Dawn Albrecht-Parys:  

CLASS OF 1977
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Chelsea High SchoolClass of 1977
Chelsea, MI
Milwaukee, WI
Ypsilanti, MI

Dawn's Story

I have considered doing this for some time and finally decided, "what the heck?".... so I'm about to take the plunge with regards to my life since 1977. After finally graduating with a Degree in Telecommunications and Film from Eastern Michigan University in 1983, (after a short stint at the U of M) I was lucky enough to be hired as an "on air" personality by little 'ole radio station WAAM in Ann Arbor. The pay was low, the hours were long and I had an absolute ball working there. I got lucky again when the National Advertising Agency for Domino's Pizza, Group 243 Inc, hired me in 1985 as an Associate Broadcast Producer on their Domino's account. My wonderful boss, David Larson, took me by the hand and with incredible patience, taught me everything he knew about the production of radio and television commercials. This was during the Domino's "Avoid the Noid," era-which some of you may vaguely remember. For the period it was cutting edge technology-using the talent's of Will Vinton's Claymation facilty to create the "Noid," then combining computer animation techniques to superimpose it with "live action" footage which we had shot previously. We also used some of the best director's in the business, including Ridley Scott, the director of "Alien." It was an amazing time in my life...I was young, single and traveling the world producing radio and television spots in L.A., New York, Chicago...and once Domino's begin to expand overseas, I went to London, Frankfurt and Tokyo. The favorite pizza topping in London is corn, in Tokyo, dried fish and seaweed and in Frankfurt, sauerkraut. Different strokes.... But all good things can come to an end, and in 1989, despite our best efforts, we lost the account to Grey Advertising of New York. For the next year or so I worked as a free-lance producer and voice-over actor. One day I received a call from a headhunter who told me about a client he felt I may find interesting to work for. The client had reviewed my producer's reel and was eager to meet with me. From my perspective, there was one small problem. The company, McDonald Davis and Ass., was located in Milwaukee, Wisconsin....the land of cheese curds, Laverne and Shirley, Happy Days and Friday night fish fries. ( I simply loathe fish!!) Besides, after enjoying the culture and sophistication of Chicago on numerous work related agency trips, I could not imagine Milwaukee as a step up in my career. But financial reality finally jolted me to my senses...... and so I boarded a flight to Wisconsin for my interview. During my trip I was introduced to everyone at McDonald Davis, from the CEO to the Janitor, (I liked the janitor very much) and I listened intently as the various department heads waxed eloquent over their major client, "Shopko"...(a sort of K-mart clone) I was informed that their current ad campaign for Shopko was to be trashed and that I, along with several others would be responsible for creating a refreshing new image for the client. I believe it was assumed that I would bring a sifter of creative "fairy dust" to their troubled client, and I was made an offer which I accepted. Fairy dust or not-even I can't perform miracles. No creative change in the current advertising was ever approved by the client. No additional monies to increase production values was ever forthcoming. Old and dirty Shopko stores filled with crummy merchandise , zero production budgets, unappealing, dull commercials shot on god awful 16mm film-Shopko remained in a state of stasis, impervious to our creative and budgetary plea's. My immediate supervisor was the owner of the ad agency's son, a nice kid whose only previous broadcast production experience was producing a weekly show called "Polka Dance Party," shot on VHS in a Green Bay Wisconsin VFW hall. After realizing I had taken a job that any first year film student could master, I mussed up his mullet pretty badly and made it clear that I was a very unhappy camper. I had uprooted my creative and professional life to do nothing more than produce low value junk that did nothing to enhance my producers reel or my reputation. (but I found myself beginning to adore Milwaukee and its lakefront lifestyle) At the time I joined McDonald Davis, Shopko's revenues had dropped some 35% in a little under four years. They were quietly but actively putting out feelers in search of a new Ad Agency, and I, along with several others had been hired as part of a last ditch effort