Michael A. Burke:  

CLASS OF 1961
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Rome Free AcademyClass of 1961
Rome, NY
Kaiserslautern,
Youngstown, OH
Groton High SchoolClass of 1961
Groton, NY

Michael A.'s Story

A Brief Biography of an Odd Duck and Military Brat : 27 Oct 2023 I'm an odd duck. I'm an only-child military brat (Army) and was born in 1944 (during World War II) at the Army base, Fort Monmouth, in northeastern New Jersey, where my father, Ray, was studying to be an officer in the Signal Corps. My mother, Dorotha, and I followed Ray around the planet from one duty station to the next (when he wasn't in combat) for the first 17 years of my peripatetic life. Ray was emotionally distant and an alcoholic and that, along with my being shy, quiet, and having no siblings, led to my becoming a bit of a "loner". But I'm also a survivor and smart and have lived an intellectually adventurous life. I'm an American mutt, equal parts Ukrainian and Polish from Ray, English and Dutch from Dorotha, and love being an American (but boy, do we have serious problems to deal with here in the U.S.A.). I also consider myself to be a citizen of the planet - everything on it is one connected system and everyone else's problems are our problems too, as we'll all see in the years to come (and right now in Ukraine). Dorotha was raised in Groton, a small town in central New York state after she and her parents moved there from northeastern Pennsylvania. This was the closest thing I had to a hometown since it was where Dorotha and I stayed with her parents whenever we were between overseas or stateside tours, also for two years during the Korean War, and for a year after Ray retired from military service for good and loafed (and drank). The largest industrial company in 1940's Groton was the Smith-Corona Typewriter Company with offices and factory located in downtown, and it was the economic backbone of Groton. Ray, after having spent three years in the Army, mustered out and came to town to see his older brother, Bogan, and older sister, Stella, and soon was working in the factory alongside Bogan. His being in Groton created the proximities and coincidences that allowed Ray to eventually meet ten-year-younger Dorotha - she was a knock-out in a shy and wholesome way and he was an intense, intelligent, brooding, and handsome Slav. He swept her off her feet and thereby ensured my arrival on the planet two years later! The courtship and marriage coincided with Ray's reentering the Army, this time as an officer candidate. Ray, along with his two brothers and two sisters, had grown up in Youngstown in northeastern Ohio, but their immigrant parents died young and the children scattered away from Ohio, most during during the Great Depression. I've had an unusual education, what with all our traveling and crazy schedules. I even spent part of the 5th grade in a country one-room school house in New York state near the Canadian border. I could write a book about education of children just from that experience. Learning took place while riding in cars and trains, on ships and planes, because I've always carried books to read and study when traveling. Dorotha made those times fun as well as educational, so I was seldom bored. I'm largely self-taught in the things I'm interested in, facilitated when I started reading at age 3 and doing arithmetic at age 4 (thanks for all the great tutoring, Mom!). Also, I have some understanding of why home-schooled children seem to do better than their classroom-educated peers. I skipped Kindergarten and was later advanced from 3rd grade to 4th in Jan 1953 while living at Pershing Heights, an Army Base in Tokyo Japan (from 1952 to 1953). Since then I've been at least a year younger than my classmates. Here's a brief history of my high school years. Note: All my references to Germany from this point on are to West Germany - it had been partitioned into two countries, West and East, after WW2 (and reunified in 1990). Ray had given up his officer's commission and was now a Master Sergeant. In 1957-1958 he was stationed in Kaiserslautern (called K'town by the Americans) in southwest Germany at Kleber Kaserne, one of a number of American military bases on German soil with the local names left intact. We had lived in Germany previously from 1946 to 1949, so this time around dealing with the culture and language was going to be a piece of cake - literally as well as figuratively - my favorite German dessert was "Schwarzwaldkirchtorte" aka Black Forest Cherry Chocolate Cake! We lived "on the economy", which means in a German apartment in town rather than in military housing on base. As a result I was speaking German (again) pretty quickly and generally "going native" - I even looked like "ein deutscher Junge" (a German boy). The reason Ray chose to live "on the economy" rather than "on base", in addition to the educational value of immersion in local culture and language (and despite Ray's alcoholism, he was still a self-taught, well-read intellectual who spoke German and had German friends), was that it made it harder for his commanding officer to track him down for after-hours duty. I attended the second half of 8th grade and most of 9th grade at Kaiserslautern American High School (KAHS). The