Bobby Tucker:
CLASS OF 1973
Aiken High SchoolClass of 1973
Aiken, SC
University of South Carolina - MusicClass of 1977
Columbia, SC
Bobby's Story
I live in Lilburn, an eastern suburb of Atlanta. The road getting here has been amazing.
SINCE WE LAST MET...
A Chronology
1973
USC Columbia - Music major - Freshmen Dean's List - started smoking cigarettes among other things - met lifelong friends
1974.0
Great freshman year - discovered the real purpose of closets (quelle surprise)
1974.5
Dropped out for a year - major family discord - worked with SCDOT engineering dept.
1975.5
Returned to USC for sophomore year while family battle continued - working toward Bachelor of Music in Organ Performance - 4 hours of practice daily - I was good, damned good.
1976
Went to first Mardi Gras - liked it WAY too much - did not return to USC - took organist position at First Baptist Church in Barnwell - also worked at Sunbeam plant in Denmark as a production scheduler - got real bored real quick
1977
Hated Barnwell - moved back to Columbia - juggled 3 jobs: organist at Mt. Hebron UMC, production scheduler at another manufacturing plant 9 to 5, DJ at a disco 3 nights a week (still my all time favorite job)
1978
Fired from 9 to 5 job due to excessive partying - moved to Los Angeles to keep the party boy happy - worked at UCLA Medical Center Admissions Office - met movie stars - lived in West Hollywood - I Loved The Nightlife
1979
Still working at UCLA Med Ctr, amazingly - moved to Studio City in San Fernando Valley - still partying - "dated" lots of men. Lots.
1980
UCLA Med Ctr still - got bored in the Valley - moved back to West Hollyweird - got bored with L. A. - moved to San Francisco - worked at Barclay's Bank in money exchange dept - too much substance abuse - time to clean up my act - the party's over - However, I Left My Heart In San Francisco - Faaablous city.
1981
Bobby grows up: the year of self-preservation (or possibly non-erotic self-flagellation) - moved back to CSRA - worked at EZ Go - night school for computer programming associate degree - became an Episcopalian - am I too responsible?
1982
See 1981
1983
Interim organist at St. Paul's Episcopal Augusta - got the Associate Degree in DP - got bored with CSRA (who didn't?) - moved to Columbia after interim gig ended - worked at Bankers Trust as data entry clerk in Trust Dept.
1984
Organist and choirmaster at St. Jude's Episcopal - still at Bankers Trust - lived in high rise near USC - I like college towns
1985
Landed a programming position at BTSC - still at St. Jude's - moved to St. Andrew's
1986
Still programming computers - still organist gig - the vile, wretched NCNB acquired BTSC - moved to Charlotte - hated Charlotte - hated NCNB but stuck with programming job
1987
Still NCNB - organist gig at Good Shepherd Episcopal in York SC - spent summer in Columbia closing out BTSC programming dept
1988
Promotion to Programmer/Analyst - still organist - best friend died of AIDS, the first of many
1989
See 1988
1990
Promotion to Systems Analyst - got the hell out of Mecklenburg (dreadful place) -...Expand for more
moved to Atlanta - worked at First Atlanta as pgmr/analyst - lived in cool highrise apartment at Peachtree and North Ave - I just adore a penthouse view
1991
Joined St. Philip's Cathedral choir - dated A LOT of men - A++ work at First ATL - substitute organist gigs
1992
First ATL becomes Wachovia. God, not another Charlotte bank - appointed Chapel Organist at St. Phil's - sinking into Atlanta living is nice
1993
Promotion to Systems Analyst and Bank Officer - mom died - lots of friends died - depression - Meet my newest friends: Jim Beam, Johnny Walker, Jose Cuervo.
1994
Moved to another apt in same building - still depressed - still at Wachovia - dad remarried
1995
Olympic Fever Grips City!! - downtown apartment rents skyrocket - move to burbs - first trip to Europe: London, the cathedral tour, Calais - Mme. Butler's French classes had long vanished from my lips - turned 40 - Talk about depressed?!
1996
Retired from Wachovia at 40. How? Why? Because I could - Unexpected $$ makes life very deression free. So does therapy. (I was only 15. I didn't see it as actually being abused. Who knew?)
1997
Bought first townhome - met current partner - West Coast tour: LA, SF, PS, Vegas - stopped smoking
1998 - 1999
Settled into married life - fluffed the townhome - lots of travel - got Harley, a gray brindle Whippet
2000
Bought our current home - another European vacation: London, Cambridge, Amsterdam
2001 - 2008
Lounging by the pool with a margarita - travel - organist gigs when I'm in the mood - remodeling the house one room at the time - gardening
UPDATE...
2009
January 2: We had to put Harley down: congestive heart failure. It's the most agonizing decision I've ever been forced to make. Jay took it especially hard. The house wasn't the same without our "boy."
May - Dec: Interim organist gig at a Presbyterian church in Atlanta. I was a little rusty, but soon got back to speed. I like working. It keeps one's brain from turning into goo.
2010
Our 32 y/o house was begging for a face lift. New: siding; hardwood downstairs, carpet up; HVAC; windows; insulation. Wells Fargo owns me. Sept - Dec interim gig at Rehoboth Presbyterian, Decatur
2011
Life goes on. Played a recital at FBC Barnwell - what a rush!
2012
Since the Mayan prophecies will surely be fulfilled, the survival instinct arose within me. I shall go about gathering... ah, screw it. I'll just throw a killer cocktail party the weekend before December 21.
2013
We're still here? Bummer. Y2K all over again. Had my first surgery: a torn Achilles tendon in my right foot. I tell everybody the injury was a result of an ass-kicking gone terribly wrong. Truth: I'm getting old and beginning to fall apart.
Aug 11: sub gig at St. Thaddeus in Aiken. Sept 1: subbed at All Saints, Beech Island. Oct 1: starting another interim gig at St. Aidan's Episcopal in Alpharetta. Again, I like working.
At the end of the day...
LIFE IS GOOD. I AM HAPPY. THERE IS A GOD. THERE IS KARMA.
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