone horn. I also played football and was on the wrestling team for one match...lost. Somewhere in there I got my fanny smacked with a disciplinary paddle... Remember, it's not libel when is it is true. Or when it is just my written opinion. Yes, it was my opinion that I was wacked by a disciplinary paddle. Can they still do that? Midyear I transferred to Rancocas Valley High School in Mt. Holly, New Jersey. I got to repeat the Zoology section in the Biology Book and missed the required sex education...no wonder it took me so long... Also did high jump on the track team, and though I when I arrived to got to play the old beat up silver colored Sousaphone in band with Ray Welch the director, I began taking and French Horn in order to sit next to a blonde French horn player in the Senior Band, She was a year older and a super friend. I had a great trip with the band to New York City to see the original "My Fair Lady" on Broadway. Somehow we all survived the Cuban Missile Crisis...Remember going home after saying good by to classmates and wondering if there was going to be a tomorrow after Kennedy's challenge to the Russian's? Some of us also survived the hallway rush and meeting's with the vice principal, Mr. Cantelope (spelling). After about 8 months I transferred to Merced, CA Merced High School East Campus with dad's new job. I was challenged to three fights that first day at school there, even though I spent half the day in the Vice Principal's office as he tried to court me for the J.V track team...hurdles and high jump. I didn't go, but played French horn in the Marching 100 for 2 1/2 years. Anyone remember the bus loading and unloading for the swimming classes before we got the great swimming pool at the North Campus? One event my mind latches onto was on November 22, 1963 shortly after 1:30 PM the school intercom came on with live news reports of JFK's assassination. Mrs. Gray's English class sat in stunned silence at first listening to the broadcast. When they cut off the broadcast, Mrs. Gray, after a few comments said basically, that "Life must go on" and called on me to get up and do my book report or repeat some poem assignment. My mind and emotions had been blown and she had me stand up before the class and...! That was hard to do, but I did it. Also enjoyed the band's trips to Los Angeles for the band competitions...and sold tickets for the Band's annual concert, great events! There was also the time in Mr. Wier's chem class when I was testing for for an "unknown" with the old "nose sniff test": thinking "A hah!", "I know what that is!" and taking a bigger sniff to be sure, I inhaled ammonia instead from the test tube...started coughing, struggled out the door to get fresh air and almost ended up in the cheerleaders' or pommerettes' pictures for the yearbook...a bit embarrassing. Out of school action found me also playing French Horn with the Merced Symphony my senior year...and picking tomatoes with the Braceros one summer...didn't last long at that job. The best part this year and a half has been catching up with some classmates I knew and getting to meet some that I saw around and some I never really knew when I was in school. The year after graduation I headed off to Brigham Young University. I showed up early with one of two suitcases that I had packed...no room in the car with those whom I travelled. I not only got to wash clothes a lot the first couple of weeks, but when I went over to join the Cougar Band I was told, "Oh, we don't march with our French Horns, but you can play one of our E Flat horns that looks like a baritone." Yuck. And I couldn't afford to buy all the uniform stuff they wanted me to buy. Weeks later the director of the orchestra saw me and asked, "What happened to you? We could have used you. You sounded great in the practice room playing French Horn!" Well thus ended the band days that I so enjoyed with the Merced Marching 100. But I did enjoy playing the horn later nearly every semester in wind ensemble, orchestra and symphonic band. My first year I took a social dance class and hence added a new joyful hobby that I continued for many years, even landing a spot on one of BYU's Ballroom Dance teams my last year. Give me a good swing...and by the way I can still do a smashing tango... I liked to think I owned the dance floor back then. Now I share it and h...Expand for more
uff and puff a bit. After my freshman year I went back to Merced, sold ice cream from one of those noisy trucks earning money that helped me leave that August on a 2 1/3 year visit to Uruguay and Argentina doing public communications contacting for my church. Great growing time. Survived droughts, floods, volcanic dust from a Chilean volcano, enjoyed the people. I visited capital cities also of four other Hispanic countries. In Lima, Peru I was looking for the Palace of the Inquisition of olden times. However I cut that search short when upon my calling through the gate of a magnificent palace-like place to inquire, solders from the army that had just three days before overthrown the government...I had been travelling and hadn'tt read or heard the news...poked machineguns...deadly looking things, through the gate and demanded "Quien va?" and "Manos arriba!" I put my hands up on my head, shrugged the best I could, saying "Soy turista no mas. "I'm only a tourist, I'm only a tourist looking for the Palace of the Inquisition." An officer shouted to get out of there and pointed down the street...turns out I had found the newly ex-presidential palace instead. I quickly took off and headed back to the refuge in the hotel...the heck with finding the Palace of the Inquisition! A couple of days later I found that Guatemala was also having anxiety when we were herded off the plane in Guatemala City to the airport waiting area past their solders also armed with machine