John Ely:
CLASS OF 1967

Fairmont East High School (1965-1983)Class of 1967
Kettering, OH
Wright State UniversityClass of 1975
Dayton, OH
Ohio State UniversityClass of 1971
Columbus, OH
Indian Riffle Junior High SchoolClass of 1964
Kettering, OH
Oakview Elementary SchoolClass of 1960
Kettering, OH
John's Story
Life
Greetings from hell (or, more accurately, Tucson, AZ -- in summer, the two are essentially identical). I trust Kettering still exists; I haven't been there for about thirty years, and probably never will be there again.
My life, of late, has been reminiscent of a line from the tune "Truckin'" by the Grateful Dead: "Lately it occurs to me what a long, strange trip it's been." For those who don't know my history, I staggered my way thru undergrad in psychology at Ohio State, briefly worked at Wright-Patt, then started grad school in counseling at Wright State, kept on going and, in 1980, completed my PhD at Marquette University in cold-as-a-witch Milwaukee. I played around with administration and management for about ten years, then moved to Arizona and got my first clinical position, as an ER crisis evaluator in an urban hospital. I've been in love with high-intensity clinical work ever since. A few years ago, I got tired of working emergency rooms at nights and never seeing my family, broke a promise to myself and, after many years away from it, went back into management: I was a clinical supervisor for a small rural community outpatient clinic, then for a large urban one. I bailed out of administrative management for keeps a couple of years ago (I got tired of babysitting the little dysfunctional family others called my staff), and now serve as a working therapist in a large and very busy community clinic, continuing to moonlight in an ER on weekends. I like 12-Step (I am, myself, an Al-Anon), NLP, Ericksonian hypnosis, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy and serenity-based recovery models. I teach DSM diagnostics and, on occasion, get to torment some interns.
I am widowed; Sharon passed from this world in early 2007, shortly after we celebrated our 1...Expand for more
9th anniversary. I've had no kids of my own but two stepkids; Michael died of muscular dystrophy a few years ago, but Amanda is still alive, well, and the mother of the two most precious beings God ever created: my granddaughters Brooklyn, presently 6 years old and a total imp. and Summer, soon approaching the Terrible Twos . Their favorite pastimes are tormenting my dog, trashing my living quarters, stealing anything they can get their little hands on and driving me crazy. I love them to the bottom of my soul.
Music? Trumpet no (I lost a few teeth and my embrochure cratered); guitar very much yes, though rarely in public (my last gig was with two absolutely wonderful Mejicano musicians at El Paraiso Cantina y Mercado in Las Algodones, Baja California, Mexico about twelve years ago). I'm too busy to perform right now, but I still compose and I'm still chipping away at a home-brew CD and, currently, composing a neo-gothic musical background to the Prologue to Beowulf (in Old English: "Hwaet! We gardena in geardegum..."). You see me in my profile photo with my lover, Ms Lucy (an Epiphone ES-355, as close to BB King's Lucille as my wallet will allow).
I don't think many of you would recognize me physically - I weigh about 160, sadly all gut and butt. I am radically civilly Libertarian; while Christian, I believe a great deal of wisdom is expressed in the last nine words of the Wiccan Rede ("An no harm be done, do as ye will."). Liife goes on -- bra-la-la how the life goes on. I work 60 hours a week, sleep sporadically and live on coffee and occasional food. Contrary to appearances, I'm not dead yet. I cite Nietzsche: "Anything that doesn't kill me makes me stronger." My late wife used to refer to me as "one sick mother****er." She was probably right.
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