Debra Upham:  

CLASS OF 1975
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Chilocco, OK
Browning, MT
Busby High SchoolClass of 1975
Busby, MT

Debra's Story

During my high school years I moved around to different schools. I wanted to go to boarding school and not stay at home. I was bored with Browning. I was not popular, a late bloomer, I didn't play sports or belong to any club.It seemed in high school you had to be a jock, cheerleader,brainiac or cowboy to matter to anyone. If you were not one of those, forgetta bout it!! I really didn't care to fit in and I wasn't impressed by status. I was just who I was. Hey I was a teenager who was plucked from my home in Seattle and brought back to the rez. It was hard. I was a city kid living in a one-horse town. At least that's the way I felt back then. I was a bit rebellious. I didn't have enough credits, so I didn't graduate with my class, so I ended up getting a GED. But that was okay with me. I still went to college. I married my high school sweetheart from Busby at the tender age of 17 and had my first child at 19. I was divorced by the age of 24 with 3 kids to raise. Got married again on the rebound. That lasted a year. By then I had 4 children. And I decided to go off to college. In my sec...Expand for more
ond year of college I met an artist, we had a lovely 3 month romance, but things did not work out. But I was blessed with my fifth child. He had problems at the end of my pregnancy and that resulted in lack of oxygen and brain damage. So he had a condition called cerebral palsy and was a quadreplegic. But he was the joy of me and my children and family. He passed the day after my birthday, he was 13 years old. I went thru a very rocky period in my life and it has been 5 1/2 years since he left and I am finally coming around and wanting to get back into the business of life. If it wasn't for my faith in Jesus Christ and his love and mercy, I don't know where I'd be today. But I am slowly coming to terms with this terrible loss. I will never get over losing my son, but I am beginning to learn to live with it. My world as I knew changed that fateful morning. My kids are all grown and I have 8 grandchildren who are all special to me. They bring me much joy and help heal my heart. So I am blessed. So now I don't know what the future holds for me, but it's so bright I have to wear sunglasses!
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