Lori Hart (Divorced x2):  

CLASS OF 1990
San antonio, TX
Dryden, NY

Lori's Story

Back then I was pretty quiet .. was in band .. played flute. I remember names from band like Richard Hernandez, crispin gomez, liz .. steve .. clarissa cooke, .. and ones from school in general cynthia, tracy, stacey, leticia V, Mike (snoopy), AJ, Sheldon, Mary svetlik, Julie V. Lilly B. (Hey Lilly .. interesting tidbit for you .. not sure why, my memory is shot .. but my mother always remembered you and said "Lilly was such a nice little girl" .. I thought you'd like to know that. Mom was special and you're one of the few she really liked .. not sure how you made such an impression .. but you did. :D ) .. remember a lot of them actually now that I think about it .. lol .. ones that I remember growing up with near me were Greg Jordan, James Penrose, Sean Scurlock, Rodney Hernandez, Susan Ford, Tammy Ford, .. my niece Amie Smith. Best friend from school honestly .. two seriously come to mind as long time friends when I was there.. Louise Hurley and Alex Korda. I wouldn't have given up my friendship with them for the world. Louise, if I had to go back in time and I could only have like one real female friend as a kid .. because of the type of friend that you were, i'd have you as my friend all over again. Thanks for being so great .. you had no clue, but as a friend, you simply glowed. And .. Alex .. i've got a million awesome childhood memories crammed into just a few years and a good majority of them are there thanks to you. So many good times. You're another one that was very special to my family .. one that folks always wondered what happened to. I'm very sorry about your brother. He was a great guy. Very glad you found your happiness as an adult though .. but as a kid,.... dude, ya hung the moon! :D Spent a ton of my nights skating at Skateland West with ones like "Doc", Ralph, Earnest, Booker, Strawberry, and Earl. I still say the owner of that place back then "Bobby" was the nicest guy on the planet. Did more for my self esteem as a kid than he could ever know. Thank you, Bobby, for letting me have a decent place to grow up loving .. and sorry for any hell I might have raised. Favorite teacher back then .. woulda been that gym teacher .. the male pudgy one from Southwest 2 .. back in 4th grade. I think that was the year I met Louise too... and Alex I think. Not sure. hmmm .. yeah .. it was .. I remember .. he was a clown even then. I miss his laughter and sense of humor. From regular southwest .. would have to have been that handsome band teacher that had the train wreck with his little car .. god, what was his name .. married the pretty dark haired teacher and broke a million teen gal hearts. I'll admit though .. that time in southwest was probably the most painful time of my life .. other than the few friends I had .. who I still care for even if I don't know them anymore .. daily, that place was a living hell and I wouldn't re-live it if someone paid me to. lol God .. remember pauline key? the principal in grade school? Arrrrrrgh that gal needed a boot enema!! (My mother thought so too.) Oh, and the nice teacher .. 5th grade I think .. the dark haired one that looked like a really snotty bird? Felt the need to make us all sing about the 50 states? She's another one i'd like to hit with a dodgeball now that i'm old enough to enjoy watching her reaction. lol Sorry, but I grew up to be a very honest person. lol I didn't get to actually "graduate" from Southwest .. I ended up going over to NOC .. Northside Opportunity Center. Had a boyfriend back then that did a good job of making me not care tons about school. (Yes, those were my stupid years). After the boyfriend .. I got married (real young) and was told by NOC that since I could technically write my own notes to stay out of school, I may as well just not come back. Yep, they told me that as a very young teen. So at about 14-15, I left school married .. got preg .. found out the guy was a jerk. Came back to NY .. had my son .. divorced the jerk. Ended up married one more time that wasn't exactly what I wanted but lasted about 8 years. Divorced him too. Did go back to school here in NY right around age 22 I think .. and went for my full highschool diploma ......... and when my mother offered to have a beautiful (and very large) gold class ring made for me .. I put "Southwest" on it and made the colors our school colors ... and picked "memories" as the little thingie on the side of my ring. Because no matter what else it was .... it was where I had the most (and best) friends of my lifetime. I raised my son on my own ... spent a lot of time taking care of him. He's developmentally disabled. Has the mind basically of a 4 year old. Very tall, and just the nicest kid you'd ever want to meet. Helpful and polite. Uses his voice for some things .. and sign language for others. (He's not deaf, I taught him sign to get his brain to slow down so he would use his voice.) It's been a really rocky life .. crazy at times. Some people might remember that for a little while, one of my brothers use to bring me to school on the back of a moped. (God I hated that.. but was nice of him to do so that I didn't have to go on the bus.) Back then, I loved running fast. Hated gym glass (or PE) with a bloody passion because most of the PE teachers were idiots that liked talking down to young people. I realized that back then .. and didn't appreciate it. I wasn't much for sports .. and they figured everybody should be. (Interesting now how the schools are starting to see that not every young person is a sports fanatic and are starting to set things up accordingly. wow, shocked it took them that long to figure out.) I've still got some real old pics from back in school .. names of half the kids in them, I couldn't tell ya. lol But I know I still have some. Will try to post them eventually. They really meant a lot to me. Honestly, i'd give anything t...Expand for more
