Donna Kachler:
CLASS OF 1977

Fair Lawn High SchoolClass of 1977
Fair lawn, NJ
Oxford Hills Technical SchoolClass of 1982
Norway, ME
Mount Ida CollegeClass of 1979
Newton center, MA
Thomas Jefferson Middle SchoolClass of 1974
Fair lawn, NJ
Warren Point Elementary SchoolClass of 1971
Fair lawn, NJ
Donna's Story
Just to explain why I have Oxford Hills School on my list... My mom is originally from Maine & graduated from Norway High School. Sometime after Nursing School in Portland, he married my dad who was from New Jersey, moving there in 1947 and has lived there ever since! My grandparents lived in Norway, Maine while I was growing up so I spent most of my summers with them well into HS when I would visit for a few weeks. With all those years of spending time there, it was like a second home and along with that, my share of friends! Hence, my name on the friends/family list of the years that I had friends in the HS at Oxford Hills!
My grandparents; Herbert & Marjorie Hill, are gone now and my Mom and I don't get up that way every year but when I do, it is nice to see some of the friends and family I still keep in touch with! Last time I was up was July of 2006 and went with one of my brothers, my Mom and my four daughters (John, my husband, stayed home to work) and I sprained my ankle (first time ever) visiting the relatives in the West Paris Cemetery! Didn't get to Maine this past Summer but my brother drove my Mom up for her Annual Reunion at least! My oldest is planning to do her Thesis Film near by so if she has to re-shoot something, it's not far from home. Update~She shot her film; in honor of my Mom, in LBI, CT and Fair Lawn at my childhood home on 31st St and our neighbor's house for the interior! She won a Alumni Memorial Scholarship award which helped reimberse her for what it cost her to make the film!
In addition to that, life is good and busy! I got my AA in Child Study (from Mount Ida) but only taught while persuing a BA (didn't finish~teaching at the time didn't make enough $) and after I had my first 2 out of 4 daughters in a local Nursery School! You can say I utilized my degree bringing up my daughters, being a Girl Scout leader and CCD teacher! I have been a PTA President (3 years at the Middle School) and Chairperson for too many committees to mention! My life right now is having 2 in college(update ~ see below) and 2 in HS, being a PROUD Band Parent, volunteer and since I don't have to be a Catechist this year since my youngest will receive her Confirmation May '09, I help where I can in church. 2 of the older ones are on the Adult team for Antioch, so I am proud of that too!
I will be going across the "Pond" for the first time this Spring with the younger 2 & their HS Marching Band (One is in Color Guard & the other, Percussion) to London and Scotland! All four of the girls have been in the band! The band is Scottish themed & includes some bagpipes (my 2nd oldest played them when she was in it as well as being Drum Major her Senior year)! My oldest will be going to Italy this Summer for a school workshop to meet with Italian Film makers! Update ~ The trip was amazing... REALLY loved London the best... clean and the the people are wonderful! Shrewsbury was great too... small town atomosphere and beautiful! If our dollar was worth more there, I'd go again in a heartbeat! Endinburgh, Scotland wasn't as great as I thought it would be but going to the castle where they have a Military Tattoo every Fall, was worth it! My oldest went to Milan and Rome and with the exception of her luggage coming home on another flight, she had a spiritual experience! She fell in love with Milan and was offered to return to study for her Masters under a Professor there... we'll see! Update~ My oldest graduated college on May 15th at Radio City Music Hall! Looking for work and may go to LA this Fall to work! My 2nd oldest is now home & will be commuting her 3rd year (her choice)in addition to switching her major to English!
Besides being a MOM... that is my full time job, I have been lucky not to have to work more than a part time job since I have had the girls. You can say I am a Jill of all trades! It's mad money for me and my latest job is going on 2 years now working perdiem for a local car dealer (paid for my trip plus spending money)! It's perfect for me right now! Update~Just went on 3 years!
Had thyroid cancer surgery in Spring of 2001. Doing great but have to have full body scans every 2 years to be sure! Just a reminder that it could always be worse! Can only go forward! One of my favorite quotes is ~ "Everything happens for a reason" and I am humble about my cancer when there are others that have to deal with more.