to save McDonald Davis from losing the account. We knew none of this at the time. But a paycheck is a paycheck, and as I continued to work at McDonald Davis by day, (while sending out resumes at night) I met my future husband. His name was Ronald Parys, and he lived in the same condominium complex as I. Despite a nearly 22 year age difference, we clicked at once. Ron was a brilliant, very handsome guy with a wonderful sense of humor, four adult children whom I love very much and a long forgotten divorce nearly 6 years in the past. Ron had been a Wisconsin State Assemblyman and a Wisconsin State Senator. At the time we met he was the President of the Wisconsin Grocer's Association as well as President of the Wisconsin Lobbyist Association. Things have an interesting way of working out, because as we were falling in love I decided to take the bull by the horns and put the finishing touches on a dream that I had long wished for; to be the owner of my own advertising agency. Ron backed my decision 100% - so while I located my agency in Birmingham, MI - Ron remained in Wisconsin and we somehow made it all work out. It finally did become too much however, and I ended up selling my company, Canfield Powers and Associates, to a larger firm located in Southfield, MI. After several years of great happiness, Ron and I decided to marry. We had a glorious wedding on a brilliant sunny day in August, surrounded by the numerous people we loved and cared for. Because it was a lakeside wedding on the lake where we owned a cabin, I arrived at the ceremony in our pontoon boat, wedding veil flapping wildly in the wind. I'm quite sure that I resembled one of those women who were carved on the front of a ships prow in earlier times, but unlike them, I had hoop skirts flying over my head and a train fluttering 10-15 feet behind me. To say I looked a bit disheveled would be a massive understatement.:) It was however a great day and to use an old cliche...I was never happier. After our Honeymoon, I returned to College, (Cardinal Stritch in Milwaukee) to begin working on my Master's in Business. I was finishing up my first semester when I received an urgent call from Ron's best friend, Senator Roger Breske, informing me that Ron had just had a "mild" heart attack while in a meeting in Madison, WI. I arrived at the Hospital just as he was being wheeled in for a Heart "Cath" and stent insertions. We were so, so l...Expand for more
ucky...there was only minor heart damage, but this had been a warning-big time. As he recovered, we discussed retirement. We both loved the Charlotte County area on the Southwest Gulf Coast of Florida, we could afford to retire and simply kick back, enjoying the boating and the golf, (well....I planned to go back to work or I would have lost my mind...I was too damn young to retire) and by keeping our lake cabin in Wisconsin, we would always have an "escape" from the heat of a Floridian summer. Our decision was made and we made our move to Punta Gorda, Florida in the fall of 1996. We built a beautiful waterfront home and enjoyed ourselves tremendously. Then came Friday, August 13, 2004, the afternoon that Hurricane Charlie, a "Cat #4" Storm which had been forecast to bypass Punta Gorda completely, did a "u-turn" at the last second and within 20 minutes had barreled up Charlotte Harbor, engulfing all of Punta Gorda under 20-30 foot waves driven by winds of 135mph. That was the scariest 7 hours of my life. Ron was in Wisconsin the day of "Charlie," so the cats and I were completely on our own. The storm hit so quickly that there was no time to do anything other than grab each furball and toss them into a large, "inside wall" walk-in closet. Somehow that closet held, protecting us as the majority of our home, as well as our entire neighborhood was crushed and waterlogged beyond belief. Despite total devastation all around, our section of Punta Gorda Isles was very, very lucky-26 people died in this storm-but no one from our neighborhood. The hurricane made our home completely uninhabitable- it took nearly two years to restore. We, like thousands of others in Punta Gorda were now homeless. But truth is stranger than fiction and oddly enough, one week before Charlie hit, Ron and I had purchased a beach house on Manasota Key in Englewood, Fl.. Located directly on the Gulf of Mexico, Englewood is a mere 20 miles from Punta Gorda, yet had escaped untouched and unscathed by the Hurricane. Once this was discovered, (after 5 days of being trapped in our neighborhood by wreckage and debris-not to mention no electricity or running water) I led a neighborhood caravan of