Vickey Cooper:
CLASS OF 1974
Westwood High SchoolClass of 1974
Memphis, TN
State Technical InstituteClass of 1976
Memphis, TN
Bartlett High SchoolClass of 1974
Bartlett, TN
Westwood Elementary SchoolClass of 1974
Memphis, TN
Council AcademyClass of 1974
Memphis, TN
Vickey's Story
Life
Moved from Westwood area in December 1972, and attended Bartlett High School and graduated from there. I have always been mad at my parents for packing up and running. I hated my new neighborhood, and it never became the home that Westwood was to me.
I married young, trying to get away from what I thought was "dominating parents". LOL, how that thought changed after I had children of my own. I became my parents, but I think my children and I had a much better relationship, as I always made them aware that anything and everything could be talked about in our house. I allowed them to be a party to any major decisions, it did not mean that they had control, I just took their feelings into consideration. I tried to make sure they had happy childhoods and no regrets.
I was married and divorced at 19. What a jerk! Not him, me!! I know now, I married for all the wrong reasons with that one. Then married 3 years later. This marriage lasted 19 years. I should have left earlier, but at the insistance of my parents to get a divorce I was determined to show them that I could make it work. But the booze and the beatings were not getting better, only worse....I finally gave up and moved out. I adventured out in a big way. Flew to Austraila in 1997 to meet an internet love. He was everything he protrayed himself to be, except........he was a dead beat dad!! I have no respect for a man who does not support their ch...Expand for more
ildren. So I was not silent about my beliefs, and tried to make him see his wrongs in the fact that he thought the government should support his child because his ex would not allow him visitation. HOW WRONG! He'll figure it out down the road I'm sure. They say things happen for a reason, well I believe that! I just needed to get away and see how they do things in another country. I loved it there, and think it would be an awesome place to live. BUT I don't want to give up the closeness with my children and my family. Since that time, I think I've become closer to my mom and step-dad. I feel alot closer to them today than I ever have. I used to cringe when I knew they were coming to visit, but now I actually look forward to seeing them.
I lost a good friend just last week. I had not seen him in a couple of years. It has me thinking about all my friends from "home" Westwood!! We need to start a get together, meet once a month. Nothing fancy, just go out to eat breakfast, lunch, or a dinner. Bring your families, give them something to remember. So here I am today, rejoining classmates.com
So come everyone from the class that would have been the graduating class of 1974. Join Classmates.com today and lets connect with all our old friends that we grew up with. I can't wait to see you again. Vickey Kee Cooper
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Presently working in the finance department for Hilton Hotels Corporation in Memphis.
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