Cynthia Bitel:  

CLASS OF 1974
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Warren, MI

Cynthia's Story

My hero is my father (who has passed away). He wasn't famous, have a big important job, or have much money, but he was rich in love. He made me feel special in many small ways and I always knew he loved me. AND He loved my mother with all his heart until the day he died and he showed her that love in many ways every single day. And we kids (and our friends) witnessed the love between them every day as well. My prayer is to try to love as purely and show that love as much as he did. ---------------------- I met my husband, Vic Bitel, just before my senior year. Vic went to Warren High, graduated in '73 and was getting ready to go to MSU. I began writing him when he went off to school and by October we were dating. We became serious very soon and knew we married as soon as we could which took place in June 1976 while my husband still had 2 years left for his degree. So my paycheck went to bills and his went to his education. Life and $ weren't easy but we made it work, and here we are,thru thick and thin with all lifes surprises,still going strong at 33 years. We had 3 boys in 81, 85, and 86. Absolutely wonderful boys (young adults now) who I am very proud to be their mom.... ----------------------- I was offered a great job right out of high school and unbeknown to me, that job was the beginning of a wonderful career. I only took a few college classes throughout the years, also took many courses related to my different positions. Of course, I kept working after having each baby (also not in my origianl life plan). Over the years,I worked for only a handful of companies, but did well, ending up as the Commercial Midwest Regional Business Center Manager for Citizens Insurance. I worked out of Howell but traveled extensively. I was in the process of taking on a new position as National Strategic Project Manager when I became disabled in 2002. I never returned to work and without a miracle, will never be able to work again. (surprise, surprise) ---------------------- Life sure hasn't turned out the way I expected/planned. I was always a vivacious, energetic, can-do-anything person who...Expand for more
loved to take a dare. Along with working in a highly fast-paced environment,traveling, etc., my husband and I were involved in numerous activities thru our church, marriage encounter presenters, and scouts troop leaders. I was the energizer bunny, always able to do whatever was needed and was very proud of being a "super woman". Then...... One day in June 1997 I became very ill, with very strange and scary symptoms, and have been sick ever since. At first I thought I was dying, my entire body seemed to be shutting down. I was terrified and all I could think of was I didn't want my kids to be the kids growing up without a mom. Then later, realizing I was going to live but would always be very sick, I felt so sorry for my kids. Now on my mind was the realization of being the family who's kids would have a sick mom all the time as they grew up. A mom who couldn't do the things all the other moms were able to do. Also whose kids worried about their mom daily rather than having the happy uncomplicated childhood like I had. But....there are always blessings when hardships come. I was now home when my kids came home from school each day and I loved that. My life slowed down (actually stopped) and I had the time I always longed for "to smell the roses" and be around for my family. There wasn't a lot I cold do, but I was there for them. And my kids really appreciated me and did't take me for granted. They didn't like to worry me so went out of their way to keep me in the loop (which most parents are locked out during that age). They really had to "grow up fast" in so many ways,I felt they were cheated. On the other hand, I felt so blessed to have kids who showed me how much they cared and appreciated me as their mom. ----------------------- After my boys went to college, I got a small, pure white, Shih Tzu who I named Snowflake. She's my little girl who I shamelessly spoil and pamper. ---------------------------------- Life as a disabled, unheathy person, whose personality doesn't fit the problems of her disease, Mitocondrial Cytopothy.....are you sick of me yet??......more to come
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