Kendrick Olson:
CLASS OF 1981

John Marshall High SchoolClass of 1981
Rochester, MN
Mayo High SchoolClass of 1981
Rochester, MN
Union-Endicott High SchoolClass of 1981
Endicott, NY
Kendrick's Story
Martha
My mom gave me space to fly.
When I was a sturdy little boy of three and four my mom would take me to the grocery store in Tennessee where she would fasten my cape around my shoulders.
I would test the drape and flow of the cape with the whisk of my fingertips, and then I would take off running down the aisles, stopping at the ends with arms akimbo.
I imagine I was looking for souls in distress—in readiness to rescue and protect.
At the memorial service for my mom this past week the leitmotif of the music and hymns, and the readings and the speeches (from son and daughter and granddaughter and chaplain), focused on this image of a graceful and loving and beautiful bird taking flight and soaring through the skies.
Months and months in anticipation of our family having a memorial service, with thoughts even a few days before it was scheduled that it might suddenly be postponed again, I had rehearsed divers remembrances in stories and anecdotes—even summoning the wisdom of my favorite writer Samuel Beckett with the possibility of reading a passage of his work—and what I finally came up with was a concise story (the just of it here rendered) to be followed by an impassioned readin...Expand for more
g of the lyrics of a favorite song (and it will follow this).
I did not give my speech during the service, and this was a relief to my senses, because each time I had attempted the speech in practice my eyes would well up with tears, my voice would quaver, my vocal cords would seize up, and I feared that I would wail the most excruciating cry of sorrow and loss.
Thank you so much to my sister Kirstin who noticed my dilemma and allowed an intimate (less public) moment to share this with her.
And now I share it with you.
Kendrick
FLY
Please give me a second grace
Please give me a second face
I’ve fallen far down the first time around
Now I just sit on the ground in your way
Now if it’s time for recompense for what’s done
Come, come sit down on the fence in the sun
And the clouds will roll by
And we’ll never deny
It’s really too hard
For to fly
Please tell me your second name
Please play me your second game
I’ve fallen so far
For the people you are
I just need your star for a day
So come, come ride in my street-car by the bay
For now I must know how fine you are in your way
And the sea sure as I
But she won’t need to cry
For it’s really too hard
For to fly
(by Nick Drake)
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