Jan Murphy:  

CLASS OF 1969
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Tulsa, OK
Tulsa, OK
Englewood, CO
Tulsa, OK
Englewood, CO

Jan's Story

I graduated in the bottom quarter of my class in high school and was voted most likely to not succeed in the humor newspaper that came out at the end of the school year. I spent part of a semester at OU and then went to Houston where I became an airline stewardess before they fired me for being late. After being fired from various other jobs, I went to nursing school at a junior college. I completed school and got married the same year, 1973. I was married to Phil Stobaugh's older brother. Phil was Memorial HS class of '69. Complete coincidence, I met his brother in Houston. Phil and his wife now live in Texas, they have two grown children. I spent the next seven years having two children and working in Labor & Delivery and teaching prepared childbirth. I then got a divorce, I had two small children, 4 and 7 at the time. I returned to school to get my bachelor's degree in anthropology. I know, everybody said at the time, "what are you going to do with a degree in anthropolgy?" So I went to law school and found my true calling: talking, arguing and showing off. I won first place in the Mock Trial contest, represented the school, U of Houston, on the Moot Court team, and was elected to the Order of the Barristers and Who's Who in Law Schools. I married my current husband the same year I graduated, 1987, and moved to Dallas. I practiced trial law very successfully and then after three years I had a major stroke which was caused by a congenital defect in the blood vessels of my brain. At first, I was very disabled, unable to speak, walk or even sit up with out help. I was paralyzed on my right side. But with intense therapy and rehab all day every day for seven months, I was able to walk with a walker, write slowly and speak with slurred speech. I have also had a complete personality change, going from a killer, go-for the throat, Rambo litigator to someone who feeds the poor, shelters the homeless and battered women. My husband and I had a safe house where we had 150 battered women and their children stay with us over 6 years. We received several awards for this. I did pro bono legal work while still in Texas and visited new stroke patients in the hos...Expand for more
pital. We moved in June 1998 so my husband, Bill, could take a job as the associate dean at a school of dentistry. We had foster teenagers and their children as well as homeless women and children living in our home. I had another stroke in December. This time insurance wouldn't pay for the type rehab I needed (that is a whole other story, insurance companies don't pay for jack anymore) and so I am in a wheelchair, paralyzed on the right unable to write or do much of anything. We had to discontinue having people live in our home because I needed around the clock care. We volunteered at a meal program for the underemployed and homeless (soup kitchen). I loved this. All I did was sit and greet people and shake their hands. This was so important because no one wants to touch homeless people or the disabled I am not sure who benefited more from this, them or me. It was so noisy that people did not know I had slurred speech. I truly loved doing this. But Bill's job did not work out so we moved. He missed student contact and I required so much time, it was difficult to do his job and take care of me. We are living in a city in the midwest, since 2002, which is a lot like Tulsa (boring). My husband is acting chairman of oral biology at a university dental school. But more importantly he is teaching again. He is not a dentist, he has a PhD in anthroplogy. My children, Matthew 33 and Stephanie 30 are living in Texas. Stephanie had her first baby, Oilivia, and my first grandchild in July 24, 2008. Matt is a budding actor. Matt shares the July 24 birthdate with his new little niece. I have been a national stroke spokesperson. Maybe you saw me in my public service announcements that ran on national television a few years back. I received an award from the American Heart (and Stroke) Association, for Public Advocacy. Volunteer organizations give awards in lieu of pay! I have been dealing with various medical issues the last year and am extremely bored. But I have recently began using more holistic meds, with surprisingly good results. I type with one finger (I am dictating this). I have been unable to do any volunteer work. So I would love to hear from anyone.
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Jamie and me
Me in 2004
undergraduate graduation 1985
Law School Graduation
Nursing School 1972
New York City-1982
Hospital-Dec 1998
My Wedding 1987 to Bill Babler
1st stroke '91-about 6 week into intense rehab
2nd stroke with son Matt
Milwaukee 1998-with foster child
jan 7-08
Jan & Abbie
my daughter & 1st grandchild (a girl)
40th birthday in rehab (stroke, not drug)
Mother & Child
Baby Oiliva
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Olivia
Olivia's 1st Easter
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