Nancy Deusterman:
CLASS OF 1967

Harding High SchoolClass of 1967
St. paul, MN
University of MontanaClass of 1975
Missoula, MT
Grossmont Community CollegeClass of 1969
San diego, CA
Hazel Park Middle SchoolClass of 1964
St. paul, MN
Eastern Heights Elementary SchoolClass of 1961
St. paul, MN
Nancy's Story
Life
When I graduated in 1967, what most people didn't know, is that I made it by the skin of my teeth. As a senior I skipped 42 days, and my GPA for that year was a pathetic: 1.7. As my report cards repeatedly understated, I was "not working up to potential". So I was definitely in need of a turn-around, and by God's mercy and grace, I found it in California. I went from living in Minnesota in a depressing basement apt, alone with my divorced and alchoholic dad, who was never home; to living with my mom in a household of 10. As a legal resident with her, I could receive a tuition-free college education. That put me on a sunny San Diego campus, walking to my classes barefoot, sitting in on "rap sessions", learning the meaning of "anti-establishment", enjoying folk-singers on the lawns, and dropping down next to strangers on the grass to ask, "Do you think there's any such thing as 'ultimate truth'?" and "Who do YOU think Jesus was?" I had met some "Jesus freaks", "met" Jesus, and become a "freak" myself. Since then, life has been a bit like a giant Califorinia theme park. Sometimes rising to heights of joy and excitement, sometimes plummeting into doubts and fears, and sometimes just waiting in long, slow-moving lines. Sometimes the cars got derailed. But I met my husband back at the entrance gate, at the U of M. Together, we headed off to the Frontierland of working with Campus Crusade for Christ at the U of Montana from '71 to '75; then Fantasyland, or LA, and the UCLA campus from '75 to '77. Our daughter was born in '77, so we decided to leave that work and comeback to good ol' wholesome midwest St Paul, MN. Lived on Wheelock Pkwy from '78 to '83, and now we've been in Andover for 24 yrs. Our daughter and son both did considerably better at Anoka Highschool than I did at Harding. Recently, they've both entered the Adventureland of marriage and raising kids of their own. I feel like I'm in Tomorrowland, using a computer and the internet. And what about micro-waves? Just push a button, and a hot meal comes out of the wall!!! Anyway, I now work at a bookstore, and I love to read, and I have an idea. How about an alumni bookgroup? Very low maintainance and low commitment. Say...once every other month? We could read fiction, and discuss truth. I'll even throw out the 1st title: GHOSTS by Adrian Plass. It's about a reunion- ha! You can contact me at my home email, or on facebook, or thru classmates.com. Even if you just want to converse, and don't want to read. Because none of us really knows how long it will be before the park closes and we find ourselves out in the REAL WORLD.
School
Okay, I'll write a few memories. I was inspired most, probably, by Mr Peck, in English, and Mr Bryan, in psychology and humanities. Altho, singing some of those songs in choir was pretty inspiring too. With Mr Heyerdahl. I remember, "I wonder,as I wander". With Mike Giles doing a solo. Sitting with my friends, Sharon Youngberg, Pat Edmonds, Linda Bratvold... Brigadoon...Oklahoma. Neat times. I'd sign up for a time-travel vacation back to the choir room. But only if I could "know then ...Expand for more
what I know now". I wished for years that I could go back and do it again, but a lot better. Big regrets for the failure to thrive. I loved going to those outdoor football games, but I wished I could have been a cheer- leader. I was proud of walking 2 miles each way every day, but in the winter I hated having to wear corduroy pants under a skirt, and a wool scarf over my brush rollers, deliberately arriving late, so I could sneak in to a restroom without being seen, and comb out my hair. Anyone else ever do that? I had fun at the school dances, but I never went to a Harding prom. I think each year I had a date, but cancelled it beforehand, for lack of confidence. I wish I'd done my homework on time, taken Mr Peck up on his suggestion to join the debate team, gotten involved in student organizations more, got better grades. But if I could go back and do it now, I don't think I would. I read now for the love of learning. I've started a women's bookgroup, a couple's book group, card clubs, and a Moms-in-touch prayer group. I've researched familly history, and how it fit in with American and world history. I wasn't interested back then. Now I even know a lot of geography, because I have been fascinated to see where my ancestors came from. Anyone else doing that? I remember the great feeling of watching the weather turn warm out the windows of class, and then running out to the parking lot after school, when I was lucky enough to know someone, to climb in and go "hard- topping". Remember when we could cruise all the way around Phalen Lake? And the summer days, of swimming, tanning, and just hanging out. Tom Kolodzjaski did wheelies up and down by the beach. Dave Pellegrini '66, had a v w bus we called the "snagmobile", I'm not sure why. Oh yeah, that reminds me of how much fun it was in Mr Zachariasen's German classes. I liked my part-time job okay my senior year, at SuperAmerica. Every Sat and Sun, either 7 to 3 or 3 to 11. And that was another 2 mile walk each way. But I'd often get rides home from John Bystrzicki '66, also of German class. Hockey games were fun too. Watching some pretty amazing skating. I have great memories of spending the night with my best friend Loie Klemm, and my other best friend, Becky Hoban. Trying to play tennis at the Margaret St playground, and not having any idea how. Dates to see Sound of Music, and My Fair Lady, in downtown St Paul and Mpls. I was active some of the time in my Luther league group at Grace Lutheran on Old Hudson Rd, with Caroline Voss, Jo Gravink, Bruce Berndt, Micky Weber, Loie, of course, Lexi Daniski, Cheryl Stanford,and Steve Isaacson and I can't think of more without my yrbook. But I quit that too. Seemed meaningless after awhile. But I was searching for meaning. And purpose. And a right relationship with God. Hurray, I did find it. Well, He found me, I guess. I sure am thankful. I am thankful for all the good memories of youth spent with my Harding friends, and fellow-learners. I'm even thankful for the hard times and disappointments, that let me know I needed more. Ultimate truth and grace. From my creator.
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