o have pics from when me n alex use to go to the football games .. that was awesome times for me. lol too much fun. Or just hangin with the kids from the trailer park .. awesome times too. Still got a pic or two of louise .. she hasn't changed at all from the looks of it. Still looks like one of the world's greatest people. Well .. since school .. i've held on to my writing and my art .. grasping tightly. Still doing both .. though writing I do to a lesser extent. (Can ya tell? lol) Have made money with my art in more than one way .. still do on occasion .. odd ways actually. One way was tattooing .. I don't do that anymore as I had a stroke at age 30. I continued to help someone with their own tattoo career (until they messed that up) and do occasionally design tats for people (a paid service) .. however, most of the time lately, my art can be seen in the 3d products that I make for the cute little moving cartoon people on my other chat. (IMVU) .. or in the artsy contests over there. Can be a riot at times .. can also be a really boring place too. Depends on the day and the people around. Now that my son is no longer in the house .. i'll be going back to work and will have less time for my art .. still going to keep up with it though. (Upside = wont have to take in typing anymore... yay!!) This past 400+ days or so have been really hard. Lost my mother in December of 2008 ... and then lost my brother John in July 2009. Mom passed of a lower aortic anurism followed quickly by full cardiac arrest in the middle of the night early morning on the 16th of december. Then John .. a few days after mom passed away he was taken to a hospital and we found out he had cancer .. that he had actually carried colon cancer around with him for over 10 years. It was HIS wish that nobody be told .. and any of us that knew kept our mouth shut. Hardest thing I have had to do in my life other than having to be the one to make my mother's arrangements .. I may not have agreed with John's wishes .. but I did follow them. I loved my brother. Loved all four of them. Since then, i'm still doing executor duty for my mother's estate .. faught to keep the house that she willed to me. (Siblings didn't fight me.. the bank did. Anybody making out a will .. do NOT and I repeat do NOT allow your lawyer to put the term "Just debts" into your will. There is absolutely NO legal standardized deffinition of the term "just debts" and when a person dies .. it is up to individual lawyer interpretation as to what exactly the deceased meant by just debts. And sometimes .. the lawyer that you pick to handle the estate says nice things like "Well, they're gone now .. so it's up to me to decide what they meant since you're too close to the situation." So fair warning folks .. when making out the will .. if you wanna save family trouble .. don't say "just debts" .. take the time and spell out what you want done and who you want things to go to and what exactly you want paid.) Now, I take care of the house .. finishing up the estate .. getting things settled for my son in his new group home placement. (He's 22 now) Still riding motorcycle .. have two of them .. a 86 honda rebel and a 1977 triumph bon chop project. Other than that and the house being paid off .. I got my old beater car .. lol I wish it looked newer .. loved that car dearly. Still do. lol I do my gardening and take care of the grounds here at the house .. learning how to "winterize" .. i've never done that before. lol I'm sure i'm going to make a ton of mistakes. Who were my biggest crushes back then? Alex .. first and foremost. Then Greg J. I had a thing for Gabriel (who didn't?). Crispin was one. Trying to remember the name of the one guy from band .. older than me by a few years .. not gonna say what all we did on school grounds back in the day but i'm sure we shouldn't have done that. lol What was my deep dark secret back then? lol .. only had one .. and anybody that looks close enough at that picture on my profile is gonna see what it is. lol (God, I love a mystery.) I'm very happily engaged to a man in another country .. how strange is it that I have lived in the US my entire life .. but end up in love with someone who isn't here? After all of the strangeness of the past 38 years almost .. I feel a conection someplace and to someone like never before .. and eventually want to go "home" .. to Canada .. where my family started .. and to a man who my mother described as "Golden.. anyone is better for just being around him." In some ways, I feel like i'm very unlucky because I have to be here right now ... and in other ways, I feel more lucky than I have in my whole life. Maybe now for the last half of my life i've finally got my reward .. him and our life there. This mishmash of things brings us basically current. How would I hope "old friends" remembered me? Better than how they thought of me then would be a start. Would like them to look back on when they knew me and think, "Hmm.. now that i've grown some ... she was nicer than I realized .. and maybe even a little interesting.. wonder what she's doing now." Because it's how I remember a lot of the ones I knew over the years. Little things .. like "damn, he was the only guy that could out run me in 3rd grade and seemed soooo smart .. we didn't talk much .. but I wonder what happened in his life and if he found happiness when he grew up." :D I ride motorcycles. I worked for relay services for the deaf. Been married twice. Been divorced twice. Have too many tattoos to count. Not a druggie or an alcoholic. (Had my day with it.. that day has ended.) God, I miss climbing trees. Hated dodge ball. Wasn't pleased with my looks back then. Am ok with my looks now. Still love to read as much as always. I'm a computer geek. I'm still wordy.. maybe more-so. I miss who we use to be. I'm still me ..... Are you guys still you?
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