TJ Nielsen:  

intense environment in which winning is rare. In this same environment competition and effort is to be required but not rewarded. More importantly this environment will produce individuals that in the future will over come all obstacles with great effort, individuals that do not understand the meaning of quit, and individuals who will be successful in life... Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine as children do. It's not just in some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own lights shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others. "Restlessness is discontent - and discontent is the first necessity of progress. Show me a thoroughly satisfied man - and I will show you a failure." "Not the victory but the action, not the goal but the game, in the deed the glory"".