Rica Night:
CLASS OF 1974
Central Peel High SchoolClass of 1974
Brampton, ON
University of Waterloo - Arts & ScienceClass of 1979
Waterloo, ON
Burnhamthorpe Collegiate InstituteClass of 1974
Etobicoke, ON
Sunnylea Public SchoolClass of 1969
Etobicoke, ON
Norseman Elementary SchoolClass of 1969
Etobicoke, ON
Rica's Story
Life
When not working with words (I'm a semi-retired editor), I love playing with them: solving puzzles (esp. cryptic crosswords), playing games (esp. Scrabble), and of course reading voraciously.
For balance (playing *without* words), I also knit, watch movies (and, okay, a fair bit of TV), volunteer in various communities (personal and professional, actual and virtual), and dance whenever I can (mainly Contra Dancing, plus some English Country Dancing and a smattering of ballroom). In January 2010, I rejoined a Pub Trivia league.
A compulsive learner, I pursue an eclectic mix of mid-life enthusiasms: guitar (which I took up in 2009), psychology, and currently (starting January 2010, an online course via Skype in African-American Literature, taught by a dear friend who is a Ph.D. candidate at the University of Kentucky).
School
I had so many great teachers. In public school, one standout was Harold Moscoe (now a Toronto city councillor; then a terrific science teacher who used toy cars to teach physics and read great science-fiction stories aloud).
In high school, there were *so* many. I'm still in touch with my Grade 9 English teacher, Priscilla Costello, and have even spoken to her classes about editing as a career. And if I ever figure out how to get a message to Roger Martin, one of my Grade 12/13 English teachers, I'd tell him this: "You told me my essay writing was good enough to publish, and look at me now! I get paid to read (and fix) other people's writing, and to teach editing and writing. I only hope I'm half as good at teaching as those who taught me--and that I stick in my students' memories as long." And to Bruce Adlam (my Grade 11 history teacher and "Reach for the Top" coach): the grounding you gave me in essay writing stood me in good stead not only throughout the rest of my formal education, but also in my editing career. To Vic Ramanauskas (sp?)--my other Grade 12/13 English teacher--I've never forgotten the lesson you tried to teach me about meeting deadlines, by giving me 100 on an English paper (about euphemisms, if memory serves), and then docking me 50 for lateness. For every drama teacher, choir teacher, and teacher who incorporated a "public speaking" component into a class, I also owe you all a huge debt of gratitude, since I have made a significant chunk of my living doing presentations, seminars, keynotes, etc. (and enjoyed performing at karaoke bars in my spare time).
Crushes? I had a few, I guess, but I'm not ready yet to 'fess up. Of the folks I actually dated, however briefly, there are certainly a few who still turn up occasionally in happy memories. Several in both the secret-crush and actual-date(s) categories have turned up here on classmates.com, and it's been delightful to reconnect with them.
If I had it all to do over, though, I hope I'd have the sense to pay more attention to some of the really sweet, smart, funny fellows who apparently had crushes on *me*. Awash in ...Expand for more
adolescent hormones, I went after football players and the like, while ignoring--or, at best, being strictly "buddies" with--some guys who might at the time have been a bit geeky (even if we didn't use that term then), but who were (or eventually became) what I'd now consider to be Just My Type (i.e., Sensitive New Age Guys). One of them even wrote to me a couple of years after graduation to say that I was the most fascinating woman he'd ever met: I think I still have that letter somewhere. But even then, I wasn't mature enough to recognize his potential. Alas, although we *did* reconnect through this site about 2 years ago, he is Very Happily Married and a Doting Grandfather now. Sigh. (Fortunately, I'm quite contented being technically single: I live alone, but since July 2008 have been involved in a long-distance Friends With Occasional Benefits relationship w/ a brilliant, sweet, funny man who's 20 years my junior.)
Workplace
I floundered around a bit after quitting U of T in 1976, halfway through my 2nd year (I'd done my first year at Waterloo, where I lived in the Zoo, a.k.a. the Village II dorm). Intended to go back the following year, but it took me closer to a decade to go back part-time (majoring in sociology, minoring in applied linguistics). Supported myself doing office admin jobs until *finally* discovering--much to my delight--a career that fit me perfectly: editing.
I spent the ensuing 25-odd years blissfully being paid to read (as an editor, proofreader, and indexer specializing in textbooks, government reports, and marketing materials--freelance except for a 2-year stint in a professional services firm) and to talk (as an instructor of seminars in writing, editing, proofreading, and marketing one's services). Anyone who's ever known me would no doubt agree that I'm well suited for both roles.
Since early 2009, I've been essentially retired on long-term disability (due to the steady worsening of several chronic conditions that have dogged me since my 20s). To "earn my keep" in the world nowadays, I rely on volunteering as much as my health allows. My favourite gigs: I'm a peer leader for free workshop on "Living a Healthy Life with Chronic Conditions," and I put in a weekly shift in Bridgepoint Health's gift shop. I get way more out of volunteering than I ever put in.
The Story Wizard wants me to answer the question "To be truly happy, you would be where, doing what, with whom?" My response: I am truly happy almost anywhere, as long as I have people I can love and be loved by, along with something to do that I value, and something new to learn.
"... It's been a good life all in all / It's really fine to have the chance to hang around / And talk of poems and prayers and promises / And things that we believe in / How sweet it is to love someone / How right it is to care / How long it's been since yesterday / And what about tomorrow / What about our dreams and all the memories we share?"--John Denver
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