I live only about a 1/2 hour from Fair Lawn and shop often in the Paramus area! Growing up only 5 minutes from the Mall spoils you! Now I have to plan my shopping trips but am used to it! Living in West Milford now for 24 plus years, you have to sacrifice the convenience of the Malls for the appreciation of the Countryside! Even though I live in the center area of our...Expand for more
90 square mile town, my neighborhood reminds me of FL. It's a 3 street developement and my street only has 8 houses on it! Bought this house in 1992 and found out right before we moved in from a 2 bedroom house in another section of the township, that we were expecting our 4th! Good timing really! It was a real fixer upper but with John being a Carpenter by trade, we knew it was for us! Now we are down to redoing the kitchen and then everything will have been done on the house! This includes a new well and septic when we first moved in!!! Update~ Kitchen is done and love it!
I still love going to concerts and most of the time it's with one or some of my girls! Brought them all at an early age! The last concert as a family, I brought everyone this past December to see TSO(Trans Siberian Orchestra) ~ They are fantastic! This was mine & my 2nd oldest's 2nd time but we wanted everyone to go! Each year they perform at Christmas time around the world. Every performance, there is a surprise guest and the 1st time we went it was Greg Lake from ELP-awesome! This year('07) it was priceless to see my husband's face when the founder of the group announced ROGER DALTREY! We want to go every year now! The main theme of the concert is Christmas but the basis is Rock music so if you ever get an opportunity, don't pass it up! With the 100's of concerts I have been to, this is one I will treasure the most! My most recent concert that I just went on March 16th with my 2nd oldest and her friend to Radio City Music Hall in NYC, was Celtic Woman ~ one extreme to the other (I have taught my kids to appreciate all different types of music). This group is about 3 years old from Ireland! Look them up on the web too!
Brought one of my youngest daughters to see Celine Dion September 10th... front row in our section...priceless when Celine looked right at her and smiled! Then on the 26th, went with my older 2 to Radio City to see Alanis Morrisette... that was fantstatic! Next, the 3 of us will be seeing Daniel Radcliffe in Equus the end of October! That should be interesting!~IT WAS! Got seats almost too close for comfort!~Update ~ That should be interesting!~Seriously, very good play; I even cried towards the end!Went to TSO for the 3rd time this past December '08; 10th row seats & Steven Tyler from my favorite all time band~Aerosmith was guest singer!!! June 10th,2009 just a few weeks away; I'm celebrating an early 50th w/ one of my closest and longtime friend Linda who is 3 days older than me...we're seeing Steve Winwood & Eric Clapton! ~ It Was AWESOME!!!
So, any of you that knew me long ago, could say I have turned out OK. Those that have only known me in my adult years, think that I am the type of person that "does the right thing" and can be alittle prudish but that's because I lived those days and learned from them aquiring some common sense along the way! I do have regrets but since you can't change time, I consider them stepping stones in my life of experiences to be a sensible parent! Communication is so important these days and I am thankful to have that with my kids!
I do have a deep faith but can be open minded depending on the issue. I have been truly blessed with good kids and wonder how my Mom put up with me! She taught me along with my stepdad (the father I never knew because my biological father passed away when I was an infant) those lifeskills that I didn't know until being a Mom, that really impacted my life to know better and create those values and importance of family!
We live in the town my husband grew up in and my in-laws are close by (blessed with them too) as well as my Mom who moved into a Mature Living Community here, about 7 years now! Lost my stepdad 16 years ago. She still gets to FL each week for church as well as visiting friends and one of my stepbrothers! My other 3 brothers live in Wyckoff, Blairstown & Manahawkin/Ft Myers,Fl... we do get to see each other a few times a year! My children are 4 of 10 on my side (the youngest of them) and 4 of 20 on John's side (the oldest with John's sister's 4 ~ ranging from almost newborn to 22)!
Went to my 30th reunion October of '07 ~ not a full crowd but nice to talk to a lot of alumni! Had a great time! See the pictures in my album!
Hope to get to Mount Ida's annual reunion next year for my 30th from there!~ Didn't go. Went to Salem in February for my daughter's Indoor Color Guard Competition! Had fun there too shopping in Boston and Quincy Market! Went for the 2nd time this year-'09 & they won 1st in their division!
Will try to keep in touch if anyone wants to email me through Classmates! Not the best at gettting back right away but eventually I will! Take care to all who have read this and I wish you the best!
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