Paul Wisniewski:  

CLASS OF 1969
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Blue island, IL
Macomb, IL
St. Xavier CollegeClass of 1978
Chicago, IL
Chicago, IL

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Life For the last 26 years I have been in Sales Management for a distributor of speciality fasteners and electronic hardware. I live in downtown Downers Grove, IL. Bachelor's degree from Western Illinois University. MBA from Roosevelt University. After a 30 year marriage, I find myself "newly single", a kinder, gentler way of saying divorced. I have 2 spectacular kids: Danny, 31, married and a graduate of the University of Illinois and part owner of an industrial supply business; and Laura, 29, a graduate of Lewis University in Romeoville, IL. Laura is beautiful, single, and loving it, I think. In regards to my children, I have been blessed. Danny has given me 2 grandsons, Collin and Landon. I didn't think I could have this much love for for another human being, but these 2 little guys just melt my heart. I own a bass boat and spend a great deal of time in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan around the town of Crystal Falls fishing and hunting. I also spend as much time as I can in the Lake Tahoe, CA area downhill skiing, whitewater rafting, and 4-wheeling on the Rubicon Trail. Lake Tahoe is my favorite place on this earth to be. Also love to gamble, but not to excess. Can't seem to walk by a craps table without placing a bet on the pass line. Adrenline seems to be my drug of choice these days. I still love doing the edgier stuff !! One Cal Park'ers Lament My name is Paul Wisniewski and I grew up in Calumet Park, IL. I lived on 125th and Racine Ave. That's where there are no houses on the other side (east side) of the street. Cedar Park Cemetery was our other side of the street. I was there from 1956 when I was 5 years old and left sometime in 1973. Hadn't been back in many years until recently. Much to my shock and dismay I discovered that Calumet Park was gone. No I don't mean in a physical sense. It's still there physically. I mean it's soul is gone, and most of the people and places that made it such a special place to grow up in. Raceway Park is gone. Many a night we would be lulled to sleep by the distant roar of the race car engines as they sped around that 1/4 mile oval. And many other nights we would approach adult strangers at the track and ask them if we could pretend to be their kids, because kids got in Raceway Park free with paying adults. Now there are strips malls where the track and parking lot used to be. What a pity. The CPRA bond pool is gone. After many years of neglect and abandonment it was finally bulldozed down to make way for retirement housing. Man do I remember how hard so many good people fought to make that pool a reality, including my parents. Steve Horvath was the spearhead of that movement and worked tirelessly to make it happen. All you had to do to become a member was to buy a $100.00 bond. And you know for many people in the village in those days, that was too much money and they couldn't afford it. Today that amount of money seems almost laughable. So many summers we kids would spend at that pool having nothing but good clean fun. It's a shame that the local political leaders couldn't have found a way to have kept that pool for future generations of kids to have good clean fun in. I loved that pool. Gone also is Irene's food store at the corner of 124th and Racine. A little Mom & Pop store where they had penny candy and you could always get a little credit from them on a handshake. On Wednesdays Ray, Irene's husband, always made fresh Polish sausage. So every Wednesday night at the Wisniewski house we had a fabulous Polish sausage and sauerkraut dinner. All stores of that type are gone forever from Calumet Park. The Tastee-Freez is gone. That was one of our most popular hangouts. I also received my first kiss in the alley behind it. Chris Metros, do you remember? The Bullard family owned it in the early years and sold it to the Stripens family. Mike Stripens and I were good friends back in the day and he used...Expand for more
to give his friends a lot of free ice cream and hamburgers ! I wonder if his Mom ever really knew how much he gave away. How I long for a large chocolate Tastee-Freez milk shake. Seven Holy Founders is gone. That's where I went to grade school. The buildings are still there but it's not a Catholic grade school anymore. On my recent tour I stopped there with the intent of trying to get in and walk around for a few minutes to conjure up some old memories. It's some sort of middle school now. In order to enter the building I had to pass through a metal detector to get to the administration office. Can you imagine that ! There were security guards and metal detectors in my old grade school. Times surely have changed. And I was told it would be impossible to let me roam around the halls for security reasons. Not for the kid's security, for mine !! Oh well. The Miner-Dunn on 124th and Ashland is gone as well. The best hamburgers I've ever had, bar none ! Used to walk there to wait for the bus to Eisenhower and loved to have a cup of coffee and an almond crescent roll with butter. Man, I can smell the coffee as I'm sitting here writing this. My best friend in 7th and 8th grades, John Koch and I used to hang out there. We'd drink Green Rivers and smoke Lucky Strike cigarettes. They never seemed to care that we were only 14 years old. Stineway's drug store on 127th and Throop has been long gone. Stineway's was a major meeting and congregating place for us kids. There used to be mobs of us hanging out there. I wasn't able to figure out what's there now. Over the years whenever the subject of where did you grow up came up, I always found it difficult to find the right words to try and describe Calumet Park. It was a universe all and unto itself. That one square mile village of 10,000 people, where you knew or at least knew something about almost everyone. That place where I felt safe, secure, and loved. Where you had such a strong sense of place and purpose. How do you adequately tell strangers about this wonderful place and do it justice ? I wonder if other Cal Park'ers have had the same problem. So here I am 40 years after I left. 60 years old, divorced after a 30 year marriage with 2 grown children, wondering where all the years have gone. I don't remember my Dad much before he was 45 years old. I do remember him telling me many times the years go by faster as you get older. He sure was 100% correct on that. When I was 15 I didn't think he knew anything and that I had all the answers. Turns out that not only did I not have all the answers, I really didn't even understand most of the questions. It took raising 2 kids of my own and exposure to some of life's ups and hard downs to give me a small measure of perspective. I think that I'm becoming more and more like him every day. I think that's a good thing ! The years seem to be just flying by now as I contemplate my own retirement. Ah, the circle of life. Unbelievable !! My Dad and Mom have been gone for many years now. I feel like an orphan sometimes, especially around the holidays. I'm sorry that my own 2 children didn't have a chance to grow up in as wondrous a place as Calumet Park. It truly was special. I wouldn't trade my time growing up in the 60's in Cal Park for any other place or thing. As is my nature, I continue to look forward with an almost childlike exuberance to what the future holds. In my mind I'm still 17 years old and invincible. Unfortunately sometimes my 17 year old mind writes checks my 60 year old body can't cash. I know that you may have places that were important to you that are gone from there. These are just some of the ones that came immediately to mind as I sat down to write this. And as I've found out the hard way, you really can't go back. So I say to you Calumet Park, you may be gone, but you are certainly not forgotten. Respectfully, Paul Wisniewski (thewizbag at gmail dot com)
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