Frederick Zelick:
CLASS OF 1987

Maloney High SchoolClass of 1987
Meriden, CT
Eastern Connecticut State UniversityClass of 1991
Willimantic, CT
Thames Valley State Technical CollegeClass of 1989
Norwich, CT
Saint Stanislaus SchoolClass of 1983
Meriden, CT
Nathan Hale Elementary SchoolClass of 1980
Meriden, CT
Frederick's Story
My formal education started at the YWCA Nursery School in Meriden, CT (some of my classmates were Tracy P., Sandy S., and Lisa K.).
Then I attended Nathan Hale Elementary School for kindergarten.
Shout out to my old friends from those days (David F., Diana B., Amy Z., Lisa M., Sammy C.-RIP, Tim F., Lisa V.).
My Aunt Josephine-RIP babysat me for 6 or 7 years. Lots of fun at the Meetinghouse Village pool.
Special shout out to Sandy, Sharon, and Peter H..
Then I made the move to St. Stanislaus School for 1st through 8th grade. I still laugh when I think about The Highwayman poem and Amelia Bedelia.
Favorite teachers: Miss Hollman, Mrs. Danowitz, and Mrs. Finegan.
Shout out to the St. Stan's folks (Alan Z., Corey H., Joey O., Jose E.-RIP, Carolyn B., Judy Z., Billy A., Dan S., Jennifer M., Marty L., Gary P., Patty P., Aimee C., Janet O., Christina B., Debbie S., Christian K., Lisa M., Steve R., Dana K., Kevin C., Joanne C., Jennifer B., Karen R., Christine C., Jason L., Craig N.).
I started bowling in a league in 1980 and met a lot of people there over the years.
Shout out to Steve C., Dave C., Matt C., Tracy and Tom P..
I passed the test for Xavier but we didn't have the money so I went to Francis T. Maloney High. Maloney turned out to be a lot of fun, especially senior year. My grades suffered a little that year but I became a more well-rounded person. I loved going to the Maloney basketball games. Sometimes I even watched the game (Wayne and Jeff you know what I mean). Lisa and Jane: thanks for the hair massages in computer class. Jeff and Ray: I had a lot of fun making the Weekly World News videos. The senior outing was lots of fun with those marathon volleyball games. Art: I know you're still doing it. You know what I mean. Jeff: thanks for the Fredmobile mix tapes.
Favorite teachers: Mr. Wallenius, Mr Fitzgerald, Mr. Granucci, Mr. Hackbarth, Mr. Hewitt, Miss Mroczka, Mr. Novicki, Mr. Petrolito, Mr. Pulino, Mr. Wisneski
Shout out to the Maloney crowd (Theresa A., Vicky B., Don B., Bill B., Steve D., Ray D., Brendan F., Jane F., Sue F., Wayne H., Jim K., Brian K., Rob K., Dave L., Ryan L., Dan M., Clint M., Danny O.-RIP, Rob P., Danielle R., Dave R., Mark S., Rob S., Stephanie S., Art T., Debbie V., Paula W., Jackie W. Renay W., Jeff Y., Bonnie Z., Pete K., Lisa K., Angelique C., Bethany W., Robin K., Pam R., Becky K., Kim G.).
I started bowling in Junior Bowlers Tour (JBT) tournaments around this time. I met so many people all along the east coast and had tons of fun. I even won a couple of tournaments. Bowling in the Hamden scratch league and also bowing in all of those Fruit Salad Open tournaments was fun.
Shout out to Willie S., Pete T., Eric and Jeff V., Matt and Chris V., Chris and Steve M., Rob O., Chris D., Jim F., Tony P., Bill M., Rob and Al V., Jim M., Mark and Matt M., Dennis R., Michael R., Marco S., Dave N., Michael M., Tim M., Chad and Hank Z., Chuck P., Mark F., Vin M., Darren F, Scott T., Joe T., Jonathan C., Mark T., Mike M., Chris P..
