Bill Reed:
CLASS OF 1964
Mentor High SchoolClass of 1964
Mentor, OH
Old Dominion UniversityClass of 2007
Norfolk, VA
U.S. Naval AcademyClass of 1969
Annapolis, MD
Brownstown Elementary SchoolClass of 1958
Brownstown, PA
Center Street Village Elementary SchoolClass of 1955
Mentor, OH
Bill's Story
Since those gentle days of high school, life has been interesting. Funny thing, nearing the age that most of us are approaching, I find myself associated with a high school as a substitute, a volunteer, and a host parent. The last part has been the most fun.
Remembering our exchange student, Anne-Brit Kolsto, as I traveled the world in uniform for 30 years, it was a sad day when that adventure ended. Interacting with the rest of the world became challenging. When the opportunity arose in 1995, my wife, Karen, and I began hosting short term (less than two months) students. Mostly European, the were interesting. In 2001, an auspicious year to begin a more challenging, worldly endeavor, we began hosting 10 month students. To date, we have hosted 28 10 month girls from 18 different countries, some Asian, some European, and all major religions. It has been an awesome experience. The nest has never been empty to this point. It is exciting as 24 have remained in touch even after their time here. They have gone on to be PhDs, lawyers, economists, caring people who serve others by teaching women of their rights in the Muslim world, using art as therapy for disturbed and traumatized children, and work that attempts to make the world a better place. We are humbled by their paths.
The big lesson, for all that have not had the opportunity for a more world centered life, is that teenagers, the world over, are very much alike. They are seldom if ever fanatics. As one of my military bosses once said, "It takes adults to really screw kids up." He was, in my opinion, correct. Most kids are more open-minded and accepting than adults. We could learn a lesson from them. With the 2016 political theater demonstrating a variety of very disturbing plot lines and...Expand for more
trends, I would advocate open-mindedness, acceptance, and the realization that most of us are immigrants of some number of generations, a product of circumstances - until we had graduated from high school or university - over which we had little control. Our forebearers made this nation great and taught us of ideas that make us better than we might otherwise have been. Somewhere along the past 25 or so years, we have lost out way. We need to, as Dick Crum told the football team in 1963, "get back to basics."
It should be obvious that I have confronted my beginnings and have chosen paths of thought that are not my parents' or any of the communities I have been part of in the past 50 years. We need to reexamine our capacity for compassion, our abilities to think through problems rather than accepting the explanations given to us by those who would have us parrot or mindlessly accept their views. In the fifty plus years since we graduated from high school, we have become so much less than what we, as a nation, once were. We have the potential to be that again. Unfortunately, few of those actors on the current political stage have any of the skills necessary to lead us back, especially those that profess to do so.
Bottom line: Let us continue, begin, whatever the appropriate verb may be for you, to encourage thought, garner solutions, re-examine who we really are, and re-assume our presence in world matters, not as a bully or the big stick, but as a nation that knows how to speak softly, reconcile differences in issues with others - just a smart as we are - who might just disagree with us.
This Holiday period, Be Happy, Be Safe, Love those around you, and come out fighting in the upcoming theatrics that face us in 2016. God Speed!
Bill
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