Kathy Jeffrey:
CLASS OF 1973

Cudahy High SchoolClass of 1973
Cudahy, WI
Platteville High SchoolClass of 1973
Platteville, WI
General Mitchell Elementary SchoolClass of 1973
Cudahy, WI
Cuba City High SchoolClass of 1973
Cuba city, WI
Park View Elementary SchoolClass of 1966
Cudahy, WI
Kathy's Story
Life
Although I planned on being a high school art teacher, life has led me in a different direction. Until I retired, I owned my own landscape business. Now I volunteer for several veteran organizations and continue learning.
I managed to graduate from college in 9 years of serious traveling to Europe, education, rock-n-roll, and learning about myself as much as about botany. After learning about trees I ended up dressed like one in the Marines.
I don't use much of my college education, but almost all of my Marine education; i.e., being responsible, diligent, trustworthy, ethical, detail-oriented, willing to take the time and do what is necessary to get the job done and do it right. My time in the Corps was instrumental in getting to where I am now.
I find this to be a great time in my life. I have a husband who is my best friend, a home that is comfortable and friends that make the day go fast. I enjoy my garden (though I have a tendency to redesign it often), a mid-century modern house (that is always undergoing some sort of renovation), and new skills to learn such as woodworking, stained glass, and computer graphics.
I have traveled the world and now I am content to be where I am. The Lord has watched over me and I survived bombings, typhoons, motorcycle accidents, and other insanities so I know what ever he had planned for me, he kept me safe to accomplish it.
With a life-threatening illness acquired during Desert Storm, He has given me peace and surrounded me with love.
I still believe there is much for me to learn and to do. I know that whatever it is, I will have the tools provided. There are more chapters to my life. What they will be is something I am looking forward to.
School
A school a year, that's all I ask.
I'm getting to the point that I can't remember every school or every year. I remember there was Riley, Mound, Whitman, Parkview, General Mitchell, Cudahy Junior, Cudahy Senior, Cuba City High School, Platteville High School, UW Platteville, Madision Area Technical College, UW Madison, Metro State, Red Rocks Community College. There were others, but it's really not important.
Needless to say, now that I'm older I just take classes for fun. The grade isn't the thing, having fun learning and learning stuff I want to (even if it isn't easy) is the way to go.
I was thisclose to a certificate in fine woodworking but didn't want to take the last class because I had no interest in it. I have taken classes in Spanish, French, Japanese, stained glass, various gardening topics, interpretation for park rangers and the like, accounting, law, management, computer graphics, photography, writing, weapons firing, and forestry.
While some were related to my career, others were so I could volunteer with community agencies. I was a state university cooperative extension master gardener, a community forester, a certified professional secretary, a environmental educator, and a water education professional. I mentored at-risk young adults, built homes for Habitat, organized river cleanups and taken kids on mission trips. All my schooling has helped me progress and continue to grow and share with others. I'm not done yet!
College
I started college right out of high school (eleven days to be exact). This was a mistake. But I was coming from a foster home and they didn't know what to do with you if you graduated from high school and weren't 18. So I went for the summer and fall semester at UW Platteville before I dropped out for several years.
I traveled, worked in restaurants and bars before I went back and eased in to the whole academic thing at the Madision Area Technical College. Older, I was more focused than my classmates and then when I became burned out I forced myself to finish at UW Madison so that I could move on to the next stage in life. Funny, when you have to pay for it yourself you are much more determined to get the biggest bang for your buck.
I wish there would have been much more discussion and realism as to what you could actually do with your major. I think there would be more employment-centered studies if that was the case. I never used my major for almost 6 years after college.
I use it now, but only as a sidebar to my other training.
Workplace
As the owner of a landscape design, consult, install & maintena...Expand for more
nce company, I found out I worked myself harder that when I worked for others. What are weekends? But I loved it. I had more energy, fun, and brain activity.
In 2006, I took the big step and left the "golden handcuffs" of my regular job since I was getting more and more busier at my company.
I agree with Barbara Sher that the second half of your life is better. Taking the giant step and working landscape full time at age 50 would qualify. I worked with residential clients that have the same enthusiasm and love for their gardens that I have for mine. It's not about the money, but about the process and the creation of something beautiful.
This was a chance to use all my talents and gifts to help others. I'm was not going for the big fortune, just enough to get by and have time to spend on what's really important (family, grandbabies, etc). I should have probably charged more, but I have the heart for those who want a beautiful, useful landscape and may not have the financial means to do it large and all at once.
Military
My father was a Marine, my uncle was a Marine, my brother was a Marine. Did I have a choice?
Sure, some say "I could have been a Marine." But, very few, if any Marines have entertained the idea of "I could have been ______." Once you have been the best, there's no questions.
I loved my time in the Marines. Sure, being a woman set me up for some trying times, but growing up in a big family with lots of brothers made it pretty easy. You not only had to do your best, but never let them see you falter. Only fam-fired a weapon in basic? Bluff your way onto the firing line and then practice every afternoon to qualify. Never rappelled before? Figure they won't want to pay the life insurance and listen very carefully to the instructions (harnesses are not a "fashion" statement).
I got to ride in helicopters, arm rockets, do land navigation at night, compete in close-order drill, climb up on howitzers to take photos, rappel, fire weapons, get in the best shape of my life, and do things I never believed I could. It was like Outward Bound but someone else paid and I got good benefits while doing it.
My favorite times were in my schools (When I was in, we were allowed to live like college students with very little oversight on other service's installations) and in Okinawa. I can't believe the military paid me to write stories on Japanese culture, traditions, and way of life. Of course I also wrote on aviation, support groups and the occasional infantry group (many didn't allow women).
I developed a reputation for good journalism and good photography, winning three DOD awards. I had generals who recognized me and stopped to give me rides on base. I had units that posted my columns in their barracks and who called me to cover stories requested by HQMC. I interviewed servicemen and women who helped build the bridge over the River Kwai, who nursed the injured on Iwo Jima, who were POWs in Korea and Vietnam, and who served with my dad (who was officially listed as MIA until 2001).
If they would have let women Marines get to do more, I would have stayed. As is, I got out and ended up in Colorado where the only military agency with a unit for me was the Army Guard. It turned out I was the only one in the unit who had actually gone to the joint military journalism school. I served in Desert Storm and turned in my uniforms after we were shipped to Panama for training the following year.
Would I do it over again? You bet.
Today in 2019, I am retired but busier than ever. Haven't we all heard that one? I was the public relations chair for the State of Arkansas Department of the American Legion for almost two years. I am still a member of the American Legion, the judge advocate for the local Marine Corps League detachment, a representative on the Northwest Arkansas Veterans Coalition Board, a volunteer for the library's second-hand bookstore and the gardener for the library's outdoor areas.
We move to Arkansas in 2016 to escape the reefer madness that is Denver, Colorado. Our neighborhood had seen increased crime and traffic and the stupidity of the increased drivers made every venture on the streets too stressful. I've gone back to pick up the grand girls for vacation at our house but I would never move back. Two days in the area is as much as I can take.
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