RIP Michael S.
I got a scholarship to go to Thames Valley State Technical College in Norwich to study Nuclear Engineering where I got an Associate's Degree.
I loved getting in Tom's Fiero and booking to the Crystal Mall for lunch. I also had fun at the pig roasts and hanging out at Harkness Park. Ping pong was a blast too.
Favorite teacher: Prof. Sherrard
Shout out to the Thames Valley gang (my roomie Glen G., Bob B., Tom N., Brian W., Julie T., Anne R.).
I then switched majors to Computer Science and went to Eastern CT State University in Willimantic for two years and got a Bachelor's Degree.
Had fun hangin' out with the CS gang (3-liter wine coolers, what were we thinking). The all-nighters in the computer room were "interesting".
Favorite teachers: Prof. Kenton and Prof. Sharlow
Shout out to the ECSU crew (Marcel G., Jennifer V., Rider J., John S., Linda R., Kristina P.).
After college, I got my first post-college "real" job in 1992 at the FDIC in East Hartford. I had fun and learned a lot. Thanks to Ron H.-RIP for taking a chance on a raw kid by hiring me. Andy and Justin: I always look forward to the Big E trips every year.
Shout out to Justin O., Andy L., Ron S., Pat L..
I enjoyed all of the bike rides with Jeff. Research Parkway here we come!
I had a dog (Tuffy, a lhasa apso) from when I was 10 to 23 years old. He was the brother I never had. When he died, it was the first time I ever cried over a death.
After staying at the FDIC for almost 3 years, I went to IGC Advanced Superconductors in Waterbury. I got to have my own office and ran MIS. I stayed there for 2 years.
Shout out to John V., Judy W., Joe B., Kara V..
We started going to ABC Nationals in 1995 and several times after that. Each one was a great time.
It was about this time (1996) that I met my present girlfriend, Becky. We have been together ever since. Sometimes it is hard for me to remember what it was like without her as a part of my life. I am a lucky person. I see life through a veil of my love for her.
I then worked for Cuno in Meriden for a year in IT.
Shout out to George B., Alan A., Dan L..
In 1997, I started working for MTM (a computer consulting company). They had me onsite at one of their clients (Webster Bank in Bristol, then New Britain) in the Network Services group. We had good bunch of guys that stuck together. I eventually got switched from working for MTM to working for FIS but I had the same job.
I moved out of the house in 1998 and bought a townhouse condo.
In the late ‘90s / early ‘00s, Willie S. and I went on several amusement park trips around the country to ride all of the best rollercoasters...lots of fun.
I had a blast watching wrestling PPVs with Eric V. and Gary H.-RIP. Then I started the weekly Saturd...Expand for more
ay night ritual of going out to dinner with Jeff Y. and Gary and then watching boxing with Gary afterwards. Good times!
I also enjoyed going to the Saratoga horse race track every summer with Mike M.-RIP and my brother-in-law Todd F..
I stopped bowling in 2006 because of various injuries (back, knee, wrist). I had 26 1/2 great years and a lot of fun times to look back on, though. We won our league the last season so I went out on top.
So that brings me to the present (9/2008...not really the present...see below).
Wait!!! 2011 update!!! - A little grayer, but still doing great!
Wait again!!! I’m still going strong in 2022 (yup, with more gray hair). Yeah, it’s been 11 years since I did an update. A lot has happened (some good, some bad) so here goes.
I’m still with Becky. We have been together for over 25 years now and I trust her more than anyone. We also share mostly the same morals/values. The trust and the shared values are the two most important things in a relationship, in my opinion. She still hasn’t put the ring on my finger, though. So, we also have never lived together. I guess I’m old-fashioned in that way. We might have the record for “going steady”. I don’t have any kids. The good: no college bills and I’ll be able to retire sooner and no disappointments in how a child turns out. However, also, no chance to hide presents under the tree on Xmas Eve or put Tooth Fairy money under the pillow for a lost tooth or see my little girl in her first dance recital or my little boy hit his first home run.
