Kurt Gorham:  

CLASS OF 1977
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Morehead, KY
Howell High SchoolClass of 1978
Howell, MI

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Once a Highlander, Always a Highlander My fondest high school memories were in two locations, First as a Howell Highlander in the lower peninsula of Michigan in the Fall of 1974, a Freshman working mornings at the Diamond Dot Market, on a two lane M59 stocking groceries, filling beverage coolers, and making sure the Dairy counter was full of Country Fresh milk gallons.. Pepsi was the best cold selling soda. The "Cheap" plastic bottles and aluminum can revolution were replacing labor intensive "Glass" returnables..The block building at 333 E Highland was removed a longtime ago, all that remains is a grass lot, and one pole yard light, covered in vines. .Does make one wonder how many thousands of cars pass each day? For those old enough you may remember the free chicken BBQ cookouts done each Fourth of July, all in the name of Customer Appreciation, over a cinder block pit in front of Joe Harris' white home. Over 800 cases were prepared beforehand into quarters, kept iced until bar-b-qued on the pit. Our ads always took four pages in the Livingston County Press, call us 5-4-6-0-8-3-0 our signature footer.. The daily morning news spots sponsored on WHMI, always listening, while the morning brew of coffee, an aroma that filled the store, the Hole-n-One donuts made fresh daily with a variety of glazings..Who could forget the nickel candy bar rack, eight varieties of caramel, chocolate, peanuts, or a crunch We also had the penny candy at each register to round up your sale, your sweet tooth was covered with Jolly Ranchers watermelon hard candy, tootsie rolls,.taffy twists, five cent Mallo cups, or individually wrapped Double Bubble gum. My weekday afternoons spent in class, with occasional struggles of learning, adapting to a new social hierarchy called high school, the joy from a great joke, working along side fellow Freshman and Sophomore classmates, the student population bulging at the seams in Howell High, seemed like over 3000 young adults, upper class mates had the morning shift from 7am-noon. The essays in English, writing technical descriptive's, shooting for the 1500 word counts. A class project in Geography, a visual report on Tennessee, little did I know 25 years before hand, I would make my home there. There were the Pep rallies in the gym,the stand filled with jubilant students, the roar of the cheers. Outside the vivid yellows, the reds, those Autumn colors, yards of fallen Maple leaves, Friday night football games, the dances in the gym, and quality time spent with Ann S, her yellow Schwinn, and golden blonde hair.. The humor of her best friend Reese with long wavy blonde hair,, always sporting an Army jacket. The rides in late September on my ten-speed Motobecane to and from school, some late mornings extremely crisp air, the five miles and back streets away from automotive traffic on Grand River Avenue, Soon the weather changed, Indian summer was gone, gray, cloudy days were more frequent, and rain showers typical Michigan weather, and back to riding the big yellow buses. The school day went from noon to 530pm:. History, Algebra, Art (paint, or drawing), and Physical Science, an semester project of experimentation, determine the ingredients in the magical, dark solution with many small, decisive experiments. My fall semester days always finished in Wood shop with Mr Foxworthy, a native West Virginian, my hand built projects included a turned wooden lamp, rifle rack, and a wooden cassette tape case. I still love wood projects to this day, many of which were in my last home in Nashville, with custom wood casement trims for windows, and inlaid hardwood floors. A Viking Quest In February of 1975, the Diamond Dot Market was sold just two months before, the family moved many miles south to Rowen County Kentucky, A day with dreary gray skies, a light snow shower, a sad day inside my heart, everything I ever knew left behind. a few quiet good bye's. I didn't tell, very few knew I was moving, it wasn't a celebration to me. My older brother, Thom (Class of '74) would stay around Howell for another year. That weekend spent with grandparents in Ypsilanti, to reflect the past decade of companions, tag football with Charlie Cobb,, Cub Scouts & Webelo's activities, and hikes, motorcycle riding with Dave Standler, the Saturday Bowling league at the Howell Bowl-e-drone, the one season of Little league with only one hit to first Base: "out" A flood of micro memories, each saying a gentle good-bye before a six hour truck ride, four of us squeezed into the blue '72 GMC cab, a truck we later found out that could get stuck on a wet leaf.. The flatness of farmland of rural Ohio, the ca-chunk, ca-chunk in the concrete highway, it was taking forever, silently staring out the fogged, the occasional water droplet dancing horizontally on the glass passenger window, winter snow, and corn stubble, fields devoid of life,, the rumble of a passing diesel, followed by the rock of the tail wind. Our southbound journey down US23, meeting up with I-75 in Toledo, further south a left at Dayton, continuing south on US68 to Maysville KY, the narrow two lane green bridge over the mighty Ohio River, a left on KY32 took us the rest of the way to Morehead. Thus began the second phase of my high school experiences in the cold, crisp grasps of winter..the lingering smell of coal and wood stoves burning their fuel. Evenings listening to AM radio, Wildcat Basketball announced by Caywood Ledford, while playing Solitaire on the kitchen table in the pickup truck camper.. Spring time brought