Debra Upham:
CLASS OF 1975
Chilocco High SchoolClass of 1975
Chilocco, OK
Browning High SchoolClass of 1975
Browning, MT
Busby High SchoolClass of 1975
Busby, MT
Debra's Story
During my high school years I moved around to different schools. I wanted to go to boarding school and not stay at home. I was bored with Browning. I was not popular, a late bloomer, I didn't play sports or belong to any club.It seemed in high school you had to be a jock, cheerleader,brainiac or cowboy to matter to anyone. If you were not one of those, forgetta bout it!! I really didn't care to fit in and I wasn't impressed by status. I was just who I was. Hey I was a teenager who was plucked from my home in Seattle and brought back to the rez. It was hard. I was a city kid living in a one-horse town. At least that's the way I felt back then. I was a bit rebellious.
I didn't have enough credits, so I didn't graduate with my class, so I ended up getting a GED. But that was okay with me. I still went to college. I married my high school sweetheart from Busby at the tender age of 17 and had my first child at 19. I was divorced by the age of 24 with 3 kids to raise. Got married again on the rebound. That lasted a year. By then I had 4 children. And I decided to go off to college. In my sec...Expand for more
ond year of college I met an artist, we had a lovely 3 month romance, but things did not work out. But I was blessed with my fifth child. He had problems at the end of my pregnancy and that resulted in lack of oxygen and brain damage. So he had a condition called cerebral palsy and was a quadreplegic. But he was the joy of me and my children and family. He passed the day after my birthday, he was 13 years old. I went thru a very rocky period in my life and it has been 5 1/2 years since he left and I am finally coming around and wanting to get back into the business of life. If it wasn't for my faith in Jesus Christ and his love and mercy, I don't know where I'd be today. But I am slowly coming to terms with this terrible loss. I will never get over losing my son, but I am beginning to learn to live with it. My world as I knew changed that fateful morning. My kids are all grown and I have 8 grandchildren who are all special to me. They bring me much joy and help heal my heart. So I am blessed. So now I don't know what the future holds for me, but it's so bright I have to wear sunglasses!
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