school building was located in Vogelweh, a large residential, shopping, and recreational complex for American military families located two miles west of K'town - think of it as an American town plunked down in a foreign land. The school building also housed the junior high school (which would have its own building in Vogelweh a year later). KAHS also served Air Force brats from nearby Ramstein AFB until the Air Force built its own high school at Ramstein years later. I commuted daily via a military bus from downtown K'town to Vogelweh (and back) to attend classes. My best friend at KAHS was Robert Fuchs. We met on the transport ship carrying dependents (the families of servicemen) from New York City to Bremerhaven (on the northwest coast of Germany), and became close friends almost overnight. This is another trait of brats - rapid bonding (and equally rapid unbonding). Bob lived in Vogelweh with his family, so our social time together was mostly confined to KAHS. But we did have a couple of day-long outings in the summer. I've since lost touch with Bob (another common phenomenon among brats, especially before the advent of home computers and the internet), but if anyone reading this has any knowledge about his whereabouts, I hope you'll share it with me. I have strong memories of 9th grade at KAHS and feel an affinity for all my former "Brat" classmates. After all, we were all brats and that made us different - and special, in our own way!. The teachers were good, and I especially remember Miss Wilma Taylor, my General Science teacher, and Mr Rudolph Howze, my Algebra teacher. Both encouraged me to accomplish far more than I thought possible. The student body at KAHS included a sizeable "tough" crowd - at least, it seemed that way to me. There was also a contingent of serious athletes - KAHS was the leader in athletics and competitive sports among all the American high schools in Germany at the time. I was definitely a "fish out of water", neither a "hood" nor a "jock". I often fantasized about transferring to Heidelberg American High School located 40 miles east of K'town. It was the top academic American high school in Germany (as it should have been - after all, Heidelberg was historically the center of learning in all of Germany!), but this move was simply not possible. We left Kaiserslautern two months before the end of the school year, and I finished 9th grade at Groton Central School (GCS) in Dorotha's home town of Groton, NY where I had previously attended all of 1st grade and most of 2nd grade and which had become a familiar place to park my carcass between moves. I was jokingly known as "Invisible Burke: now you see him, now you don't" - the locals there obviously didn't have much experience with military brats! I ended up at three more high schools before graduating - 10th grade at Austintown Fitch High School (AFHS) in Austintown, OH, back to GCS for 11th grade, and on to 12th grade at Rome Free Academy (RFA) in Rome, NY. My 10th grade year at AFHS in Ohio was a good one. Ray was stationed at Lordstown Military Reservation, and we lived in nearby Austintown. AFHS was an advanced high school, and I took a lot of science and math courses and did well. I hadn't made any friends at school (no other brats around!) and was pretty much on my own at home since Dorotha had started as a sales representative for Cort Cosmetics (the in-home sales division of Cody Cosmetics) and had quickly moved up the ladder to district sales manager, and worked long hours away from home. Meanwhile, Ray was either absent from home or "out of it" most evenings (I think his troubled childhood in nearby Youngstown was haunting him). Fortunately, I knew how to cook for myself and had plenty of challenging homework to do and books to read (we had no TV) which kept me busy and distracted and free from boredom (but not from loneliness). In June Ray retired from military service. He'd been in long enough for a full pension, and we moved back to Groton (and Dorotha gave up her position with Cort/Cody Cosmetics). Ray goofed-off for a year - mostly drinking and carousing with my maternal grandfather at two local watering holes - while Dorotha worked in the Texaco gas station and general store, a very successful business she'd started herself years before when Ray was stationed in Korea during the war, and which she later sold to her parents in 1955 for the princely sum of $1 (it was a gift)! My 11th grade year at GCS wasn't so hot. At AFHS I'd already completed a number of what would have been junior-level courses in New York state, and GCS wouldn't let me take senior-level courses. So, the powers-that-be put me in the Industrial Arts (Shop) program for the year. Such are the hazards of being a brat! I specialized in Mechanical Drawing and Sheet-Metal Design and learned some useful skills, but, I was allowed to participate in several...Expand for more