the start of a new home, a flat house seat overlooking the valley to the south. My fathers life long dream to live on a dead end road, he always said, "the visitors are either coming to see me, or they are lost". It was 63 acres, of rolling hillsides and hardwood forest, a 1.5 mile walk to catch the school bus in the dark each morning. This was culture shock, in the everyday sense of rural America, livestock and farm work. The nearest small grocery over five miles, Trent's Grocery at Wagoners Fork (KY 173). During summer, an evenings ride on the ten-speed,, always weary of the country dogs who gave chase. Even the schoolwork seemed twenty years behind Michigan.educational standards I didn't do much homework, study hall provided the time to reflect on my teenage goals. and practice my triangle football skills on the tabletop in the cafeteria. This new chapter, a milestone, the trading of green and gold tartan,and Scottish heritage the McPherson family brought to Howell, for the green and gold of the rugged Viking, an era of teenage memories, a high school with around 600, plus another 100 or so junior high youngsters, a rural bus ride of over 15 miles, curvy ridge tops, and winding curves of KY32 along Christy Creek. It took several weeks for my innards to get used to bus route on #37.. Roger Trent, our bus driver knew the optimum speed for each curve, with the schedule, held everyone firmly in their seats, heads bobbing left, right, back to center. Blinded By The Light, Meet "Flash Gorham" For those who remember Rowan Co Vikings in the mid 70's, I was tall at 6' 6", a skinny young man with a 35mm camera usually in hand, nicknamed Flash by classmates. Started by using a small 110 camera equipped with a battery operated flash to record my memories. I up-scaled to a new Minolta 35mm SLR in December of 1976 for better quality and a variety of lens system choices, spending a large amount over the next six months, one telephoto set me back like $300, but wow, the ability to close-up shots at a safe distance. Always a photo opportunity in those years, for the Viking Voice newspaper, or more talented photos that adorn the Viking yearbooks. Many memories captured, but now forgotten, smile. Countless rolls of black & white film, Lord only knows where all those negatives are now. I did come across the Senior Trip scrap book recently, The color photos still look good, but everyone looked so young in 1977. For me, my second high school experience was finished in two and a half short years, with the help of a couple of correspondence classes in Science and Mathematics. finished just before the '77 Senior Trip for Daytona Beach Florida. The Winter snow storms of '77 kept us at home till Mid March, road salts were depleted in February, local Highway departs resorted to cinders, ash, and some sand on mountain roadways. Then came Saturday school sessions to make up classroom time. Who could get much rest on j...Expand for more
ust a Sunday? Our Senior year graduation came to a culmination on a hot, sunny day at the end of May, a sea of green and white gowns filled the lawn in front of the gym before the ceremony, All told 167 graduates, most in attendance. Moments later I sported my six inch platform shoes, towering way above everyone, then the trek across stage to receive my General diploma folder. I was all of the age of 16 and high school was in the rear view mirror., in my first car, a brown metallic 1970 Dodge Dart coupe came my way a week later.. The First Automobile, Freedom and Finding Work/School Balance Life moved on, the blockbuster summer movies of "Star Wars" in '77, "May the Force be with you". as I searched for purpose, that summer quickly vanished, Photo opportunities lessened, several weddings photograph.ed Next came the musical, a movie called "Grease" in the summer of 1978. quietly wishing I could find a girl like Sandy someday. The lingering tune of "Baker Street" on the radio that hollow, empty efforts of part time work in grocery, the drive to Mount Sterling Kroger store, most afternoons with the setting sun on my westerly drive on I-64 to work. Summer quickly faded to winter, and working hours scaled back.. Soon it was cost prohibitive, the 37 long miles one-way for just 4 hours a week. The college years at Morehead State, time for studies and part-time stock work after a transfer to the local Kroger's every Tuesday and Friday evenings at Trademore SC, saving every dime to cover tuition each term. With the assistance of an institutional work study, I tutored many students on BASIC computer programming skills, instructions to tell the machine what to do. Sorry profanity is not a language the computer understands, though most programmers mutter words quite frequently.. Some say I was suffocating Lincoln's holding the cash so tight. But with a BBA in 1983, an MBA in '84, I was debt free, The University Teaching Years I followed up my degrees by teaching 9 years of university level after graduation, at four institutions of higher learning, I got to see the cigar factories in Tampa just a block away from campus, those wicked afternoon thunderstorms (Tampa is the Thunderstorm capital of the World), then two years hearing the roar of the Kentucky Wildcats. followed up by evening instruction at a private college in Lexington until '92.. Music tastes put Bob Seger at the top, Fleetwood Mac, Bruce Springsteen, Bryan Adams on my playlists, An occasional Aerosmith tune, and the hours of coding with Journey. Don't Stop Believ'n, the guitar strums of the Eagles, Hotel California. There were concerts at college, names like J. Geils, Jefferson Starship where my ears rang for three days after, The Pointer Sister packed the fieldhouse. the southern tunes of