I had what you might call my first mid-life crisis in 2013 when I thought that I was going to lose my job. I actually fell into a depression for a few weeks but I got out of it by taking long walks and talking to my family and Becky. I never felt anything like that before. Now, I have a lot more empathy for people that have depression issues. Luckily, mine was short-lived.
The biggest loss I’ve had is my Uncle John dying in 2016. He was my godfather and the nicest man I ever met. I didn’t feel the loss right away. It hit me when I was sitting there at the wake when the priest was saying the prayer. It was like a cloud of sadness settled over me. Then, later on, after the funeral at the grave site, they released a dove into the air. That took away my sadness and now I remember all of the good times.
My mother had some health issues and had to move back up from Florida in 2017. My sisters and I are taking turns helping her out with stuff. She is 84 and still lives alone so we are thankful.
My father is 90 now and had to move to assisted living in 2018 and then to a nursing home in 2021. He is still as spunky as ever but it is sad to see my parents slowing down like they have. That is why I try to stay in decent shape so I can give myself the best chance to have a good quality of life when I am around their age.
Speaking of my health, I had the Big C scare in 2018-19 but I got through the chemo and surgery and I am doing well. That was my first (and I hope last) big health scare. In the early days of first getting the bad news and starting the treatment, there were many mornings when I would get up and pray to God that he would let me fall back asleep because reality was too scary. I got through it, though, and I am now much stronger mentally/emotionally. Many thanks to my oncologist and surgeon and all of their staff.
Oh, yeah...then there was a pandemic. The Coronavirus has thrown us all for a loop but now that it is winding down, things are starting to return to normal. I had my health scare just before the COVID pandemic so I think that helped me have the strength to cope with this tough time in all of our lives. I hope all of you out there are well.
I'm lovin' life and wish the same for all of you. I still try to smile and laugh and joke as much as I can. Although, my girlfriend shakes her head when I bring out the bad puns.
The biggest surprise I've gotten over the years is that you really do grow and learn and become wiser as you get older. Certain things just seem to "click" in your mind and you begin to "get it". Some advice: don't take any day for granted and don't be afraid to pray for help if you need it. Always remember and smile about the good times and learn from the bad times. Reach out to your family and friends (even if you haven’t seen them in a while). We all have things that are different about each of us but we all have so much in common (the same hopes, fears, etc.). Try to find that common ground.
Well, I think I’ve rambled on long enough. I haven’t seen some of you in decades and I’m not somebody who dwells on the past very often. However, I do have occasional thoughts of everyone that I have mentioned here (and some I have forgotten to mention). A lot of you have touched my life in some way and I thank you. Lots of memories so far and I hope a lot more to come. Take care.
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Some of my Favorites:
Favorite Movies:
Grease, Star Trek II, Rocky 2, The Wizard of Oz
Favorite TV Shows (all-time):
Star Trek, MASH, Barney Miller
Favorite TV Shows (2023):
Cobra Kai, Whose Line is it Anyway?, The Mandalorian
Favorite musicians:
Linda Ronstadt, ABBA, Neil Diamond, Expose, Olivia Newton-John, Fleetwood Mac, Gloria Estefan, The Bangles, Cyndi Lauper, Alison Krauss, Natalie Merchant
Favorite Songs:
Goodbye Yellow Brick Road (Elton John), Point of No Return (Expose), Throwing It All Away (Genesis), Heart and Soul (T’Pau), Don’t Wanna Lose You (Gloria Estefan), I Can’t Wait (Nu Shooz), Right on Track (Breakfast Club), Glory Days (Bruce Springsteen), Summer Fever (Little Big Town)
My nicknames over the years: Freddie Bear, Zelnick, Zelnod, Zelclod, Frednod, Fred-D-Boy, Conan the Librarian, Fast Fred.
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