cars, children, pets, adults, ect to the beach house. There were over 35 of us crowded into our 3 bedroom, 2.5 bath house...and everyone of them was thrilled. There was air conditioning, hot and cold running water, safety for the children, the elderly and the pets....it was a crowded but fun adventure. After all that, Ron and I settled happily and comfortably into our home on the beach. I worked part time for WKII radio, while Ron became a Zoning Commissioner for Charlotte County. Then, in August of 2007, our world changed seemingly overnight. One day, shortly before our 30th high school reunion, Ron complained of severe back pain, pain so intense that he could barely walk. I took him to the nearest Emergency Room and within 60 minutes we both knew that this was the beginning of something terrible. He was quickly admitted, and after 3 exhausting days, while Ron was still sedated from an operation to view his liver and spleen, a Doctor, speaking badly broken english came sauntering into the waiting room and casually told me that my Husband had terminal liver cancer. He gave him 8 weeks at most, then yawned, said he would tell Ron when he woke and started to leave. I blew, totally erupted. I grabbed that smarmy little shrimp by his lapels and told him that I and I alone would tell my husband that he was terminal. He nodded. End of conversation. At this point it was 4:45 am and as Ron was still dozing peacefully in recovery, I grabbed a chair and a pillow and waited for him to wake. At 7:00 am, Ron slowly came around and recognized me. When I was sure that he was fully alert, I told him the terrible news. What I said does not matter-but we cried and hugged and cried some more, and then I got busy. My Dad has a dear friend who is an Oncologist at Dana Farber. The good Doctor reviewed Ron's case and confirmed what I already knew; Ron's liver was a solid block of cancer, he would recommend no treatment but pallative care...i.e, comfort measures only. As the clock was ticking, our next step was to hire the very best 24/7 private nursing care available-along with a 24/7 cna to assist with the lifting, ect. Ron was coming home-as per his wishes he was NOT going to die in a hospital. That inarticulate squirt who was Ron's local Oncologist attempted to drag his feet by claiming that it was "too early" for Hospice. I told him bluntly that we were not interested in Hospice- Ron's care would be coordinated by and would be paid for privately by us. He hemed and hawed until I had to push his back against a wall to ensure that after his release, Ron would be supplied with I.V. fluids, a Morphine Drip as well as any other medications necessary to ensure his comfort and relief from pain. Finally, things were a "go" and with the help of my wonderful step-children we plumped the pillows in our king sized bed, put Ron's hospital table and phone within easy reach, had the freezer loaded with fruit pops and ice cream, made sure we had plenty of ice for his vodka martini's, set his ash tray "just so," and with a nurse and cna by our side, waited for Ron to arrive from the hospital by ambulance. We had him home for 6 wonderful days. His time from diagnosis to death was just 16 days. The evening before he died, Ron slipped into a light coma. We were all snuggled around him....his 3 daughters, his son, myself and our kitty cats. I believe he knew we were there. It was a very gentle death. People speak often of living a "good life." If one has the option, taking control and living a "good death" is of equal importance. Ron died peacefully just as he had wished, in his own home surrounded by his family It's been a tad over 4 years since I lost my guy, and while some can jump rather quickly back into the dating scene, it's only been in the last 6 months or so that I've been able to start dating again. Nothing serious but all good. I'm looking forward to our 40th reunion and am stunned that so much time has flown by. I still feel 18 (honestly!) and love, love, LOVE living on the gulf coast of Florida. I jet ski, scuba, snorkel and boat, and more often than not enjoy a glass of wine while watching the sun drop over the Gulf. I also have a second place, a condo in Augusta, GA, which I bought as a safety measure to escape the savage storms of summer over the gulf. (It's actually more for my furballs than me, as I promised them that I'd NEVER put them through a "Hurricane Charlie" again!) :D Life is good. My family is healthy and happy and I hope that all of you are happy and doing well in your lives as well. Take good care of yourselves. Dawn
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