Joseph Henderson:
CLASS OF 1978
Pennridge High SchoolClass of 1978
Perkasie, PA
Joseph's Story
Some of you may recall that my dad owned a machine shop in the area. I worked there during my high school years for pocket money. I studied electronics on my own time in preparation for formal training after highschool was over. I registered in advance for that while still in highschool. Between school, work, my home chores and my self imposed study habit, I had little time for socializing and after school activities. Additionally, I struggled with hayfever and onset asthma, which almost killed me twice! Between my activities and illness treatment, I was a pretty dull boy socially. For that, I apologize to my classmates. The medications available at the time rendered me listless and dull of mind. If I didn't take them. I was miserable with sneezing, watery eyes and runny nose most of the time. The winter snows were my only real relief. I went on to graduate from Pennco Technical Institute in August of 1979. I maintained my independent technical studies in addition throughout that period. My one regret is that I didn't pursue a course of study in business administration. Because, on my own decision, I chose to go straight into business right after graduating. It was all work. Practically no play and absolutely no time for women or socializing, which is why I never married or settled down. It took a heart attack in 2014, while attending a class at a local community college to evoke a change in my personality. I realized I wasted a substantial part of my life not preparing for the things that really matter in life. A wife and family. The discipline I imposed on myself to succeed financially blinded me to that fact. After the heart attack, my body changed physically. My mental faculties also changed. I had a different perspective on life. I bounced back some after a couple of years but never regained the focus I had before the attack. Ten years later, I had another heart attack. This time while returning home ...Expand for more
from a daily walk. I didn't suffer to the point of unconsciousness. Just a sharp persistent pain in my left arm and shoulder. I have a total of five stents in my body. I'm stabil but I can't stand much stress anymore. Which is the exact opposite of what I was before the first heart attack. I'm approaching my 65th birthday in June. This is not where I expected to be at this stage of life. Fortunately, my house is paid for and I am able to maintain myself. I have often thought back over my life and wondered what would be different now had I pursued family life ahead of career. The doctors said my condition is genetic in nature and no amount of clean living or exercise would have substantially changed my outcome. Perhaps. Otherwise, I am healthy for a man if my years. I eat pretty much what I want in moderation, of course. I watch the salt and sweets, which is getting harder and harder to do with the foods available these days. In an earlier message, I asked you all to forgive me for not interacting more with you. Alienating myself from you. Part of that had to do with my goals of financial independence at the time. I figured if I can't own my home and be able to afford to pay my way through life, having a family would only be counterintuitive. But there were many factors I hadn't considered at that time. And my parents preferred to allow me to be self guiding rather than interfer with my reasoning. That was a mistake on their part. I also lacked perspective that I could have gotten from all of you. It's easy to look back on your life as an adult and see the mistakes of your youth. I find that I look at things very differently as an adult than I did back then. I'm sure you all discovered the same thing as you took in the responsibilities of family and adulthood. I may revise and add to this as I reflect over the coming years. Sort of an open diary of my life for you, my friends. That's all for now. God bless.
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