guns. That folks was November 1968. I arrived back a few days later in the USA in Houston and kissed the ground, no kidding! great to be back. My folks had left Merced for Houston the day after I had left Merced for Uruguay. Houston was big, lots of freeway traffic, and new. I packed up and drove hands on the steering wheel until my shoulders ached, and then ached some more up to Provo, Utah back to BYU after Christmas. The next four years I travelled back and forth,graduating with a double major in Sociology and Spanish. Returned to BYU as a professional student going after a Masters in Sociology. I also enjoyed being with the International Folk Dance team my last semester there...what a workout! I left BYU and graduate Sociology classes moving into Public Relations up to the University of Utah in Salt Lake City (SLC) to get the Masters. I got room and board for being around to help an 88 year old woman fix meals, and shop ...tremendous experience, daughter of a Russian Jewish immigrant... Liked to eat a piece of cheese and drink her coffee out of a saucer. She also used to say, "What one forgets, one's feet have to remember." She just had to tell me that after I walked a mile to campus and a mile back to the house to get something I left at the house! The bad part about it, I really thought about that statement as I walked back to campus! I actually went to SLC in 1974 to continue to date a great girl and found another. I ended up staying in SLC where my first "real" job was in Personnel, Safety, and Public Relations doing Government Relations with OSHA, MSHA, Air Quality,the DOT and other compliance agencies. Later, one day after starting at a new company, the owner told me that chemical workers were the healthiest in the nation. I thought, "Yeah, uh huh, sure!" After the first year there I went the next 14 years without a cold, or a sore throat. Honest! Must have been all the chlorine, sulfur dioxide and ammonia I inhaled. (Do you know "they" around the turn of the century, the last one, used to sell sniffs of chlorine as a way to stay healthy?) In Utah I've tried snow tubing, skiing, fishing for deep lake trout, fishing for non-deep lake fish, watching deer, seeing a mountain lion, climbing a mountain with scouts, sleeping out in the cold of winter snow wondering if I were going to wake up dead and frozen...scout Winter Klondikes, a coming of age or toughening up thing here relating back to pioneers trecking to the west. Saw a B52 bomber crash near where I worked and broke my slow mile and a half record running though fields to reach one of the parachuting pilots. Got to him...he pointed to the smoke several miles away and asked. "Was that my plane?" When I answered yes, he groaned. For getting to the pilot first, I made the news, got on TV...even got my picture in the paper. The caption read: "Richard Doty out standing in the field" Outstanding...Impressive! For Winter Olympics 2002 I was the risk manager for the Park City Mountain Resort Venue. America took Gold, Silver and Bronze medals in Snow Boarding there! Mingled with folks from all over, Brazilian students who handled the trash, DEA agents fresh from super speed boats in the Caribbean, spoke French (little bit only) to a French Ambassador, and saw a downhill skier ram into a crowd of volunteer workers at about 75 miles an hour...only one minor elbow injury on that one. The last ten years I was a volunteer counselor in the main state prison trying to help inmates prepare to re-enter "normal" society. What an eye opener! Do you know that one can go to prison for seemingly minor things? Has made me much more aware of what we consider "wrong" enough to take us away from our lives for who knows what amount of time. A Merced classmate asked me awhile ago if I remember the Merced High School Hootenanny. I certainly do! It was one of the highlighted memories I have. Lots of fun that night. I went to the dentist the other day to repair a tooth that had lasted a long time after that day I was on that contraption that the Merced High PE Department brought in for the guys to climb up, grab hold of the metal rods each with a knob on the lower end and try to swing from one knob to the other above the ground. Well I managed to smack myself in the mouth one day with one the knobs that left a minor small crack in a tooth. Funny how I thought back to that day several months ago I was getting that tooth repaired a near century later in Salt Lake City. Funny also, how some memories are like travelling through the clouds in the higher elevations around Yosemite, can almost see beyond the road, but not quite. Others come into focus immediately or soon thereafter. I find the hardest reality about visiting the past is that once my mind gets me to the past I am suddenly there: The sights and sounds of those events become again real and somewhat solid in my mind. Those special times with those that I knew, and those that shared those times are real again for a moment and then I have to leave them. The exciting part is it's great getting to know them for real in their changed settings and know that they shared those events with me, helping to make me what I am. That remembering becomes...an adventure of the present ... and the present is great!
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Riley Christmas 2009
Richard Doty 2002 Winter Olympics
Big Horn National Forest Vacation
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Richard J. Doty, all set to leave to pick up 7th grade report card Norview Junior High School, Norfolk, VA, 1960
Richard with Jeremiah and Michael (baby) after work in the garden, back yard porch, 1980.
Esther and Riley  Daughter and Granddaughter
Richard Doty's album, I'm still on Santa's good list.
Joseph at the Anime Bonzai Convention 2012
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