special academic activities including taking a math course ("Introduction to Finite Mathematics") at Cornell University in nearby Ithaca, NY. It didn't count for high school credit but that was still more than OK with me - I've always loved math! In the summer of 1960 we moved to Rome, NY where Ray started a Federal Civil Service job at the Rome Air Development Center (RADC) next to Griffiss Air Force Base (GAFB), Dorotha had some part-time jobs, and I spent my 12th grade year in the college prep track at RFA. Once again I was playing the role of a loner, and my only close friend was Clyde Young, a fellow only-child odd duck (and gay - but still in the closet). His father, the school psychologist, had a total breakdown in the hall outside my classroom one day and was hauled off to the rubber room at the local hospital. And I thought my family had problems! Years later, Clyde would be killed in a ceiling collapse of his house within which he was making structural repairs unassisted. I participated in a few extra-curricular activities including the Colgate Seminar (at Colgate College in Hamilton, NY) and French and German Clubs. I also went out for field and track (specializing in shot put) but didn't make the team. I wasn't a jock, but I did try! Dorotha made a chef's salad for me every weekday when I came home from practice, and I lost 30 pounds that year! When we first arrived I had purchased a Raleigh 3-Speed English bicycle, and proceeded to ride all over Oneida County during the summer and the school year (except on icy winter roads). I even made a two day trip in the late spring of 1961 from the home of an aunt and uncle in Vestal NY (in Broome County near the Pennsylvania border) back to Rome with an overnight stop at my grandparents' home in Groton. (What I was doing by myself in Vestal with only my bike and a suit and a book is an interesting story for another time.) In June 1961 I graduated from RFA with General Academic, Science, and Math Honors and with enough 3.0 or better credit hours completed in New York state to earn a NYS Regents Scholarship. I was still 16 when I graduated, and Dorotha and I attended the commencement ceremony and I got my diploma. I turned 17 the following month. In the fall I was off to Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute (RPI) in Troy NY with an additional scholarship from RPI. I thought this would be a dream come true, but RPI turned out to be a bad fit for me, and I began a nine year nightmare of academic failures, jobs (some good and others bad), and a failed three year first marriage entered into when I was 19 and exited (her choice) with my heart broken. The end of the marriage was also the end of my relationship with Ray since he was a causative factor in its collapse. Dorotha divorced Ray at about the same time, and he left the "lower 48" to enjoy his retirement in Fairbanks, Alaska for the next few years, followed by a year in Chicago IL, and his final years in Prescott, AZ. He made it to 65. In 1982 all the booze and cigarettes finally caught up with him - the immediate cause of his death was heart failure. I flew to Prescott to handle his final affairs. I probated his will, had him cremated, and gave the eulogy at his military funeral (I did a good one). He left very little. I gave all his clothing to Goodwill and drove his Toyota Coupe back to Massachusetts non-stop (except for refuelling the car) - I was hallucinating by the end of the trip - and arranged for it to be delivered to Dorotha, now remarried and living in Hollywood, FL. I supported myself after my RPI debacle by working at Lafayette Radio Electronics aka Seiden Sound in Albany, NY, the city I lived in from 1963 to 1970. I was an in-store electronics service technician repairing anything and everything either sold by the store or ordered by customers from the Lafayette catalog. I later added commercial sound enginer to my list of titles by designing and installing commercial sound systems in area nightclubs and auditoriums. I had no trouble obtaining these jobs because I had been preparing myself for them by my self-studies and hobbies throughout childhood (I built my first crystal radio when I was 7 years old and started reading electronics books and magazines at 8 years). I eventually got my act together (those survival skills again) and completed a BS in Mathematics (with Minors in Psychology and Computer Science) from State University of New York at Albany and an MS in Computer Science from Penn State. I started a PhD in Electrical Engineering but got seduced by Industry. I had a long career as an entrepreneur and engineer (both as consultant and employee) in real-time computer systems and software and hardware design. I also was an Assistant Professor of Computer Science for four years at Fitchburg State College and a Lecturer in Electrical Engineering at Tufts University in Medford (a suburb of Boston) for two years. I retired from all that and then taught Computer Science and Math as an adjunct professor at Fitchburg State University for eight years. I retired again at the beginning of the pandemic and am now once again deciding what I want to be and do when I grow up (it's an on-going process!). I'm in a good fourth marriage that's lasted 23 years. My wife was born and raised in China (PRC), and she eventually emigrated to Boston with her husband. She's smart, was a pharmacist in China, and got her MS degree in Computer Tech at Northeastern University. She later got divorced and was working as a systems programmer when we met at a technical conference. Thank god she's learned a lot of English along the way, because I've tried to