Alabama, Oak Ridge Boys, and Hank Williams Jr., 8000 seats, a sea of cowboy hats in the AAC. My how the decades change and so did my music tastes, I may live near Music City now, but rock-n-roll still flows through my veins, my roots, Where has all that time went?. Vinyl albums, and CDs are now just a digital download away. A Restless Soul, A Thinker Takes a Life Journey The 90's brought about more change, the corporate travels, consulting in IT for Fortune 500 clients took me all over the Southeastern United States. Twenty years had passed since graduation. I arrived in Tennessee in the Spring of '97. Lots of opportunity in IT, at least four to six pages of computer jobs in the local newspaper, The Tennessean every Sunday. Instead I went through recruiters, the agencies such as Robert Half, Maxim Group, too many others to list The job assignments got me in the door of the Fortune 500. I spent close to 3 years with Deloitte, learning time & expense billing on engagements, Nashville became our home base. There have been millions of lines of computer code crafted for many corporate and government agencies. I still love Photography, riding my Motobecane MTB, on an exercise stand, those tall 29"wheel whirl each evening, quiet evenings playing Spider Solitaire, and an occasional good movie, shying away from "run & guns". I still root for the Detroit Tigers. I look forward to the movie theater visits once this pandemic subsides, and the pent-up frustrations and closter phobic anger fades. Anticipating, another saga, a new chapter in the James Bond, simply "Shaken, not stirred". Finding Comfort, Safety, and Solitude Several years ago, I left the consulting role, returned to Academia for the slower college pace of IT in a university setting. Most of my time spent researching logic coding errors, or occasional programming exercises written in C#, Javascript and HTML/CSS of web pages. Considerable energy spent daily querying (asking the database) for matching row results for leadership, and maintaining the integrity of the university databases. What started over lunch conversations with a colleague a fellow Morehead State Eagle: Dr. James Holbrook, I took an interest in Professional Sports Management, the front office duties, Sport Facility management, Sport Finance, and tackling my first class in Sports Law. Ace'd it. Taking a fast forward through 12 classes, many assignments, lengthy reports and writing assignments, my labor spread out over 2.5 years, almost every night, and weekend, completed my second Masters degree: Master of Arts - Sport Management (MASM), in August (2021) at Cumberland University. This new degree totally compliments my MBA I earned back in '84 at MSU, albeit technologies have drastically changed. The challenge of study after many years away from academia, required many long, dedicated moments, and a GPA worthy of membership in Gamma Beta Phi. The Next Generations, My Small Army My immediate family, the children are grown, all eight of them, with three currently furthering their studies at Cumberland University. They all reside in Tennessee. I live in a quiet city, North of Nashville, a "City By The Lake": known as: Hendersonville., just over 57,000 in population.. Our most famous city resident, none other than the late Johnny Cash. a city with many other talented Country Music artists also. A peaceful, quiet community most days, a town like most others, as franchise America establishments adorn most corners. I do miss the days of the Mom and Pop stores, like squeaking floors at Baldwin's Hardware, the strawberry milkshake soda at Spagnolello's, the 5 & 10 store, a $2 movie ticket at the Howell theater or the roller skating all day at the Roller-drome on Saturdays for $5 halfway to Brighton. Even the $2 haircut at Moe's Barber Shop as a young lad. (Another) City By The Lake For many years colleagues asked me if I was from Hendersonville, I would just answer "Nope", Nashville was my home. It was over eleven years ago, a close friend / co-worker asked "Why I didn't live in Hendersonville? You'd fit right in." Those aquamarine eyes had me, those words echo'd for a long period, Several contracts brought me to this city by the lake, the most friendliest folks you will ever meet. Hospitality must be the middle name here. In the Spring of 2015 I moved, shortly after their passing. During one of the many trips 30 minutes trips of transport of family belongings, I was once again living in a wonderful city that starts with "H", next to a large lake. This time it is Old Hickory Lake (honoring Pres. Andrew Jackson on the $20 bill), instead of Thompson Lake on the North side of Howell. Yes, those words still echo, missing them. They knew me all too well. Only 40 years had slipped by, the peace and tranquility by the lake.. With four grand children so far,, I hope they too, will love H'ville. My youngest, Miranda,(now an RN graduated from Cumberland University in 2022) got to graduate from Hendersonville High, a "Commando" for a mascot, and their most famous graduate so far is Taylor Swift, who recently has donated over a million $ to the school Music and Theater programs. Home is Where Hospitality Lives Tennessee has been good for my family, so many opportunities, for my growing family, and myself. Your imagination is the only limitation here, so many talented individuals followed their dreams to "Music City", even church services rate a musical five star rating . Some 26 years later, I still have a huge smile about the move. Yes I would do it all over again, Gracefully Staying Busy, my professional profile is on Linkedin for the details.. Thanks for stopping by. Take Care my friends. Later.
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