Bobby Tucker:  

CLASS OF 1973
Bobby Tucker's Classmates® Profile Photo
Aiken High SchoolClass of 1973
Aiken, SC
Columbia, SC

Bobby's Story

I live in Lilburn, an eastern suburb of Atlanta. The road getting here has been amazing. SINCE WE LAST MET... A Chronology 1973 USC Columbia - Music major - Freshmen Dean's List - started smoking cigarettes among other things - met lifelong friends 1974.0 Great freshman year - discovered the real purpose of closets (quelle surprise) 1974.5 Dropped out for a year - major family discord - worked with SCDOT engineering dept. 1975.5 Returned to USC for sophomore year while family battle continued - working toward Bachelor of Music in Organ Performance - 4 hours of practice daily - I was good, damned good. 1976 Went to first Mardi Gras - liked it WAY too much - did not return to USC - took organist position at First Baptist Church in Barnwell - also worked at Sunbeam plant in Denmark as a production scheduler - got real bored real quick 1977 Hated Barnwell - moved back to Columbia - juggled 3 jobs: organist at Mt. Hebron UMC, production scheduler at another manufacturing plant 9 to 5, DJ at a disco 3 nights a week (still my all time favorite job) 1978 Fired from 9 to 5 job due to excessive partying - moved to Los Angeles to keep the party boy happy - worked at UCLA Medical Center Admissions Office - met movie stars - lived in West Hollywood - I Loved The Nightlife 1979 Still working at UCLA Med Ctr, amazingly - moved to Studio City in San Fernando Valley - still partying - "dated" lots of men. Lots. 1980 UCLA Med Ctr still - got bored in the Valley - moved back to West Hollyweird - got bored with L. A. - moved to San Francisco - worked at Barclay's Bank in money exchange dept - too much substance abuse - time to clean up my act - the party's over - However, I Left My Heart In San Francisco - Faaablous city. 1981 Bobby grows up: the year of self-preservation (or possibly non-erotic self-flagellation) - moved back to CSRA - worked at EZ Go - night school for computer programming associate degree - became an Episcopalian - am I too responsible? 1982 See 1981 1983 Interim organist at St. Paul's Episcopal Augusta - got the Associate Degree in DP - got bored with CSRA (who didn't?) - moved to Columbia after interim gig ended - worked at Bankers Trust as data entry clerk in Trust Dept. 1984 Organist and choirmaster at St. Jude's Episcopal - still at Bankers Trust - lived in high rise near USC - I like college towns 1985 Landed a programming position at BTSC - still at St. Jude's - moved to St. Andrew's 1986 Still programming computers - still organist gig - the vile, wretched NCNB acquired BTSC - moved to Charlotte - hated Charlotte - hated NCNB but stuck with programming job 1987 Still NCNB - organist gig at Good Shepherd Episcopal in York SC - spent summer in Columbia closing out BTSC programming dept 1988 Promotion to Programmer/Analyst - still organist - best friend died of AIDS, the first of many 1989 See 1988 1990 Promotion to Systems Analyst - got the hell out of Mecklenburg (dreadful place) -...Expand for more
moved to Atlanta - worked at First Atlanta as pgmr/analyst - lived in cool highrise apartment at Peachtree and North Ave - I just adore a penthouse view 1991 Joined St. Philip's Cathedral choir - dated A LOT of men - A++ work at First ATL - substitute organist gigs 1992 First ATL becomes Wachovia. God, not another Charlotte bank - appointed Chapel Organist at St. Phil's - sinking into Atlanta living is nice 1993 Promotion to Systems Analyst and Bank Officer - mom died - lots of friends died - depression - Meet my newest friends: Jim Beam, Johnny Walker, Jose Cuervo. 1994 Moved to another apt in same building - still depressed - still at Wachovia - dad remarried 1995 Olympic Fever Grips City!! - downtown apartment rents skyrocket - move to burbs - first trip to Europe: London, the cathedral tour, Calais - Mme. Butler's French classes had long vanished from my lips - turned 40 - Talk about depressed?! 1996 Retired from Wachovia at 40. How? Why? Because I could - Unexpected $$ makes life very deression free. So does therapy. (I was only 15. I didn't see it as actually being abused. Who knew?) 1997 Bought first townhome - met current partner - West Coast tour: LA, SF, PS, Vegas - stopped smoking 1998 - 1999 Settled into married life - fluffed the townhome - lots of travel - got Harley, a gray brindle Whippet 2000 Bought our current home - another European vacation: London, Cambridge, Amsterdam 2001 - 2008 Lounging by the pool with a margarita - travel - organist gigs when I'm in the mood - remodeling the house one room at the time - gardening UPDATE... 2009 January 2: We had to put Harley down: congestive heart failure. It's the most agonizing decision I've ever been forced to make. Jay took it especially hard. The house wasn't the same without our "boy." May - Dec: Interim organist gig at a Presbyterian church in Atlanta. I was a little rusty, but soon got back to speed. I like working. It keeps one's brain from turning into goo. 2010 Our 32 y/o house was begging for a face lift. New: siding; hardwood downstairs, carpet up; HVAC; windows; insulation. Wells Fargo owns me. Sept - Dec interim gig at Rehoboth Presbyterian, Decatur 2011 Life goes on. Played a recital at FBC Barnwell - what a rush! 2012 Since the Mayan prophecies will surely be fulfilled, the survival instinct arose within me. I shall go about gathering... ah, screw it. I'll just throw a killer cocktail party the weekend before December 21. 2013 We're still here? Bummer. Y2K all over again. Had my first surgery: a torn Achilles tendon in my right foot. I tell everybody the injury was a result of an ass-kicking gone terribly wrong. Truth: I'm getting old and beginning to fall apart. Aug 11: sub gig at St. Thaddeus in Aiken. Sept 1: subbed at All Saints, Beech Island. Oct 1: starting another interim gig at St. Aidan's Episcopal in Alpharetta. Again, I like working. At the end of the day... LIFE IS GOOD. I AM HAPPY. THERE IS A GOD. THERE IS KARMA.
Register for Free to view all details!
Register for Free to view all yearbooks!
Reunions
Register for Free to start a reunion event!

Photos

At 30
Bobby Tucker's Classmates profile album
Trinity Lutheran, Marietta, 2007
St. Bartholomew's Atlanta, 1992
St. Paul's Augusta, 1983
Bobby Tucker's Classmates profile album
At 50
At 40

Bobby Tucker is on Classmates.

Register for free to join them.
Oops! Please select your school.
Oops! Please select your graduation year.
First name, please!
Last name, please!
Create your password

Please enter 6-20 characters

Your password should be between 6 and 20 characters long. Only English letters, numbers, and these characters !@#$%^&* may be used in your password. Please remove any symbols or special characters.
Passwords do not match!

*Required

By clicking Submit, you agree to the Classmates TERMS OF SERVICE and PRIVACY POLICY.

Oops an error occurred.