get my head around Mandarin and it's been a no-go. I'm not naturally skilled with foreign languages like some people (notwithstanding my having learned German as a young boy), and I wish I was. The plan was for her to eventually move in with me here in north central Massachusetts, but she could never tear herself away from "Bean Town" (ie, Boston). So we get together once a week at my house in the country or at her condo (which I helped remodel and furnish) in the city. I'm beginning to wonder if we could ever live together under the same roof 24/7! For the record, my first three marriages lasted: (1) 3 years to a manic-depressive Literature undergrad, (2) 17 years to an Art Historian from Brooklyn who later earned a degree in Computer Science - can you guess from whose influence this might have been?!, and (3) 3 months to an emigre from Gdansk Poland with a degree in Soviet Economics and two teen-age children who, thankfully, decided to stay in Poland with their father. I sponsored her and brought her to the U.S. and paid for everything - she must have thought I was a rich American (I'm not) - ouch! (I got her the citizenship she wanted, and she eventually married another American.) Being an odd duck (someone significantly different from the norm), I've tended to attract wounded (i.e., emotionally off-balance) women into my life, and my four wives certainly were no exception. In defense of my choices, each partner had her own outstanding qualities and each was different from the others, so, I was trying to grow and not repeat my mistakes - I just found new ones to make! I wasn't mean, indifferent, controlling, or unfaithful, and I tried to be a loving and interesting partner, and worked hard to succeed professionally and provide economic security for us (and for the whole family in marriage number two). It's just that two wounded partners in a marriage is one (or two) too many. And even though I thought I was a "good guy", I had to learn to accept my own wounds and my part in relationship failures and learn how to do the MOST difficult thing that one can do - to successfully make a consciously planned change and make it stick! My first experience with difficult changes was when my son was born and I gave up cigarettes cold-turkey after 13 years as a chain smoker - I'd started smoking at age 17. OK, enough of the psycho-babble! I have two adult children from my second marriage - a 46 year old son and a 44 year old daughter. Two years was a good spacing for their development and for their father's sanity - having been an only child is no preparation for parenting multiple children. They're both great people and successful in their lives and careers, and I love them dearly. They're both married and my son has just become the father of my first grandchild - a boy. Hooray, I've been waiting so long for this! I'm now writing my memoir, "The Autobiography of a Curious Character and Wide-Eyed, Only-Child, Army-Brat." This has proven to be the most difficult project I've ever undertaken, and I've started many (and completed most) during my 78 years on the planet. I hope to have the memoir completed and published this year or next. It's been a journey of discovery and been harder and taken longer to do than I anticipated. And I've had so much to learn about research, organization, and writing - and myself! And I'm still, and ever, learning! That's my brief story. I wish all the surviving students and faculty from my four high schools, all American military brats everywhere, and all the other players in this game of life, a good journey - because life can be painful and a real struggle, especially for us loners, free thinkers, gypsies, free spirits, seekers of knowledge and wisdom, wearers of our hearts on our sleeves, performers of random acts of kindness, and odd ducks everywhere. So, open your hearts every day to the blessings around you, and if you can't find or recognize those blessings, then bestow them, FROM YOUR HEART, to everyone around you! And, remember, most importantly, that you can't realize your wishes and expectations until you become equal to them. Regards from Michael A. Burke, 79 years old, still deciding what I wanna be when I grow up, trying to keep my brain running at warp speed (it's getting harder to do!) and my heart full of love.
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We had Texaco Maps for All 48 States of the US
Drive-Thru Redwood Tree Park in Leggett, CA
A Meal Stop at The Big Texan in Amarillo, TX
Our 1st house in Boalsburg (a Gunnison prefab)
At McCarthy's for dinner, drinks & camaraderie
First stop on our shop class trip to Syracuse.
Mr. Day prepping me to teach electro-nics lab
Cornell University, Ithaca, NY, in Autumn
Groton Jr-Sr High School, 400 Peru Road
I discover (and learn from) the Kingston Trio.
The 1959 Allied Radio annual mail order catlog
Me Golfing w/uncle Mike Cepin & cousin Martin
A close approximation of the Groton Texaco
Bored with life? Start a retail business!
The Family house at the top of Church Street
Main Street, Groton, NY in 1930s, facing south
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I end up at Penn State instead of Perdue.
Barbara starts a job as a Librarian Assistant.
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