Dell Harney:  

CLASS OF 1979
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Pasco High SchoolClass of 1979
Pasco, WA
Yakima, WA
Mackay High SchoolClass of 1979
Mackay, ID

Dell's Story

I graduated in 79 and a few weeks later hopped a plane for Fort Dix, NJ and Army basic training where I had a crash course in pushups, hand grenades, sand in my shorts & humidity (Yuk)! I came back to the tri Cities about six months later, a certified vehicle repairman with a six year obligation to the WA army national guard and a man with a whole new vocabulary. As I recall, my mom was not at all impressed with the bawdy jargon I had picked up in the Barracks and after about a month back in civilization that bad habit left me. I worked for about a year at Boise Cascade in Wallula saving money for school and then went to CBC. I worked at Mid Columbia Library in Kennewick while going to school and attended National Guard drill one weekend per month and two weeks every summer. After graduating with an Associates degree I went to work for Acme Concrete in Richland as a dispatcher. I was there for 4 years before coming to my senses and deciding I needed a career with more challenge than that (yes, once in a while common sense does enter into my story). In college I had discovered two things. First, that I seemed to have some talent for writing and was encouraged to go to a writers school in Iowa. Second, when I had taken some electronics classes as electives something about it seemed to stir my gravy. This fuzzy notion about the second discovery and the advice of some good friends from the National Guard who worked at Hanford led me to Perry Technical Institute in Yakima where I enrolled in the Instrumentation and Industrial electronics program. I had to apply and then wait for a year to get into the program because there was a waiting list. I was initially told that the waiting list was two years old but that was OK because the school was expensive and I would need that time to save the money to pay for it. Somebody dropped from the list and I was asked if I wanted to start a year early in 1986. Thanks to a good friend of our family, Beulah Nickerson who believed in me and loaned me money, I was able to start at that time. I knew right away that I had found my calling. I loved the material and excelled. It was a two year course but demand for instrument techs was so high that three of my classmates and I were allowed to graduate two months early and take jobs at an oil refinery in the Bay area near Oakland, CA. I lived and worked in California for three years, loving the field I had chosen and making good money. During that time I experienced the Loma Prieta earthquake where I lived with some room mates in the East Bay (That was the one that happened just as the world series between Oakland and San Francisco was about to begin and collapsed the MacArthur freeway on all those people in their cars). I was surprised at how that event affected me. It was not so much the big quake but all the little aftershocks that kept happening for months afterward that were making me antsy. So when a new job opportunity came up near Sacramento I took it. Up until that time since high school I had several girlfriends but nothing that became very serious or lasted over a year or so. That changed when I met Lisa in Meadow Vista, CA. She was the daughter of a man, Jim Finn, who I worked with. I did not even know that he had a daughter until I accepted his invitation for a fourth of July party at his house. What was weird about the whole situation is that I was supposed to meet a nurse there who worked with Jim's wife on a kind of blind date. The nurse never showed up but I met Jims daughter who was going through a divorce. We were married in June of 1991 and moved to the Tri Cities where I had landed a job with WPPSS at the #2 nuclear power plant as an instrument technician. Within a year I had legally adopted my daughter Leslee and we bought a home in Kennewick on W. 4th Ave. In 1992 our daughter Kellee Elizabeth was born. She was beautiful ...Expand for more
with a surprisingly dark olive complexion and the brown eyes of her mother. In early 1995 Lisa got pregnant again and we were going through major changes. Lisa had found her biological father whom she had never known. He lived in North Carolina and after she visited him there and he and his wife and children came to visit us in Washington, Lisa wanted to move across the country to be near him. What made the decision easier was that WPPSS was laying people off and offered me an incentive package to voluntarily take a RIF. So we moved to North Carolina in October of 1995. In January of 96 our third daughter was born. Emilee Anne did not have the dark brown eyes that reflected her mother's Italian herritage but instead inherited the blue eyes that run in the Harney family. Within a few weeks of Emilee being born I got the news that my Dad had died in an accident at his workplace in Wallula. I flew back to Kennewick alone for dad,s funeral and the whole week seemed like a dream that happened in slow motion at the bottom of a swimming pool. I am so thankful that before we had moved to North Carolina I had taken two weeks to travel with my him back to the old ranch where I had grown up in Lost River, Idaho. He had about 160 acres there with a beautiful river flowing through it that had been part of the family homestead. Using his old truck and a beat up horse trailer we hauled 125 hybrid cottonwood trees I had intended to plant on some property I owned out in Badger Canyon to this acreage in Idaho and planted them along the river. I learned things I had never know about dad on that trip and I hold each one in my heart today as treasure that can never be taken away. It pierced me like an arrow when, a couple months after dad was gone, mom told me that the day we had left for North Carolina dad had said that he was sure he would never see me again. Life went on and we bought property in North Carolina and I built a house on it, working eight hours during the day for my employer and then eight or twelve hours at night for two years to complete it. I started working for the City of Greensboro in their water treatment plants, a job I really enjoy. Lisa's Dad retired from the water agency in California where we had worked together and they moved here in 2000. My mom decided she would like a home here where she could come and live part of the year so we helped her buy a doublewide and set it up on a couple acres across the field from our house. In 2003 we sold the house I built and bought a beautiful home on a lake a couple miles away. Then in 2005 I got the news that my mom had died suddenly and unexpectedly in the Tri Cities. The five of us went back for the funeral, our church family giving us the money that made it possible. My brother and sister asked me to administer mom's estate and I agreed. When we got home we were all pretty heart sick about losing her and things just did not seem to get better as the weeks and months went by. In June of 2006 Lisa wanted out of our marriage and separated from me, taking the girls with her. We were divorced in 07 and, as some of you will understand, life just kept happening a day at a time even though it did not seem possible. Now in 2012, my daughter Leslee is married and has two kids, Kellee lives with me and is starting her second year of college and Emilee lives with her mom. I am less than ten years from being able to retire from the City of Greensboro and plan on moving back out west (Idaho) where me and my siblings still have that property where dad and I planted the trees all those years ago. I have not found the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with and am still in no particular hurry to find her--if I have learned anything, it is that being happy with your self is the most important part of a relationship. Building from there, amazing things are possible. Dell
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