Neva Burton:  

Life Well let's start from the beginning. I got married in June of 1975 and I had a son Daniel in December of 1975. We lived back in Junction City, Kansas where my Husband was in the Army at that time, and my son was born back there. We moved back to California in 1977 and lived about two houses up from my mom. I think it was in either 1978 or 1979 we moved up to Lodi and lived up there. My Husband ,my Son and I lived in Lodi until February of 1982 when I got the news that my oldest brother had past away while on vacation. My husband and my mother-in-law took me to the lake to tell me the news about my brother. I flew back down to Hawthorne for the Funeral. After that was over I went down to San Diego with my mom and my other brother, where he lived at the time. When It was time to go back to my Husband I called him up and told him that I was not coming back and I stayed in San Diego ever since. Three Months later I meet a man one night when I was out on the town and we have been together ever since then. It has now been 23 years together. We are not married nor will we ever be. After my Divorce from my husband I never remarried because of my son. I raised him by myself and with the help of my family and my boyfriend. My son will turn 30 years old this year, and just in August I took him to see his dad after 23 years. That went really good. So that's all that I have been up to since school. Just so you know my son is a little on the handicaped side. Bye for now Update: I know that this is a little late but last year about a month after we had came back from visting his Dad, my Son ended up getting married to some girl that I don't even know. My son says that she went to his school, when he was in school. We found out that she has a child by some other guy, and that her Aunt is raising the little girl as her own child. Her Aunt adopted the little girl because she is not able to take care of her own child. She too is a little on the slow side and needs help too. But she in turn disowned her family and has nothing to do with her family. She thinks she is very street smart and knows it all, but in reality she don't. They got married at the county record office, and did not tell any of us that they were going to do this. If we had know that they wanted to get married, then we would have had a church wedding like they should have. Instead there was a lot of hurt feeling and emotion that is going on to this day. I love my son and will do anything for him but I will not do anything for his wife. They have been left out at Easter and at Halloween. The same will be true for Thanksgiving and Christmas. My son is always welcome to come to the house by himself and not bring his so called wife. She is never welcome ...Expand for more