Susan Prentice:
CLASS OF 1974
Walnut Ridge High SchoolClass of 1974
Columbus, OH
Ohio State University - JournalismClass of 1980
Columbus, OH
Susan's Story
Life's rarely prefect, but even the imperfections add zest. Like you, I've had an abundance of ups & downs, tons of wild, weird & wonderful adventures & perhaps a smattering of perfect days. And God knows, I'm not done.
These days I have a little internet business like everyone else on the planet & it keeps me blissfully busy. I just opened my 4th store, which has given me tons of new things to do and learn.
Anyhow, I spent the first 15+ years after college as a newspaper reporter (my beloved Citizen-Journal), freelance writer, ghost author of 5 books & private investigator with my own agency. (PI for Prentice Investigations worked out so well on the logo! Thanks Daddy!) I ultimately sold my agency, but I continue to write as opportunities present. While I enjoyed my work with the Columbus Literacy Council and Meals on Wheels, I spent most days resting on my dwindling, moldy laurels.
In the mid-'90s I lost both parents in less than a year, so I decided it was time to grow up, to take stock of my self-involved complacence & do something that mattered. I started teaching elementary school in the inner city, including the infamous Uzi Alley, and I ended up learning so much from children whose home lives few of us could fathom. I also worked part time as a fitness trainer. Between the two jobs, that's a lot of exercise!
A severe spinal cord injury interrupted things for awhile, including my marriage, but everything in life has its day. After 2 neck surgeries, doctors predicted I'd be paralyzed from the neck down at worst, wheelchair-bound at best. But I've always had a real aversion to people telling me I "can't" do something, so I fought as hard as I could, learned to walk again, and refused to believe the docs. For now, for RIGHT now, I can do most everything I did before, if a bit more slowly, a bit more clumsily. (And let's face facts, folks - I was never exactly Miss Graceful, to start!) I can't walk the dog EVERY day, but every other day is just fine with me. And with her! I may not turn a great cartwheel, but hey, I was never any good at those anyway.
While I initially lost 90% of spinal cord function, the doctors were able to restore me to a level of quadriparesis rather than the projected quadriplegia, so how could I be anything bu...Expand for more
t incredibly blessed!
My spinal cord continues to deteriorate a little more with each passing year, and I sorely miss being able to do so many things. The reality is, I'll never run after the ice cream truck, chase a lost ball on the playground or ski clumsily downhill, and that can be a little disheartening for an active person. But it's all okay if I dwell on what I CAN do rather than what I can't, and on how well things turned out beyond expectations.
You see, at the onset of symptoms the spinal cord damage was hidden & doctors diagnosed me with ALS, Lou Gehrig's Disease, with 3 years at the outside to live. When more tests, much later, revealed the neck injury, I was told over the phone. There I was, on the phone, doing the biggest happy dance on top of my bed you've ever seen! What I lacked in grace I made up for in sheer frenzied enthusiasm!
The sequence of events, from the injury to the prognosis to the husband who mysteriously vanished into the night immediately post-surgery (who can tell how someone will react to adversity), and the ensuing loss of my home and belongings, sent me spiraling in a thousand different directions emotionally, finally landing with the realization that I MUST be one of the luckiest people on the planet - no regrets, no bitterness, no self-recrimination. If I worked really hard, I could learn to walk again. And I did! And while I refuse to see a wheelchair in my future, if one does become necessary, I'll be so lucky to see the world from a whole new perspective once again. You drink from the cup you're given.
I know it sounds drippy, but there's always something extraordinary right around the corner - just keep looking. No matter how bleak things seem, you control your own happiness, and the only key is remembering that.
I'll be looking for the next perfect day and I hope you'll be doing the same. Keep your eyes open!!
If you've reached the bottom, thanks for reading all of this, though you must be a glutton for punishment!! Now go find something less boring to do, or drop me a line!
Favorite quote:
“For everyone who thought I couldn’t do it . . .
"For everyone who thought I shouldn’t do it . . .
"For everyone who said, ‘It’s impossible’ . . .
"See you at the finish line!”
-- Christopher Reeve".
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