Cathy Dunphy:
CLASS OF 1979
Doherty Memorial High SchoolClass of 1979
Worcester, MA
Northeastern University - EngineeringClass of 1985
Boston, MA
Cathy's Story
After high school I went to Northeastern and got my BS in Electrical Engineering. I lived in San Francisco for a while, but, believe it or not, I missed the weather and the people on the East Coast. Back here now living in Cambridge with 2 obese cats that I got at the MPCA. I work for a hospital in Boston doing computer stuff.
I have been dabbling in hang gliding and parasailing and hope to do more of it this spring. BIG TIME mid-life crisis activities!
How did we all get so old!?!?!?!?!
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How lucky am I? I as still pinching my self to remember that YES - this did happen to me. I was at Mother's wake and a good friend of the famly who's VERY cool mother died a year before. This daughter had a buzz cut (her hair had never been cut ) and was battling breast cancer and my first thought was "that is what is will hapen to me".
I had never had a mammogram even though they practically drag you out of your house to get one. Just never did. I was probably too scared of what they might find.
Now those of you that knew me I don't THINK thought of my as some new age hippy with crystals and auras and stuff like that. I was really just biding my time until HS was over.
SO - on May 10, 2007 I was walking to Whole FOODs to get lunch, I felt a piercing pain in my left breast that just wouldn't go away. ...Expand for more
At that point my mother was in hospice care at their home and was exected to die any day. I had brought her home - I fought with the hospital to release her($$ for them if she stays) She came home on a Monday and was so thrilled to be back among her things and just in her place.
On Wednesday it was about 1:05 when I got the pain. After about 15 minues I went back to my office only to get a phone call from my dad saying that my mom had died 15 minutes ago. Right when got the pain.
I got a mammogram. There was cancer right where the pain was. It was small and had not spread to other parts of my body but it was getting ready to. It was a very invasive cancer - you don't want it wandering though your body. So I had 2 surgeries to make sure that they got it all. Now I am undergoing a 6 week course of radiation.
I say that I am lucky for several reasons. First, it is not going ot kill me. I may get run over by the Fung Wah bus but I won't die of breast cancer. Second, it was caught JUST IN TIME! Had I waited and procrastinated I may not be feeling so lucky. Third, which is harder chalk up to coincindence, is the timeing of the pain and my mother's death. I choose to believe that she was telling me something she knew only in death. There have been other incidents, but believe that one saved my life.
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