Chris Mills:  

CLASS OF 1965
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New haven, CT
Lexington, VA

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Life I practice labor and employment law, representing mamagement, in a firm that has multiple offices across the country. With my second wife, I have an 18-year old son who's a freshman at Cornell. We live in Chatham NJ. After high school, I went "back East" to college, at Washington & Lee University in Virginia. Debate continued to be my main activity, as it had in high school. In fact, I probably selected W&L in part because the debate coach there told me "you'll start as a freshman." And I did, eventually winning the Mid-Atlantic qualifying tournament for the National College Debate Tournament my junior year. Never got to go to the big tournament, however, as my debate partner was killed the next day while tubing on a creek near school. W&L was an all-male college at the time and the slogan was that students worked hard and played hard. It was about 50% right for me, as I wasn't at all social until senior year. But all the study yielded results. Phi Beta Kappa junior year and eventually graduated magna cum laude in 1969 with both a BS in Commerce and a BA in American History. I'd always wanted to be an attorney and W&L is very supportive with its students in getting them into good graduate schools; so I had choices and eventually went off to Yale Law School in the fall of 1969. Showing just about where my head was at back then, I'd never even heard of Woodstock until I met some of my Yale classmates who had just come from attending it. I entered law school knowing that I had a 4-year military commitment ahead of me as a Navy JAG lawyer. I had been awarded a Rotary Foundation Fellowship to study in France but didn't flunk my physical or get creative with an appeal or being reclassified, and so I would have been drafted in short order. I had applied for and been accepted into a Navy program that gave you a direct commission and required service as a JAG lawyer for 4 years. So after Yale, where my major activities and interests were again focused on debate-like appellate argument contests, I trundled off to Newport RI for Naval Justice School in the fall of 1972, just in time to hold a wake with another kindred spirit who happened to be a fellow Nixon-hater, over the results of the 72 elections. From Newport, the Navy sent me to Washington DC, where I wrote appellate briefs relating to appeals of the most serious of the courts martial involving Navy and Marine Corps personnel (well, mostly Marines) for a couple of years and then moved over to an assignment where I actually did get to work for the Judge Advocate General himself. It was nothing like the TV show! The Navy/Uncle Sam funded more law school work at Georgetown - I went at night and got an LL.M. degree in labor law in 1975. I found my life's calling by way of getting into an argument over labor law policy with another JAG lawyer whose father was a regional Vice President for the Steelworkers Union. After leaving the Navy in 1976, I started out with a large Baltimore law firm, living close by in Annapolis and learning, courtesy of my first wife, that I really liked making a boat sail. That firm was the wrong place for me at the time, and a chance interview landed me in an unexpected place -- an in-house slot at one of the Bell System Operating Telephone Companies, C&P Telephone in DC. I loved it. We did all our own litigation, hiring no outside counsel. I commuted an hour into the city but didn't mind it. But it was not to last. [THIS SELF-ABSORBED NARRATIVE IS CONTINUED IN THE "WORK" SECTION. I DIDN'T UNDERSTAND THERE WAS A CHARACTER LIMIT ON THESE SECTIONS.] College [SEE THE "LIFE" SECTION FIRST, WHICH CONTAINS A NARRATIVE THAT THEN CONTINUES INTO THE "WORK" SECTION.] I attended Washington & Lee University starting in the Fall of 1965. It was an all-male school, which is what I thought I wanted at the time. Given my level of social skills at the time, it was probably a good thing that I was parked at a place like that. Studies were my focus, not social life. I think I used to say in my senior year, when I finally took a car back to school, that I'd had 6 real dates in my first 3 years. Competitive inter-collegiate debate was my "thing." I actually selected W&L in part because my visit to the school came on the heels of an appearance at the National High School Championships during the summer of 1964, and the debate coach promised me that I'd have a chance to "start" if I came there. So 13 or so weeks ever year, we'd pile into the coach's Peugeot to drive to some debate tournament, leaving on Wednesday afternoon and returning on Sunday. Eventually, after what seemed at the time llike too few victories along the way, my partner and I won the Mid-Atlantic Qualifying tournament for the National Collegiate Debate Torunament in the Spring of 1968. The next day, while he was off celebrating tubing on a creek near school, he was killed when he hit his head on a submerged rock and drowned. So no national debate tournament. Academics were always a personal focus, and the grades just seemed to come. I found tha...Expand for more
t I liked taking a heavy course load and before long concluded that I could get 2 degrees -- a BS in Commerce and a BA in History. And so I did. I was elected Phi Beta Kappa in my junior year and ended up graduating Magna Cum Laude in June 1969. When I applied to law schools, admission was probably easier than it should have been and I had a choice of where to go. Why did I choose Yale? Because when I asked the friend I visited at Harvard whether it was still the type of competitive place where fellow students razor-bladed pages out of texts so others wouldn't be able to see them, he told me, "That stuff is getting better around here." I had come to college thinking I was going to major in French, but that died on the horns of some piece of French Literature or another. But I still liked speaking the language and applied for a Rotary Foundation Fellowship, to study in Grenoble France. I won, but faced the reality of the draft. Unless I were deemed medically unable to be drafted, I couldn't get a deferment in 1969 to go to France. I thought knee injuries and pasty skin prone to extreme sunburn would keep me out of the draft, but the draft doctor thought otherwise, and I didn't go the route of finding other doctors to fight the classification. So no France. Instead I focused on getting admitted into a program with one of the services that would enable me to get through law school and serve as a lawyer, rather than a grunt. Turned out that the Navy had a program in which they admitted 100 people a year with a direct commission and no up-front combat training, like you would get if you went OCS. I applied and got in. So I wouldn't have to go to the jungles of Southeast Asia as an enlisted man, but I would have to defer practicing civilian law for 4 years. As described in the "Military" section, however, my time in the Navy JAG wasn't oppressive and I think I learned some good life lessons there. How do I remember college ending? I packed up my 1963 SAAB GT 850, with a 3-cylinder two-stroke engine (known unaffectionately to the guys at the fraternity house as the F-ing Green Sewing Machine" for its telltale sound and the blue exhaust it spewed) and drove back to Denver, paying 19 cents a gallon along the way and wondering what it would be like to go to law school in the proverbial small pond surrounded by a bunch of very elite fish. Workplace [CONTINUED FROM THE "LIFE" SECTION} Sometime late in 1979 or early in 1980, I had to make a speech to the group of labor lawyers for the Bell System (at the time the largest "firm" of labor attorneys anywhere in the country) and apparently came to the attention of a higher-up at the company's headquarters, because in February 1980, I was summomed to Basking Ridge NJ and told that my future lay in that city. Actually I was asked whether I had ever considered working in NJ and my unthinking response was "No and I really can't imagine working here." Obviously not the right response in a job interview. I got the position anyway but found that my wife wouldn't leave her job in DC. A mutually agreed "commuting marriage" lasted all of about 6 weeks before the geographical developed into a marital one. Relatively non-contentious divorce ensued and I found myself suddenly single in suburban NJ. A year or so later I met someone through an AT&T function and had a date. One. Everything just clicked and we became a couple, marrying in the partially finished house we were building in March 1983. We're still there, with two additions behind us. By 1988, I'd been in NJ with AT&T for 12 years and was ready for something new. The attorney I liked to use as outside trial counsel had just started up a small firm and offered me a slot with a chance to build a practice in employment law. Took me 6 months to finally depart "Ma Bell," which by that time wasn't the Bell System anymore. And so on January 1, 1989 I found myself back in private practice in Somerset NJ. Five years later, I was Managing Director of the firm, which has fluctuated from between 16 and 21 lawyers through the late 90s and into the new century. Our son Bryan was born in 1990, necessitating "Bryan's House," the first addition. At one point, I had thought of leaving regular life behind and cruising the seas of the world starting at age 50. Now I'll have a kid graduating from college when I'm 65. I made the right choice. We still have a sailboat -- 32 feet now and kept in Connecticut. We've taken it on up-to-month-long cruises to Maine and regularly get out to Nantucket. There's nothing like sailing in pea soup fog to take your mind off work at the office and focus you on the present. As life has moved on, I've realized that I haven't kept up with people I've encountered along the road as well as I wish I had. Hence this foray into Classmates. I've let work interfere with reunions formal and informal, but maybe that will change. And if I do reach out and re-connect with some long-forgotten people through this web site, the time I've spend writing this will have been worth it.
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